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BDSM when pregnant - 11/16/2009 11:23:28 AM

DevilsRaven

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I was wondering, what things could a master and slave do, if the slave is pregnant?

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RE: BDSM when pregnant - 11/16/2009 11:25:16 AM

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well, that is pretty generic, how pregnant?

so, you get a generic answer, fuck and suck and carry on like you always did, till pretty late in the game.

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RE: BDSM when pregnant - 11/16/2009 12:05:40 PM

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Feel free to message me on the other side. My background in midwifery included a number of D/s couples and I have a published article in the Sandmutopian Guardian regarding common BDSM activities and safe BDSM play during pregnancy (broken down by trimester and by special circumstances).

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RE: BDSM when pregnant - 11/16/2009 2:20:15 PM

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To be truly safe, you need to discuss specifics - as in, caning on the buttocks, whips to breasts and so on, with your ob-gyn. Don't leave this to chance. Damaging yourself or the baby is too important to leave to "I thought it would be ok".

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RE: BDSM when pregnant - 11/17/2009 10:59:45 AM

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Every pregnancy is different. How you feel, physically and emotionally may well change day to day. You must be honest and above board with your gyn/ob on this and be able to ask her specific questions.

If for instance you used to enjoy being beaten on the thighs with a coat hanger, you now risk varicose veins from that. You have to schedule a long appointment, with him there, and go through every possible implement, position and activity.

In general remember that your balance is totally off and you will fall off more easily. Your breasts will be swollen and tender. You may want sex not at all in the first trimester, constantly in the second and rarely in the third. As you get closer to delivery be aware that some play could bring on your milk early and/or an early delivery.

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