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Aimtoplease101 -> Ball kicking (3/5/2006 11:43:12 PM)

Not too long ago I had a session with a pro domme in Southern California. We had discussed, in advance, that the session would include a generous amount of CBT.

Her definition of CBT expansively included ball kicking, which I was game to try.

While the pain I felt was manageable, and comparable to other forms of CBT, the kicks had the unfortunate side effect of making me quite nauseous-- a decidedly non-erotic condition. Luckily the scene moved on from there and the sensation faded.

Has anyone else experienced this? Any idea what causes the feeling?

ATP




cacodylic -> RE: Ball kicking (3/6/2006 12:02:45 AM)

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Any idea what causes the feeling?

Uh, maybe the product of a few tens of millions of years of evolution? LOL
I personally can't understand why any male would want to submit to CBT. Just my take, you understand, but it is hard-wired...




Focus50 -> RE: Ball kicking (3/6/2006 1:47:31 AM)

It's most likely just your body telling you this needs to STOP - IMMEDIATELY!

Nausea often precedes throwing up or fainting. In your case of getting kicked in the nuts, your body was probably about to shut you down because it couldn't handle the trauma. And since the body's owner wasn't really listening to the warning signs, it's probably just as well luck played it's part when "the scene moved on from there"....

I prefer "luck" to be a last resort that hopefully helps out if I've been an ass or honestly ignorant.... Obviously (as a straight Dom) I'm not into CBT but I'd be surprised if getting *kicked* in such a delicate area actually constitutes safe or "normal" CBT play. Frankly, I find it difficult to believe any "professional" can safely kick you in the balls. Hopefully you've got all the kids you'll ever want....

Focus.




incognitoinmass -> RE: Ball kicking (3/6/2006 8:09:37 AM)

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Any idea what causes the feeling?


Yeah, your body trying to tell you that your health is at risk. This sort of thing is well outside the boundaries of safe play. Anyone who wants to do this to you is not someone you want to spend anytime with.





Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 5:34:14 PM)

I think you guys have a different image of what this type of scene is all about. It's not Sebasten Janokowski with a steel toe boot winding up for a 50 yard field goal attempt. It was barefoot, controlled, precise and, while it certainly entailed some pain, still rather erotic. The Domme in question is a well-respected professional in the L.A. area, and was a safe player.

I've had some heavy pain scenes in the past. This was not like that, but had the unfortunate side effect of nausea.

Thanks for your comments nonetheless.
ATP




yourMissTress -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 5:44:37 PM)

hi atp, I have a question before I respond to you. When She was kicking you, was She kicking from the top in and down or was She kicking from the bottom up and in.

You mention that you've had heavy pain before, but was the heavy pain applied to your testicles?

Also, how recently had you eaten, drank alcohol, or taken any medicatons?

Ok, it's more than one question.




Arpig -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 5:49:28 PM)

I have been kicked in the balls in a non scene related situation (more of a smart-mouthed twit in high school situation), and that feeling of nausea is what happens when hit in the balls...unavoidable I'm afraid.




yourMissTress -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 6:14:08 PM)

I disagree with you Arpig. I've been practicing CBT for a little while now and I've learned a thing or two.
Not all men are identical obviously, but for the most part, there are some basic similarities. There are more nerve endings in the base of the scrotum and when hit or kicked from the bottom up, there is a good chance of nausea and a great deal of pain. When hit or kicked from the top down, while there is still pain, the amount of pain compared to the force of the blow is less, and there is less chance of nausea.

I have played with subs on both ends of the spectrum when it comes to pain tolerance and CBT. Not every man that gets hit in the balls experiences nausea.




truesub4u -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 6:45:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

I disagree with you Arpig. I've been practicing CBT for a little while now and I've learned a thing or two.
Not all men are identical obviously, but for the most part, there are some basic similarities. There are more nerve endings in the base of the scrotum and when hit or kicked from the bottom up, there is a good chance of nausea and a great deal of pain. When hit or kicked from the top down, while there is still pain, the amount of pain compared to the force of the blow is less, and there is less chance of nausea.

I have played with subs on both ends of the spectrum when it comes to pain tolerance and CBT. Not every man that gets hit in the balls experiences nausea.




