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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 6:13:06 AM

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Watching her masturbate doesn't really trip my trigger. I will make her do it sometimes with the Magic Wand or the Eroscillator just to watch her squirm. That I enjoy. She really enjoys watching me masturbate but does not enjoy it as much when she can't join in so I'll often limit that activity to moments when she is restrained to get more mileage out of it. I rarely ever masturbate to climax with her. Fucking always trumps masturbation for me.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 8:00:32 AM

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I love watching my master masterbate and he loves watching me.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 8:02:01 AM

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 9:21:08 AM

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I am extremely open, more so than he wants me to be, and I still find it boring to watch him jack off. now maybe if there was acrobatics or something involved it'd be interesting, but watching someone rubbing up and down on their dick and moaning, no not interesting.

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yes i agree with that too...
my experience is that many people are not very open... so they simply might not be open to seeing the sexiness in someone else being open, even if the someone else is their own partner...

being open to it is the key

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 11:15:17 AM

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I stand corrected... obviously for some people it is extremely boring to watch a man pulling on a dick... unless he does acrobatics at the same time

like AAkasha asked: could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 5:06:17 PM

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I suppose if he did it differently it may be interesting, I did have an x of mine one time use my feet to jack off and that was kind of interesting. Or maybe if he lubed my butt cheeks and I layed there for him and he fucked my cheeks, course then I wouldn't be watching cause I'd be face down lol.

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I stand corrected... obviously for some people it is extremely boring to watch a man pulling on a dick... unless he does acrobatics at the same time

like AAkasha asked: could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 5:21:56 PM

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This has been a very interesting thread for me. I always assumed that most kinkers shared my interest in seeing those who interested them masterbate, but it would appear that am not with the crowd (like that's a surprise ;) ).

Thank you all for the replies and thanks to the OP. I do like understanding the views of others and especially understanding what does or does not turn others on.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 6:29:27 PM

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This thread reminded me that it had been too long since I checked out "this day in masturbation" on my favorite porn blog. Hot guys jacking off is fun to watch. In terms of real life partners, I'm usually too greedy about contact with the penis to think about sitting back and watching. I suppose it could be hot, but possibly impractical as the result of him finishing himself off would be my immediate attempts to resuscitate his member so that I could play.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 6:48:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: ranja

I stand corrected... obviously for some people it is extremely boring to watch a man pulling on a dick... unless he does acrobatics at the same time

like AAkasha asked: could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?

Maybe if he did it while jumping on a trampoline?

To the OP: yes, I enjoy watching a woman masterbate.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 6:55:25 PM

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For those of you who enjoy it, do they have to be able to orgasm? I know women are supposed to orgasm easier if doing it themselves but I don't. I usually don't reach orgasm by myself, I think because my hand gets jerky and I lose the rhythm. If I was embarrassed, then it would be even more difficult to cum.

He's never demanded I do this for him but he knows it's unlikely I would orgasm.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 7:06:50 PM

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For those of you who enjoy it, do they have to be able to orgasm? I know women are supposed to orgasm easier if doing it themselves but I don't. I usually don't reach orgasm by myself, I think because my hand gets jerky and I lose the rhythm. If I was embarrassed, then it would be even more difficult to cum.

He's never demanded I do this for him but he knows it's unlikely I would orgasm.

I have never requested that a partner do this for me, but I have honored requests from my partner that I do so. And I must say, it is extremely intimate, and yes, embarrassing. Ceiling cat is watching you, etc. I think that for many watchers, the need for the doer to conquer that embarrassment is part of the thrill.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 7:07:10 PM

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I enjoy watching a man I am with masturbate. When wouldn't I like it? Hmmmm, if it was somehow a negative exclusion of me, though I have not experienced that, knock-on-wood.
My ex- was absolutely opposed to watching me masturbate. I think it tweaked his insecurities. Other men I have been with have loved it: I men generally do seem to enjo watching.
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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/19/2009 7:07:50 PM

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One of the last things in the world I want to see is a man masturbating.........just imagining it gives me a big EWWWW reaction. Demanding a woman do it for a performance is not high on my "oh wow yes" list.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/20/2009 9:16:23 AM

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Daddy doesn't put pressure on me to orgasm, if I want to masturbate and he wants to watch it's all very non pressure.

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For those of you who enjoy it, do they have to be able to orgasm? I know women are supposed to orgasm easier if doing it themselves but I don't. I usually don't reach orgasm by myself, I think because my hand gets jerky and I lose the rhythm. If I was embarrassed, then it would be even more difficult to cum.

He's never demanded I do this for him but he knows it's unlikely I would orgasm.

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/20/2009 9:23:43 AM

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oj, cjeqk ths ooot

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/20/2009 9:24:51 AM

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...Do you like to watch men (you find attractive and/or are involved with) masturbate?...

yes, very much.

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...Does the method he use impact the "show" for you - ie, could the same man masturbate in one manner and it would be hot, but if he did it in a different way, not be hot?...

doing it on His own steam---waaaaaay HOTTER than if He is using someone else's hand...but we are working on that!!!

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/20/2009 9:33:26 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

For those of you who enjoy it, do they have to be able to orgasm? I know women are supposed to orgasm easier if doing it themselves but I don't. I usually don't reach orgasm by myself, I think because my hand gets jerky and I lose the rhythm. If I was embarrassed, then it would be even more difficult to cum.

He's never demanded I do this for him but he knows it's unlikely I would orgasm.

It was at first the best thing to try and forget He was there... just get into your thing and enjoy...

i like watching myself as well... in the mirror... that might help you see the sexiness in it and make you slaver about it a bit more...

it is all about letting go and being nicely dirrrrty aaaallll the waaay

and think look, look, loook at meeeee

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/20/2009 1:10:17 PM

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I don't like it when women stretch their vaginas to entice a man. It's just like, look how big it is!

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/20/2009 1:20:09 PM

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I don't like it when women stretch their vaginas to entice a man. It's just like, look how big it is!

Do you mean the ole gynecological shot with someone using their hands for maximum sprawl or do you mean using implements? I actually find both unappealing, though the implements portion may have some fascination with size taken.
Davan
(Nice cock pic, btw)

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RE: Watching someone masturbate - 10/20/2009 1:23:16 PM

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I guess both. Kinda meant more with the hands, though. I mean if your going to break speculums out it's probably intended that you both like it

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