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MadameMarque -> RE: IfYouAreOverWeightHowDoYouExpectaDomToBelieveYouCanMeetHisNeedsWhenYouNeglectYourOwnHealth? (10/17/2009 10:49:47 AM)
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Well, your posts just ooze anger and resentment, borne out of frustration over the illusion of what women owe you. Did you want some help with that? It's alright, there's no shame in asking for help.
If you simply weren't attracted to heavy women, you just wouldn't date them. That's okay, it's a matter of personal attraction, not equal opportunity employment. But to go out of your way to show your aggressive resentment toward them, using gratuitously hurtful terms such as "slob sled," questioning the very worth and right to self-respect of anyone who's obese - and on top of that, to dish out some bitterness to slender women with ample breasts, and deem the company of hard bodied people "superficial" - that's a personal problem.
Here it is: Women do not owe you anything. They don't owe it to you to make themselves attractive to you, and they don't owe it to you to make themselves available to you, when they are attractive to you. Calling people with hard bodies superficial is like calling someone you find sexy a slut, because every time you look at them, you think slutty thoughts. Suggesting that people who are physically attractive are therefore shallow, or not as nice, or not as good a people, more materialistic, not as smart, etc, etc - makes you the shallow one, for thinking their looks are everything about them. And what the hell's wrong with someone being a "self-proclaimed hottie"? Would that we all were, confidence is a blessing. And if those people who are generally considered very attractive want to make some money off of entertaining others with their beauty and sexiness, why shouldn't they? Just because you have a personal problem with it?
I understand your frustration. But when it turns into a need to lash out, you need to look at yourself. You need to get that in check.
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ORIGINAL: blacklion
Why did I post this one ...simple...To provoke a discussion and low and behold it did just that. It really does not mater what I post at this point. The regulars will look upon my posts in a negitive light. I applaud you little one ( matt) for being bold enough to step up and share your view...I know it was not easy..however the differene bentween the scaed and the brave is the brave do it anyway. I do not personally have issues with the 65% of the population who are over weight...in fact the company of hard bodies I find to be more superficial...yet on the flip side there isa point when I see a 400 plus pounder at walmart zippingabout on a slob sled..that is unacceptable to me...then back to the thin mint side of things shapely women use their ASSets such at a strip club or hooters.....I would not pay to have some c breasted self proclaiemd hotty try to milk me like a sow for the business. Now.....my question was on the up and up......the shotat me at the end of your post was in poor taste as I did not single out anyone it was a over all inquiry. you are pitchin g people im winding up my bat let it fly :)
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