Has to laugh........ knowing Master is crossing his legs as I repeat this post to him in IMs... lmao[:D][:D]




LaMalinche -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 7:16:20 PM)

I will kick you. . . and you do not even have to pay me. . .

Best,

LaMalinche





Evanesce -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 8:19:27 PM)

quote:

Not all men are identical obviously, but for the most part, there are some basic similarities. There are more nerve endings in the base of the scrotum and when hit or kicked from the bottom up, there is a good chance of nausea and a great deal of pain. When hit or kicked from the top down, while there is still pain, the amount of pain compared to the force of the blow is less, and there is less chance of nausea.


It's also extremely important that the individual doing the kicking have VERY good aim. The idea is to land the primary force of the blow *between* the testicles, rather than directly on them. Ruptured testicles do not make for a fun scene. Odds are, the nausea the OP felt was from injury to his testicles.




truesub4u -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 8:40:51 PM)

<takes notice to even some females begining to cross legs as well.>

WOW... can always tell a great sadist... they can make anyone cringe..... male or female.... . break out in a sweat... and shiver slightly with the excitement behind the mere thought.




Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 10:34:53 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

hi atp, I have a question before I respond to you. When She was kicking you, was She kicking from the top in and down or was She kicking from the bottom up and in.

You mention that you've had heavy pain before, but was the heavy pain applied to your testicles?

Also, how recently had you eaten, drank alcohol, or taken any medicatons?

Ok, it's more than one question.



Hi Tress---

I'll try to take these in order.

She kicked from different angles, but managed not to kick in such a way that the testicles were ever crushed against my body-- they were knocked back, down, upwards (but not into me).

I've done a fair amount of CBT play (but nothing like the "nailing his balls to a board" episode you've posted about). That's included insertions, sounds, cock whips, finger nails, Icy Hot, twisting, pinching, squeezing, weights, clips, etc., and even use of so called "ball crushers" on lower levels of settings.

I was pretty well hydrated for the session, as it was of some extended length, but had not eaten in several hours and did not any alcohol, medication, drugs, etc., in my system.

Regards, ATP




Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Ball kicking (3/7/2006 10:38:59 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Evanesce

quote:

Not all men are identical obviously, but for the most part, there are some basic similarities. There are more nerve endings in the base of the scrotum and when hit or kicked from the bottom up, there is a good chance of nausea and a great deal of pain. When hit or kicked from the top down, while there is still pain, the amount of pain compared to the force of the blow is less, and there is less chance of nausea.


It's also extremely important that the individual doing the kicking have VERY good aim. The idea is to land the primary force of the blow *between* the testicles, rather than directly on them. Ruptured testicles do not make for a fun scene. Odds are, the nausea the OP felt was from injury to his testicles.


Hi Evanesce-- If so, it was pretty minor and short term. The feeling subsided during session, and I did not have any ill effects afterwards other than a little soreness. No blood in the urine, unusual swelling, or anything like that.

Regards, ATP




Arpig -> RE: Ball kicking (3/8/2006 6:57:36 AM)

Tress, I will bow to your greater experience, as I said, all my experience was non-voluntary [;)], and always from the bottom-up angle.
I have, however, made note of what you said, now are there any boys in my area who would like to help me investigate this further????[;)][;)][:)]




Magnum44 -> RE: Ball kicking (3/28/2006 10:46:47 AM)

I love having women kick me in the balls, been doing it for almost 30 years. I also love to have a woman stand on my balls with her bare feet while they (my balls) are laying on a hard surface (counter, coffee table etc.). It even adds more to the experience if she threatens to stomp or crush them. I have had some hard kicks over the years and have 4 kids and even had a perfect checkup at the urologist about a year ago. The hard part is finding women willing to kick me. It's never been a problem for my girlfriends or wife but aquaintences or just friends has proven to be very difficult to get them to kick me (yes, with my wife's permission of course). Anyway, squeezing, punching, kneeing are all fun too. I just thought I would throw my 2 cents in  for you all.




Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Ball kicking (3/31/2006 1:48:18 PM)

Do you ever get that queasy feeling in your stomache as a result of ball kicking? (See OP).

Regards,
ATP




Magnum44 -> RE: Ball kicking (4/1/2006 10:30:09 AM)

I don't recall getting that feeling in my stomach. Don't get me wrong, I do feel it in the gut but not like I'm going to puke or anything.




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