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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/6/2006 7:09:16 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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ORIGINAL: floorkitten

..........the truths and integrity i have sworn to myself

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I agree with floorkitten. Although my desire to please is very much a factor, there are obviously times when the dominant would never find out that I hadn't done what was expected. Would he be displeased? Not if he was under the impression that I was holding up my end of things.

What keeps me in line is what I consider internal honour or integrity. I WOULD know, and that would be enough.

My worth is only as good as my word.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/6/2006 7:27:26 PM   
BLKSIRESwench


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Status: offline 		So many good answers, i fear i have little to add.

Like others, my need to please Sire and my commitment to Him is paramount. At one time i did do something to displease Him and, while the physical punishment hurt, it was the disappointment in His voice when He said, "you have disrespected Me" that hurt worse.

Never, in the more than 20 years that i have known Him, has He ever gone back on His word, broken a promise, or disrespected me. i owe Him no less.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/6/2006 9:22:10 PM   
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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/6/2006 10:08:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		He is the One Man Who takes control of me and my desire to please and excite Him is what keeps me in line. When He is disappointed in me, my world falls apart....i am crushed and can think of nothing else but how to get back into His good graces.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/8/2006 7:16:40 PM   
catize


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Status: offline 		I submit because it fulfills me to do so. His smile and words of praise are what I strive for.
If I submitted only out of fear of punishment, it would be coercion, not submission.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 5:29:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		When he gets 'that look' and uses 'that voice' I know things are serious.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 6:44:05 AM   
Merritt27


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Status: offline 		Hearing the words "you disappointed Me, little one". They cut through me like a knife.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 7:35:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you

Ok Subs and Slaves,
What one thing keeps You in~line
when it comes to Your Master/Mistress/Switch?

Maybe it is the way He or She just looks at You?
Or the way they move there hands?
The way They hold a favorite toy?



1. Committment - to him, the dynamic, and submitting to him
2. Desire to keep him pleased

Sorry, I just couldn't narrow it to one thig.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 8:17:00 AM   
shiava


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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 8:59:43 AM   
amaidiamond


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Status: offline 		If I am in a relationship and i displease I feel like my world has ended, so its maybe that, my desperate desire to be pleasing at all times and never to let Him down or cause Him to loose faith in me, thats the worse thing I can imagin, worse than any punishement. For me needing to be punished, knowing I have caused Him to have to do that is worse than the actual punishment itself, the act of punishment itself is then a type of absolution, I never want to feel the sick feeling in the pit of my stomach if i know I have displeased so I guess thats a lot of what makes me try my hardest not to.

*edited to try and find clarity*

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 9:43:36 AM   
slaveq


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Status: offline 		my Lady's pleasure means everything. To disapoint Her causes what can only be described as physical pain to myself (and not the good kind! ).

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 11:43:19 AM   
Haole30m


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Status: offline 		When one truly loves, and submits to their Top... Why should they ever consider getting out of line? Is it not better to please ones Top, and do you're best to keep them happy? Even when you want to be used, and or abused, its best to just ask for it, instead of upsetting you're Top. My love, and submission to the one I love, and belong to is more then enough to keep me in line.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 2:01:09 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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Status: offline 		He gets this tone and he looks at me with daggers in his eyes. I just want to run over and kneel in front of him cuz I know that I messed up big time.

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RE: What one thing keeps You in~line? - 3/9/2006 6:26:27 PM   
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