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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/23/2009 6:02:50 PM

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OK, as most of you know, I ended my last relationship due to infidelity earlier this month. Now I have another problem. She has her friends calling me saying she wants to get back with me. To be honest, I have zero interest in going there again. So now I wonder, do I have her call me herself and I just dump all this shit Im feeling on her so she knows where Im at? Or do I ignore the calls? Any input is appreciated.

Who was the cheater?

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/23/2009 6:04:25 PM

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Tell her you decided to be gay :)

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/23/2009 6:09:01 PM

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Tell her you decided to be gay :)

Now why didnt I think of that?

if she tries it again Ill tell her that.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/23/2009 6:19:36 PM

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:) and let her know you are thankful for her causing this split between you two that gave you time to reflect on your sexual leaning, which you now realise was always the case.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/24/2009 5:44:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff

OK, as most of you know, I ended my last relationship due to infidelity earlier this month. Now I have another problem. She has her friends calling me saying she wants to get back with me. To be honest, I have zero interest in going there again. So now I wonder, do I have her call me herself and I just dump all this shit Im feeling on her so she knows where Im at? Or do I ignore the calls? Any input is appreciated.

Who was the cheater?

She was.

Almost 24 hours of silence. Id say Ive avoided the legal system yet again. DarkSteven, thank you for your idea.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/24/2009 6:41:54 AM

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It sucks when shit like that happens. Hopefully she got the hint.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/24/2009 7:08:10 AM

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/25/2009 5:40:14 PM

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Then presumably she know s how you feel and is either trying to break down resistance or just bug you.

I'd contact her via email, cc'ing yourself,.and request her to quit harassing you. Note that it is against the law, and that you are keeping a copy of the email.

Not a bad idea. Im gonna try that.

Next change your phone number. With the "leave me alone" letter and proof she "found" your new number you can get a restraining order in most jurisdictions should you then need one.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/27/2009 7:40:43 AM

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Tell them that if they call you again, you will report them to the phone company for harassment. You can have an order of protection taken out to stop them. But easier is to write them a letter, cc ing it to your attorney that states you do not wish to be contacted by anyone on her behalf and should it happen again, you will take legal action.

Basically they're kids and don't realize there are laws about this.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/27/2009 8:05:24 AM

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Wow that's too bad. You would think that with all the things phones can do that blocking unwanted callers would be one of them

You can but, for a cell phone, you have to pay for an extra service and it only works in certain circumstances. I think that is a deplorable but... meh. You can set their ringtone to silent so you never notice when they call.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/27/2009 8:18:23 AM

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I set my default ring to silent..

if a collar wants to be noticed.. they have to call from a number that I want to get calls from. so now.. I don't get wokne up by my boss calling me to come in early.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/27/2009 8:28:04 AM

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Smart!

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/27/2009 8:40:11 AM

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ahm...LOL

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/27/2009 4:29:22 PM

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Tell her you decided to be gay :)

Now why didnt I think of that? if she tries it again Ill tell her that.

That's the best way to break up with someone who is persistent and won't leave you alone. Become something you know they will hate or despise, and let them do the running away. Works very well...if you can pull off the acting job. :)

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/27/2009 6:50:14 PM

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Have all your friends call her dozens of times a day to tell her you don't ever want to see her again. Should solve it once and for all within 24 hours, tops.

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RE: She wont leave me alone - 11/29/2009 7:40:31 PM

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My feeling is that clean breaks are the best way to go. Ignore her as best you can. If, however, it doesn't let up and you feel like it never will, tell her exactly why you broke up with her and why there is no chance hell of ever getting back together. Then loose her number, her address, her myspace page - everything.

Just remember - exes are exes for a reason. Do. Not. Be. Tempted.

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