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Passion8Kisser -> A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 7:25:57 AM)

Please don't tell me to try Googling it, and sorry if this topic has been brought up. Recently my Dom and I were discussing a bikini wax, and latex paint. He has decided it would sadistically please him to do the waxing himself. So I am trying to find out the best/worst but still effective way for him to wax me. I wrote best/worse because I am sure he'd love to maximize the pain aspect, but we are agreed that the wax shouldn't burn the skin...much. (No lingering burn spots, no blistering etc) We do however want the end result to be nice and smooth in the sense at least of being hairless.

I will probably keep seeking answers from chatroom participants, as I am open to any tips and suggestions that You have to offer.

Has anyone had this done to/for them? Has anyone had a really bad experience with a self waxer? Finally would candle wax as we play with that work as a hair remover?

Again thanks for the suggestions you will hopefully make.



IronBear -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 7:51:37 AM)

Forget the wax ... use gaffer tape and rip the hair out by the roots.... Guaranteed to please a sadistic Dominant. 



dreamerdreaming -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 8:07:49 AM)

I don't think the wax will burn your skin. (Everyone who has ever had it done, please chime in- because I haven't...) I think they use wax that stays melted at a cooler temperature than say, ordinary candle wax. Am I right? [8|]



peachgirl -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 8:17:22 AM)

if you are having a first time wax, I really wouldn't recommend doing it yourself.  the key to waxing is getting the right amount of wax on the right size part and then ripping it off in the right direction.  you might not burn yourself, but you'll probably rip off some extra chunks of skin.

if you're just doing some clean-up, I recommend the wax strips with the wax already spread.  they work great.



IronBear -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 8:30:48 AM)

I'd agree with the wax strips great for tidying up when needs be.  Alternatively you buy him a whipper snipper (weed wacker for those in the US so he can beat the hell out of the jungle growth (if there is any) and then remove all foliage left with a cut-throat razor (straight razor) which is what I prefer to do. It give a nice combination of edge play, a sense of real danger and the best shave you can ever have combined with something very intimate what with the lathering, razor stropping (which doubles as a great bottom beater too), and the close shaving followed by the after care of applying the after shave balm for ladies.. 



porcelaine -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 8:34:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Passion8Kisser

Has anyone had this done to/for them? Has anyone had a really bad experience with a self waxer? Finally would candle wax as we play with that work as a hair remover?


Passion8,

i have my body waxed professionally by an esthetician. the wax they utilize is different and some are harder, softer, or more gentle on the skin. the latter is generally used for people that are prone to the little red pimples that can appear after it is done. the area is typically trimmed before hand to allow better removal. i have used the strips once but found them lacking. if you're in the vicinity of an aveda institute, you could go there to try out the procedure. the prices are more economical than they would be at a spa.

in regard to the candle wax, it isn't the same and i can't attest to its effectiveness in removing hair. you may notice that your body hair might have a different texture based on location. some areas are more resistant than others. i would advise seeing a professional if you can and querying them about the appropriate products based on your skin and hair type.

porcelaine



antipode -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 9:12:44 AM)

quote:

Finally would candle wax as we play with that work as a hair remover?


No. And you do need to learn to use Google.



windchymes -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 2:09:47 PM)

I and a former partner had pretty good luck with the Nair wax strips.  The trick is to get them nice and warm first, we used to lay them on the baseboard heaters for a minute or less (KEEP AN EYE ON THEM!).  This way, the wax is nice and soft and the hair imbeds in it better as it cools down. Trim the hair to about a 1/4 inch first.  Make sure he pulls in the direction the hair is growing.  Be prepared to scream, because it hurts like a mo-ther-fuck-er.

Each time you do it, it gets easier because the follicles seem to weaken and the hair comes out more easily.



weaselwelder -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 5:37:49 PM)

Like Ironbear, I prefer using a razor, trimming as needed with a spare beard trimmer first, over wax. There's less pain but I've found it to be a cleaner final product than waxing at home affords. Also cheaper, more intimate, and causes less mess. 



