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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/11/2006 6:42:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: PenelopePitstop

I used the wrong words up there, what I mean was "even if I wasn't submissive", rather than laying submissive tendencies aside. I often forget than when typing you have no tone of voice to aid you. Thanks for the support owned girlie - I think we have a fair bit in common judging from ythe posts I've read by you :).

i see where you're coming from. Thanks for clarifying. :)

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/11/2006 11:24:21 PM

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i am not able to be with my Master every day, but when i am with Him, it's quite a lot. Basically, whenever there is a free moment when no one is looking. i absolutely love giving oral and i derive a lot of pleasure from it. Master enjoys that little perk. i could go on but i think people would say i was lying so i'll stop there. It is not a fantasy and it does happen.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/12/2006 3:01:15 AM

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Can you collect umemployment if your fired from a blow job?
Fastlane ponders the question as he amuses himself on this boring Friday.

Ooooh Fastlane....let me know what you come up with...i bit my lip the other day when required to give a blow job during business hours....maybe i can collect workman's comp for a few days? I don't think disability would be a consideration at this point.... my lip is healing just fine...

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/12/2006 7:00:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: champagnewishes

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Can you collect umemployment if your fired from a blow job?
Fastlane ponders the question as he amuses himself on this boring Friday.

Ooooh Fastlane....let me know what you come up with...i bit my lip the other day when required to give a blow job during business hours....maybe i can collect workman's comp for a few days? I don't think disability would be a consideration at this point.... my lip is healing just fine...

Not related but I have a mate who used to "service" female executives and when his diabetes caused erectile dysfunction, he tried to claim a disability pension..

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/12/2006 12:39:22 PM

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slack jaw that is a good one
never heard that expression before

but definitely better than lock jaw

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/12/2006 1:37:56 PM

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I don't seem Him more than once or twice a week, but every time we're together, oral sex for him is on the menu. I love it, he loves it, it's great. We've talked about the fact that even if we were able to be together every day, he would recieve oral sex at least once a day. And just for the record, I've never recieved oral from him, and I don't miss it.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/13/2006 8:50:43 PM

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So for subs who give oral..... that gives the Dom pleasure.... and that in turn gives them pleasure... so they get off solely on the Dom getting off a lot of the time?

Still learning...

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/13/2006 8:52:36 PM

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The only thing I do EVERY day is worry about global warming. Doing anything else EVERY day seems highly unrealistic. Well, I brush my teeth every day too.

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How many female subs/slaves have to give their Masters/Doms oral sex every day?

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/14/2006 5:35:15 AM

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so they get off solely on the Dom getting off a lot of the time?

give the man the door prize already!!!!!

nothing gets this slave hotter & wetter than serving Master~Master getting off(literally, mentally, etc.), aka:HIS pleasure, IS the ultimate goal. Master makes all of the decisions regarding this slave's "get off". giving her the opportunity to please Him is one of many ways this slave CAN get off, but not the ONLY way. it just happens to be the one that He allows.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/14/2006 9:13:36 AM

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It is also a pleasure to see her thinking of it as a pacifier....she feels contented and happy continually sucking.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/14/2006 2:25:27 PM

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i don't get to see my owner everyday. But everyday we are together, i am always prepared to service him in the way he sees fit. Blow jobs do seem to be his preference. Its a true joy to me to serve him. If we were 24/7 yes it would be expected everyday. He has made that perfectly clear. And as much as he loves it, so do i. I don't really understand why a blow job everyday seems so out of the norm. Just as much as he enjoys blowjobs, he enjoys using me and watching me cum..so that would be a daily thing as well...hey sounds good to me..sign me up!!

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/14/2006 2:46:05 PM

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I dont get to see my Master everyday, but when i deserve it, i will do it with such pleasure and He knows how much i love doing this

I am in heaven......

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/14/2006 7:22:34 PM

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Greetings,

It would seem I am in the majority on this one! Yes!

Since my Master and I have a long distance relationship at htis point, our monthly visits, include an inordinate amount of blowjobs. That is how He prefers to be woken up in the morning, and there have been quite a few nights, I have fallen asleep sucking, and woke up the next morning in a puddle of drool on his belly. (That may be TMI. Sorry.)

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/15/2006 3:37:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: Sirandlittle1

No matter how tired, i must always suck his cock till he stops me, however that may be, its not a fantasy, in more ways than one.
little1

This is me.. I have to be stopped. I get down right comfy... then get lost in my own little world without losing focus on what i'm doing and why. I get slack jaw... and i'm gone... LOL <Master's happier that shit I don't get lock jaw.... lmao>

LOL at "lockjaw"

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/16/2006 8:56:36 PM

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Interesting discussion! Thanks so much! Always learning more, grown a lot as a Dom lately....

Thank you!

Anyone else care to share?

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/17/2006 3:30:47 PM

Lenina

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I've always loved giving oral pleasure. Somthing about knowing how much the recipient enjoys it turns me on.
I've done it every day we've been together.

As far as recieving goes, I enjoy that as well. I've never had a vaginal orgasm, so it's either that or masturbation to get me off. Although, I don't mind not orgasming. I still enjoy vaginal sex, I just never reach that point of climax.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/18/2006 4:10:26 PM

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Here's a variation.....what about the Domme who wants her (straight, male) sub to perform fellatio, whether on her strapon or on another man?

Does anyone else find this arousing?

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/18/2006 4:39:59 PM

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march 14th is steak and a blowjob day-
guys and gals mark your calenders.......... masters get theirs well done on that day........slaves get theirs raw

(Pouts,this one learned of it too late)

i believe it should be done daily if Master allows

< Message edited by fyreredsub -- 3/18/2006 4:41:01 PM >

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/18/2006 4:41:48 PM

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talltxsub, cant say really, as im not a domme. But i kinda like both the mental pleasure of pleasing my Domme, so were she a female with a strapon, it would still work. But as for physical pleasure of having a strap on sucked, well i guess thats going to obviously lack the physical pleasure given/received somewhat. Certainly sucking a strap on just does not feel like a cock!

Back to the op. and the 2nd part to the question.
Im not that altruistic that i can always gain pleasure from pleasing in my submission. That's leaning more to the slave side of things in my head. But from a perspective, of 'if ive pleased him' then our D/s runs very much in my favour, so its a very good investment of energy for me.
But unconnected to bdsm is the vanilla phenomena that i do get turned on, by turning someone else on. So it works in that way for me. And i do enjoy pleasing him.
As for sucking cock per se, i love it. Be it for sex, for suckling on coz its cosy to do so, or just to take over control for a while, its all good in my book.

ritualistic sucking of cock to say goodmorning, and goodnight in our house is routine.

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RE: Blowjobs... just a fantasy or real life? - 3/18/2006 4:42:22 PM

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back in the day, when i was a domme, i had my boy suck on my strap-on.

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