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[8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 2:45:08 PM   
mons


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greeting

i put post in the gorean place i am domme now all of the sudden i had feeling and dreams of wanting tobe master by male not just anyone malebut a gorean or a master i am a dominant woman and i have been for sometime now i amhaving these feeling so strong it is scary now oh please help me has anyone of youthe domme had this happen before i enjoy and love my domianant side but i have always been scare to have anyone control me at all this is seroius for me anyadvice woulds be so helpful and why now is this happen. and tell me which one of you has had this happen

mons/jane thank you all for answer you give me
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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 2:50:47 PM   
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Sorry mons/jane,

Could you post the question a little clearer?

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 2:54:24 PM   
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Do you want to submit, or are you just attracted to the idea of bottoming? There is a difference.

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 3:02:27 PM   
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i am not sure how more clearer i can get it but here it is i have feeling of wanting to be dominant bye a gorean male or a master that so short i hope that is it


thanks mons

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 3:07:04 PM   
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iam not sure but thank you for asking ifeel this strong need to be dom ormaster i dreaam of it iknowthere isa difference tell me please lol one who is so dominanr like me this is a strang wierd feeling allanswer will help me a great deal iam stil a domme and feel this strong too but that feeeling of wanting to be a slave is like nothing i ever felt before thank goddness i do not hide my feeling i always look for answer to why i do feel thngs and look for the ones who can tell me

mons/jane

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 3:15:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mons

i am not sure how more clearer i can get it but here it is i have feeling of wanting to be dominant bye a gorean male or a master that so short i hope that is it


thanks mons


If you want to, do it. You don't need any justification from us.

However, what was it that Spock said in Amok Time... "After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true"

< Message edited by JohnWarren -- 3/7/2006 3:16:47 PM >


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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 3:45:52 PM   
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You might want to talk to fyreredsub, as the same thing happened to her.

I've posted in that forum as well, but the spirit hasn't moved me. lol

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 4:01:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

quote:

ORIGINAL: mons

i am not sure how more clearer i can get it but here it is i have feeling of wanting to be dominant bye a gorean male or a master that so short i hope that is it


thanks mons


If you want to, do it. You don't need any justification from us.

However, what was it that Spock said in Amok Time... "After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true"


I have to admit that I cannot personally relate to this idea of submitting. That said, I agree with John that if it is something you truly want, there is not a single reason for you not to seek it.
Gorean? Perhaps because there is much ritual and structure in that lifestyle, for the most part, and you are seeking that structure for some reason at this time. A heavier hand, a stricter protocol. So it would seem to you that a Gorean Master could satisfy that need, more so than a lifestyle Master who might allow you more freedom. You are attracted to that for some reason. Only you will be able to figure out what is going on in your life to bring this to the surface.
I will only say that if you find your Gorean Master, it is highly unlikely you would be permitted to switch. So you might want to figure out a way to meet and greet and get some exposure prior to a longer term committment to such a relationship. Just some food for thought, along with My best wishes.


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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/7/2006 4:48:57 PM   
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mons,

After having been Dominant for 13 years, I wanted to explore my submissive side. I set out in search of a Dominant male and found one. We met, I submitted. In the very beginning it was ok, it was just what I was looking for but it wasn't who I was. I tried, it wasn't for me, and life went on.

One wonderful thing came of my experience, which was that I met the love of my life.


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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/8/2006 3:34:57 AM   
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tress and dusty greeting


iread what you both said and it makes sense what is going on in mylife now that makes me want to submit to the more stronger side of domianant male andthat is the gorean i can only think that i have stress right now and i want this dollhouse my sister would not buy it is a huge on i collect minatures pieces of food pots pans anything that goes into a doll house, i can think of other things too but i think it is all mixed up in onething that is making me want this. ifind that thegorean and the master are something i would deed with i amalways looking for order everthing must be in order, this is something i just donot understand no i am notask for permission but i need someone to answer why and understand this i new to me i donot want to be looked at funny by the other domme i am still one i have this stronger urge to be who i am i still have my slaves and ohwhat a mess ihope this passes and fast lol ohyes i spoke to frrrebsub she iswonderful iwill spaek with her more. and the strange thing is i am scare to death of having someone lead me around make me things but yet i feel this so strong this is on place collarme.com where i knew i could get the answer ineeded thanks so much the both of you and the other who came and wrote to me.

bewell and take care '

mons/jane

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/13/2006 7:36:15 PM   
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greeting to all

I want to say i am learning more of what and why i feel this way , sometimes i think it has to do with childhood abuse and what i saw and seen happen infront of me. if a child see so much and it is abuse, and the parents stay together for the chlidern is it wrong, my mother and father stood together even though he did things that would wreck a child mind and back then a women stood becase she did not have the training to go out and work on their own. i know now i am a domme because i as the inner child needs to be protected , but always i want to have someone who is strong but not mean to help my inner child grown still. I find this when i look at the master and gorean! I find i can talk with all of you, the mistress are women so i find many question that are always answered here! but as i said the males who are dominant are the ones i need answer from. not having a father who was there in a emotional way can afffect myself being more then i thought. so i am still a domme but i still need that dominant male to guide me through some of the things i need to work through i am proud to be a domme but i am stong enough to know i need more and i am not ashamed to mention it , thank you all for you answers and help so

mons/jane

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/14/2006 4:33:09 AM   
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If your looking for a strong Father figure type Dom then a Daddydom may fit the bill and if you still feel the urge to switch you can. I doubt if you go to a Gorean Master if he will allow you to switch and he definitely will not allow you to Top him.
Daddy Dom's are fun but can be very strict. When I feel the urge to switch playing with my BF as *Daddy* is the only condition I can do it under then when the urge passes I go back to be the Domme in charge

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/18/2006 3:34:51 AM   
mons


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What a wonderful ideal that is what i may do but the gorean are something else i do like to go there and post but that is a good one i will look into it thanks so

mons oh nice to need you

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/22/2006 3:00:35 AM   
mons


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tress

this is making me have doubts but i feel so strongly of my own dominant way of life! As much as It seems that i want to submit i do not think i can. I am not sure but i know this one this, i am very strong willed and do i want to try this? Johnwarren yes i do need the advice of my peers it helps this is why these boards are here.

How was it for you? And may i ask how fast did you stop wating to submit to someone? It would be a great help to me if you can either write here or mail. I have someone wonderful is is guiding me but i am scare! I thank you so.Tress that is so wonderful to find the love of your life.


mons/jane

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RE: [8|] slavefeeling - 3/22/2006 3:02:37 AM   
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hi all

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