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LookieNoNookie -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/23/2009 7:48:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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First thing I'd say is....learn to write. If you're gonna do the whole suit thing in the photo...ya better fucking be able to carry it off. Second....get a dictionary (see above).


Wow. I better not ever find a typo in one of your posts, because believe me, you'll never hear the end of it!   You won't....trust me.  (No really).

Perhaps you don't realise how offensive your behaviour is.  I do....you remind me often.

- LA





Acer49 -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/23/2009 8:43:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: amy19808

Hello,
I am seeking genuine advise so that I can find dom. I have tried many message and read through the profiles deligently, but no responses. What advise can you give, or what dom's looking in general in a profile.

Is it the fact that I am a crossdresser, and into feminization or that people get the impression that I dont want to try something new.

Pls. let me know your thoughts.


I see nothing in your profile that suggests you are willing to do anything for the prospective dominant




LadyPact -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/23/2009 8:51:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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First thing I'd say is....learn to write. If you're gonna do the whole suit thing in the photo...ya better fucking be able to carry it off. Second....get a dictionary (see above).


Wow. I better not ever find a typo in one of your posts, because believe me, you'll never hear the end of it!

Perhaps you don't realise how offensive your behaviour is.

- LA



I'll say one thing on this part.  If you do find that typo or grammatical error in one of Lookie's post, you might want to mark your calendar.  It's a very rare event indeed.




Drifa -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 12:24:19 AM)

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
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First thing I'd say is....learn to write. If you're gonna do the whole suit thing in the photo...ya better fucking be able to carry it off. Second....get a dictionary (see above).


Wow. I better not ever find a typo in one of your posts, because believe me, you'll never hear the end of it!

Perhaps you don't realise how offensive your behaviour is.

- LA



That's an excessively harsh stance to take with someone who is humbly asking for how he can improve himself. The lad has already begun making changes to his profile based on the feedback here.

I'm a professional technical writer and lord knows I get typos, transpositions, and an occasional grammar error myself ("teh" being my most common). I can see twisting the thumbscrews on 733t-speak or texting abbreviations and the like, but a minor typo or two?

And let me assure you that I have met plenty of men in suits who couldn't spell to save their own lives. The Big Guys have secretaries, why should they know how? Possibly the worst speller I ever encountered had both an M.D. and a Ph.D., and a classic Armani suit.




PeonForHer -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 3:23:10 AM)

 (No really).

The full stop should have been before the closing bracket.

[8D]




PeonForHer -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 3:27:46 AM)

amy,

I think your profile looks a lot better now.  I do think, though, that it'd help if you could inject a little personality.  Say something interesting - in a friendly tone - about yourself (or indeed any other subject).  It'll work like an icebreaker with someone reading your profile - and she'll have something on which to comment. 




LadyAngelika -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 4:00:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:


First thing I'd say is....learn to write. If you're gonna do the whole suit thing in the photo...ya better fucking be able to carry it off. Second....get a dictionary (see above).


Wow. I better not ever find a typo in one of your posts, because believe me, you'll never hear the end of it!

Perhaps you don't realise how offensive your behaviour is.

- LA



I'll say one thing on this part.  If you do find that typo or grammatical error in one of Lookie's post, you might want to mark your calendar.  It's a very rare event indeed.



Actually, I don't give a damn really about his posts. To date, I've seen no other contribution from him other than correcting people's spelling. And there are ways of doing it politely, when someone asks, like I did in my OP.

Really, he's quite offensive!

- LA




LadyAngelika -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 4:05:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Drifa

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
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First thing I'd say is....learn to write. If you're gonna do the whole suit thing in the photo...ya better fucking be able to carry it off. Second....get a dictionary (see above).


Wow. I better not ever find a typo in one of your posts, because believe me, you'll never hear the end of it!

Perhaps you don't realise how offensive your behaviour is.

- LA



That's an excessively harsh stance to take with someone who is humbly asking for how he can improve himself. The lad has already begun making changes to his profile based on the feedback here.

I'm a professional technical writer and lord knows I get typos, transpositions, and an occasional grammar error myself ("teh" being my most common). I can see twisting the thumbscrews on 733t-speak or texting abbreviations and the like, but a minor typo or two?

And let me assure you that I have met plenty of men in suits who couldn't spell to save their own lives. The Big Guys have secretaries, why should they know how? Possibly the worst speller I ever encountered had both an M.D. and a Ph.D., and a classic Armani suit.



You are right. Everyone has their strengths. English is my second language, which really is no excuse as I went to grad school in English and am publishing my first academic book, in English. But I'm smart enough to hire an editor!!

I also make a difference between conversational writing and more published writing. For example, I re-read what I write in these forums before posting, but for me, it's more important to get my thoughts out than to get them polished. That said, I do try to be succinct and to the point.

However, in texts that stick around, like an essay, a book, a proposal, a profile (be it professional or on here), I spend more time and effort on polishing.

- LA




DarkSteven -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 4:13:08 AM)

Oh, one other suggestion, OP - change your username.  It pigeonholes you as a man who defines himself by his crossdressing.  Everyone's telling you to broaden your emphasis - make the name reflect that as well.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 7:15:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

(No really).

The full stop should have been before the closing bracket.

[8D]


Damn.




PeonForHer -> RE: Based on my profile, why am I not succesful in getting responses (11/24/2009 10:42:02 AM)

Ah come on, Nookie.  I must have made a typo or gram mistake somewhere.  Coward. [;)]




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