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Submotive -> RE: Your thoughts? (3/8/2006 8:51:34 AM)
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ORIGINAL: verianah
Have you ever found the complete connection right away with someone and just knew that they were the "one"? i did, or so i thought i did, but maybe i am just jumping to conclusions. i met a man on here whom i thought was the missing piece. i took a chance, went up to meet him. we hit it off almost instantaneously. it was amazing how things went. we talked about me moving with him and such, i know it sounds crazy, but that isn't my problem. i thought it was mutual on both sides, and as far as i know, it is still. but in the last two days, after i got home of course, he speaks to me less. now, the man told me he loved me and i returned the feelings, but i'm wondering if i should be worried that something just isn't quite right. i do realize that i will get alot of criticism on the moving quickly thing and what not, but am looking for honest opinions please on the situation. maybe i didn't let him chase me...*shrugs*
Although it's not a BDSM book, there's a book i would recommend to anyone here who "falls" fast. i've done it hundreds of times and have painfully learned that second guessing, mind reading, considering all possible reasons, and any other mind fuck games we play with ourselves never work. The fact is if the guy is not acting like he's really into you, then he's just not that into you. And that's the name of the book "He's Just Not That Into You."
The most intelligent, logical and reasonable people seem to go whacko (myself included), when we meet "the ONE". Personally i love knowing i'm wanted and important and necessary and valued. The only way i've found to know that is by waiting to see if that's the message He's giving me - not in His words, in His actions. If He's saying "I love you, i adore you", but acting like you're the last thing on His mind, then move on baby.
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