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question - 10/19/2009 9:19:57 PM   
desiresmet


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RE: questioAnswern - 10/19/2009 9:53:12 PM   
Elipsis


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RE: question - 10/20/2009 1:27:33 AM   
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RE: question - 10/20/2009 6:08:44 AM   
CarrieO


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You identify as a switch...what's your answer?

Mine would be yes.

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RE: question - 10/20/2009 7:17:57 AM   
Wolf2Bear


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Status: offline 		If the switch is growing as a person and as a switch yes they can be. Some are inclined to relate more to one or the other and some develop both aspects fairly equally. 

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RE: question - 10/20/2009 12:49:38 PM   
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RE: question - 10/20/2009 2:14:53 PM   
LadySatara


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RE: question - 10/21/2009 3:28:03 AM   
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RE: question - 10/21/2009 3:48:49 AM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		I've self identified as a switch for close to 30 years. The true duality of my nature has been called into question often by those who do not know me. This tends to be from those who are either very rigid in their thinking, or new to BDSM.

Over the years, I have evolved a great deal as both a submissive and a dominant, and I would say a great deal of that has been because of my other side.






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RE: question - 10/21/2009 9:06:09 AM   
Acer49


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ORIGINAL: desiresmet

can a switch be a good sub and a good dom?


If they put forth enough effort and the power dynamic issues where resolved I do nt see why not

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RE: question - 10/24/2009 1:35:38 PM   
devilishpixie


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RE: question - 11/26/2009 10:57:34 PM   
Azlan


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RE: question - 11/26/2009 11:17:55 PM   
tsatske


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< Message edited by tsatske -- 11/26/2009 11:18:19 PM >

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RE: question - 11/28/2009 7:10:18 AM   
DarkMasquerade


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RE: question - 11/28/2009 10:38:31 AM   
Tinkerer


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RE: question - 11/28/2009 3:47:53 PM   
Acer49


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quote:

ORIGINAL: desiresmet

can a switch be a good sub and a good dom?


I do not see why not

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RE: question - 12/3/2009 1:22:13 AM   
LoopyLouUK


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Status: offline 		They can be good or bad - all depends on the person. What I have found is that you can relate more with the sub when domming them if you have had the same experience you are giving them, this does not mean that to be a great Domme you need to be a sub first its just my personal opinion based on experiences.




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RE: question - 12/17/2009 8:29:20 PM   
johndafreak


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I can

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RE: question - 12/18/2009 12:51:25 AM   
fadedshadow


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RE: question - 12/18/2009 11:20:10 AM   
breatheasone


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ORIGINAL: desiresmet

can a switch be a good sub and a good dom?

Yes.


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