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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 6:51:14 AM   
Mercnbeth


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this slave doesn't call Him Sir or Dom or Daddy or Lord or Savior or His given name...just Master.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 7:30:47 AM   
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14 replies and not a single "snookums" yet?


That would be a hard limit for me...that's what my 2nd husband calls my daughter!  lol

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 8:42:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TheEthicalSlut

I noticed that there are many names for subs, so I was curious about alternative names for Doms...


TheEthicalSlut,

In all honesty it depends on the person. It is probable that I would use Master or other terms of endearment. However, the label I feel most appropriate is Keeper and I never use it unless I feel He embodies the characteristics that I attribute with that role.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 8:50:20 AM   
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I find calling him by his name, works

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 9:00:38 AM   
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I call him Master, n public i call him by his given name of course sometims i slip and call him Master in public but no one semed to notice.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 10:35:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: sophiesback

i would never ever call Sir "bastard" or "mother fucker".  i prefer living *nodsnodsnods*


*snickers* I like to live dangerously...


me too...but there are always lines we do not cross. They may be fine, thin, nearly invisible lines, but lines nonetheless!

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 10:56:02 AM   
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Sometimes I call him Daddy or Mean Daddy or Sweet Daddy. But only when I'm little. Occasionally I call him Good lookin' as in "hey Good lookin.'" I usually call him my Master or his name. When we are having a serious conversation, or he is disciplining me, he requires me to respond to yes or no questions with "yes my Master" or "no my Master" if I for get the "my" he asks "whose Master?" he likes the"my" part. I don't call him sir. He has never asked me to. I think I did call him "fucker!" once when he was canning me with a metal antenna. That was not a good idea! It made things worse.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 11:08:52 AM   
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I call him by his first name and I call him Sir if we're playing.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 11:25:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sophiesback

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: sophiesback

i would never ever call Sir "bastard" or "mother fucker".  i prefer living *nodsnodsnods*


*snickers* I like to live dangerously...


me too...but there are always lines we do not cross. They may be fine, thin, nearly invisible lines, but lines nonetheless!


Yes. And those lines involve his computer. I couldn't be with a man who took himself so seriously he'd actually be upset if I called him bastard during a scene. He just grins evily, says "Damn right bitch" and goes back to doing what he was doing. Except harder.

I see how some people find it disrespectful but it's just not in our dynamic. Ours is built on extreme playfulness.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 11:26:40 AM   
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My sub calls me; Mistress, Ma'am or by my given name. I have an entire list of names that I call him my favorite being Mister Yummybuns.

~Lashra


Awww... I like to chase Val and grab his yummy buns.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 6:17:53 PM   
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Alandra and I call him 'my Lord' and in situations where that is not appropriate we call him 'my love' or 'love'. We do not use his given name. I can probably count on one hand the number of times that I have used his given name in front of him; it is usually to introduce him to someone else. I don't associate his name with him and in fact have had to figure out who people are talking about when others use his name.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 6:26:18 PM   
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I couldn't be with a man who took himself so seriously he'd actually be upset if I called him bastard during a scene. He just grins evily, says "Damn right bitch" and goes back to doing what he was doing. Except harder.

I've found that "You sadistic fuck" has about the same effect

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 6:55:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt


quote:

I couldn't be with a man who took himself so seriously he'd actually be upset if I called him bastard during a scene. He just grins evily, says "Damn right bitch" and goes back to doing what he was doing. Except harder.

I've found that "You sadistic fuck" has about the same effect


Ahhh... sadistic motherfuckers in our lives. How we love them...

Course I gotta admit, I really enjoyed scening with someone who said I could say anything I wanted as long as I ended it respectfully. So it's "FUCK YOU MOTHERFUCKER - MA'AM!" or "HOLY CRAP, SADISTIC PRICK - SIR!"

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 6:57:52 PM   
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Course I gotta admit, I really enjoyed scening with someone who said I could say anything I wanted as long as I ended it respectfully. So it's "FUCK YOU MOTHERFUCKER - MA'AM!" or "HOLY CRAP, SADISTIC PRICK - SIR!"

ROFL!!! Now that would be awesome!


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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 7:02:47 PM   
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It is quite fun....

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 8:14:29 PM   
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the name Asshole has been mentioned LOL
Edited to add: We've even had oral sex from acrossed the room!...it went like this....

me: "Fuck You!"
Him: "Fuck you too!"
me: "was it it good for You?"
Him:(laughing, and no longer mad) "NO, not really"
me: (laughing)


< Message edited by breatheasone -- 11/11/2009 8:17:38 PM >


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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 8:18:34 PM   
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I call him Daddy.  On certain occasions I call him Master.  When we're goofing around and I am (jokingly) defiantly trying to make a point, I call him Mister (Now looky here, Mister!!).  I introduce him by his given name.  In forums such as this I refer to him as my owner.

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/11/2009 11:39:38 PM   
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When I was with Sir, I would call Him "Daddy Cowboy," "Daddy YumYum" or "Precious Daddy Cowboy."  In vanilla public I would call Him by His name.  Or, if I was teasing or cruising for a red ass, I would call Him "Daddy Sweetpants."  "Daddy Sweetpants" would get me a red ass every time.  lol

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/12/2009 3:05:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheEthicalSlut

I noticed that there are many names for subs, so I was curious about alternative names for Doms...


NM (on the boards)
master
his name
my husband

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RE: What do you call your Dom other than Sir? - 11/12/2009 2:57:10 PM   
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Agrees with both you and aqua. though having a liking to live and sit down for the following week. i only do this by phone

I maybe sub but i aint stupid, well not mostly

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