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Twinkyandkisted -> RE: Do you think sex is expected when sceneing?? (3/19/2006 1:47:57 PM)
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I generally agree with alot of what has been said...BDSM is sexual and sex can be a very important part of it...but I've also had very satisfying scenes that haven't included or culminated with intercourse.
This is what pre-scene negotiation is for.....IMHO, very little should actually just be "expected", except the basics, i.e. respecting limits and safe words, general safety, things like that. Everything else should be negotiated beforehand so you (and the Dom/Domme/Top) have a pretty good idea about what is or isn't going to happen in a scene, and you can spend the time enjoying the scene, not stressing out about what someone is or isnt' expecting.
If a Dom or anyone else pressures you to have sex when you aren't into it, run, don't walk, away from them, especially if its not a regular partner. A good Dom will understand and respect your wishes/limits.
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