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spiceguy2009 -> THE ONE (10/22/2009 9:12:42 AM)

A couple of weeks ago I was contacted by a Dom on Collarme.com, and was curious. I am new to this lifestyle and am extremely inexperienced. Like most people who know very little about BDSM I had only my fantasies, most of which are brawn from fiction and porn.

I went over to his house and was surprised to learn he was not as experienced as I had thought, but more than experienced enough for me. Our first session was intense, and I was reeling from it for hours. I learned about subspace and the inevitable drop.

He was extremely supportive and informative, making sure I knew what would happen, and how I should handle it.

We have seen each other multiple times a week and our sessions have become more intense and more satisfying every day. He is extremely patient and at the same time demanding of my limits and inexperience. I spend allot of time, when we are apart, looking forward to when we will be together.

I am not speaking of Love here, to me that is another four letter word, I am speaking of connection, a primal animal connection that I feel in the pit of my stomach and the base of my cock every time I am around him. I fantasize about our sessions every evening and look forward to another every morning.

I am so grateful for this site and the opportunity it has afforded me, and hope others who are still looking will find the same kind of satisfaction I have in their connections.




mnottertail -> RE: THE ONE (10/22/2009 9:14:20 AM)

Ah yes, the spice of life, eh spiceguy?

Good one on ya, keep on keeepin on.

Another kinkster is born in Bedlam.

Ron




IBused -> RE: THE ONE (10/22/2009 8:20:53 PM)

cool dude...cool girl...cool innocence with thier kink on....Lucky naivity...that's the best scene..eva




LanceHughes -> RE: THE ONE (10/23/2009 11:00:15 AM)

IBused: It seems OP is taking about a gay relationship.  Spice GUY is taking about a male Dom.  At least that's how I read the OP.  Oh... yes, if you check SpiceGuy's profile you'll see that he's gay.

OP:  I hope it contintues for a long time... Let us know how it is when the "bloom is off the rose."  Seems like "a few weeks" is a little early, but glad you're having a good time.  Seems the Dom is, too.   Just sayin'




spiceguy2009 -> RE: THE ONE (10/24/2009 3:00:40 PM)

Yes he appears to be rather pleased with my progress, and service.




fluffypet61 -> RE: THE ONE (10/25/2009 5:51:24 PM)

Such a beautiful good beginning.  i hope you remain very satisfied with the connection.
 
Isn't it nice when real life dishes (yep, pun intended) out the best we dare to imagine!




spiceguy2009 -> RE: THE ONE (10/26/2009 8:16:36 PM)

Yes it is Fluffy, and like he has said to me many times, "Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it!"

Thankfully he has been right.




LanceHughes -> RE: THE ONE (10/28/2009 7:12:21 AM)

You say "he was not as experienced as [you] had thought."  I'm curious. Since you are a total beginner, what did you expect his experience level to be?




spiceguy2009 -> RE: THE ONE (10/29/2009 9:34:43 PM)

if experience were degrees, I had thought a PHD, but alas, he is not quite a PHD, but a MASTER for sure.





LanceHughes -> RE: THE ONE (10/30/2009 4:53:44 AM)

LOL!  Thanks, OP for a good chuckle this cold, snowy Friday morning in Denver.... I needed that.




spiceguy2009 -> RE: THE ONE (10/30/2009 12:01:57 PM)

Anytime, sir.




LanceHughes -> RE: THE ONE (10/30/2009 7:54:27 PM)

Thanks for the offer <veiled as it is, or is it veiled?>  If I were you, having a Dom that seems to be into you as much as you are into him....... well, I would't be making offers like that, especially in public, especially on the same site you met him in the first place.  My advice?  Go enjoy your man.... and as I said above, "Hope it lasts a long (pun intended) time."




fluffypet61 -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 6:22:14 AM)

Hmmm, Colorado & Colorado.




LanceHughes -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 2:35:27 PM)

fluff:  I also saw that OP and I are both in Colo.  He's tempting me with his flirting.  It appears he's got a good thing going, so that's why I wrote Post #12.

The OP talks about meeting a Dom and going to his house, so I figured this Mystery Dom was local to SG2009.  Well, when I perved SG2009, I saw he was in Colo.  I'm glad it's happening here in my own backyard, and hope to see them at some of the Leather Events here in Denver.  If so, I'll offer my congrats in person.

My search for Doms in Colorado brings up a few of my friends, so it's got to be somebody I don't know...... All the other Doms that came up in my Colo. search have profiles that do NOT "fill the bill" for what SG2000 has been telling us.

If there was a "jealous" emoticon, I'd be using it here...... BRB - I'm sure I can find one somplace on the 'net <Lance says sarcastically>        [image]http://fc03.deviantart.com/fs7/i/2005/166/d/5/DM36_Contest__Jealousy_by_teengkoh.gif[/image]




lusciouslips19 -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 4:54:06 PM)

I am happy for the O.P., but i would like to caution people. Going to someones house as a first meet is a dangerous thing. The O.P.is just lucky it wasnt some crazed Dahmer type.




spiceguy2009 -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 5:34:37 PM)

Actually, we met in public, and then proceeded to his house, once both felt comfortable with it, but thank you for your concern.

And Lance, I am sure you are a nice guy, but I was only being polite. I am extremely happy with him and know he is happy with me, so i am sorry and hope you find the same kind of thing we have.




fluffypet61 -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 5:36:51 PM)

i am happy for EVERYONE involved. 
There are some awesome Doms on this site.
 
[sm=cute.gif]




lusciouslips19 -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 6:37:06 PM)

Im glad you were wiser than the initial post led me to believe!




LanceHughes -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 8:15:47 PM)

luscious: you are totally correct.  Since I seem to be more involved with this thread than any other poster, I should've picked up on the same "lack of caution" that you did.  Mea culpa.  I guess I was just too busy enjoying the fact that the OP had found a "twue" Dom on his first time out.  Actually, the Dom in question contacted the OP first!  How often does that happen to subs here?  (or anywhere?)  I guess I was too busy being :       [image]http://fc03.deviantart.com/fs7/i/2005/166/d/5/DM36_Contest__Jealousy_by_teengkoh.gif[/image]   LOL!




lusciouslips19 -> RE: THE ONE (10/31/2009 8:19:55 PM)

Well they usually contact me first. But Im a girlie!!!




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