MasterSean69 -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 6:18:34 PM)

You have to be EXTREMELY careful not to pull your Labia without holding it. MAKE sure you lay the WAX with the grain of your hair and you pull against holding with you FREE hand.  ALWAYS make sure you hold the area FIRM with your free hand. 

I've waxed girlfriends b4, not in the life, and they have shown me how......



DesFIP -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/30/2009 6:20:20 PM)

Now, why is this a really hawt post?

I think it's the use of the word firm. Yeah, him having a firm hold on any part of me.



BoundDragon -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/31/2009 1:02:29 PM)

Ooooo... good topic.

It would take quite a bit of trust to let someone else wax you (or shave for that matter). In fact... its sounds totally submissive. You have to lie there feeling totally exposed while not daring to move (just in case).

Damn it... now I have goose bumps



Hierodule -> RE: A Bikini Wax (10/31/2009 1:15:12 PM)

I wax myself every time.  I have never had a professional wax. Use the wax that doesn't need cloth strips to remove it. Its easier to use and more effective. You heat it in the microwave. And while it does melt at lower temp than candle wax, it can get SUPER hot in the microwave , so be careful. I've used this kind

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Make sure your Dom reads the instructions. I might also suggest he try it on a patch of his own hair first. There is a knack to getting the hair off with this stuff. The hair has to be trimmed to a certain length and the wax has to be applied in the right direction. You two might have fun just "winging" it. But if the goal is a nice smooth kitty he is going to have to do it right.

I don't prefer waxing myself only because you have to let the hair grow to a certain length before you wax again. I don't always have the patience.



dualityinmotion -> RE: A Bikini Wax (11/1/2009 6:43:47 AM)

i tried the over-counter drugstore box once. i didn't have what it took to rip it off myself. it just HURT... pulled skin as well as hair. Very nasty. i would never do that again.

last summer i had my first Brazilian in a spa. i Googled and found someone fairly local that others had recommended as gentle... and she was extremely good. She used different wax on different parts (she did legs as well) and it hurt a lot but she was fast with each "zip"... i was hairless from the waist down in an hour and a half...and incredibly smooth. i looked like a plucked chicken for hte first 24 hours (follicles bleed; my skin is very sensitive). Hair grew back lighter. Only thing is, to be effective, it needs like 5 weeks of growth, and this slave likes being bare for Master all the time.

Good luck!
duality



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: A Bikini Wax (11/1/2009 6:52:08 AM)

That actually made me whimper....is an appointment necessary or can I just stop by?



SaharahEve -> RE: A Bikini Wax (11/1/2009 7:00:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Passion8Kisser

snip. He has decided it would sadistically please him to do the waxing himself.

I wrote best/worse because I am sure he'd love to maximize the pain aspect....





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Very painful, particularly the longer the hair.

Have fun. :-)



sunshinemiss -> RE: A Bikini Wax (11/1/2009 1:38:32 PM)

Wax strips.  All you have to do is rub them between your hands.... and ohhh the yummy pain.  sigh.  But mind the gap.



Hierodule -> RE: A Bikini Wax (11/1/2009 1:42:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dualityinmotion

i tried the over-counter drugstore box once. i didn't have what it took to rip it off myself. it just HURT... pulled skin as well as hair. Very nasty. i would never do that again.




you have to hold the skin taught  in one direction as you pull the wax off in another. Thats why its important to read the instructions!

wax strips don'twork for me whn I pull them off they leave a lot of wax on my skin and remove very little hair.



peachgirl -> RE: A Bikini Wax (11/1/2009 6:30:28 PM)

if there's oil of any type on your skin, the wax will stick...ie moisturizer etc.  a little dust of baby powder first helps too.



MercTech -> RE: A Bikini Wax (11/5/2009 10:35:36 AM)

Sugaring works too... a bit of gauze, warm saturated sugar solution, let it cool and set, RIIIIPPPP

Tastes better when you kiss the owie too.

Stefan



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