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Not the good kind of pain... - 3/13/2006 1:46:14 PM

SweetEscravo

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I don't know if this is normal, but almost everytime my dom and I have sex, I am in pain for a day or more in that area. I am not sure, but I think this may have something to do with the fact that he took my virginity (recently), and also because he is fairly rough. I thought this would stop after a little while, but it still hurts during and after sex. I told him about this, and he, because of his medical knowledge, immeadiatly made me lay down to inspect it. The first time he found a rip, obviously, but these days there are no external signs of anything being wrong, although I feel sore, and using the bathroom is painful for me sometimes right afterwards. I'm not sure what this is, but I really would rather not have to get it checked out if it is normal.

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RE: Not the good kind of pain... - 3/13/2006 2:28:58 PM

truesub4u

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Again.. I stated in your other post.... Not everyone is the same. Depending on your Doms medical experiance... he sees nothing wrong... unless he's OBGYN... you need to go get yourself checked out by one.

No other advice... no guessing game on what it may or my not be... Go get checked out by your OBGYN doctor.

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RE: Not the good kind of pain... - 3/13/2006 6:56:44 PM

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Agree see your GYN.

Personally there are lots of reasons for soreness. Too frequent rough sessions may be adding to your trauma. Part of why men like virginity so much is that the walls are extremely tight. This added to rough sex can literally cause bruising inside. Gentle stretching much like you stretch other muscles may be necessary.
Also if your uterus is tipped in any way either naturallyor recent trauma it will make you more sore and painful. Pain from urination may easily be due to a yeast infection or PID (pelvic inflamitory disease). Get checked out.

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RE: Not the good kind of pain... - 3/14/2006 11:48:14 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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Yes you should get it checked out.

However, for him to take you roughly not only on your first time, but every time after that for a few days is just asking for irritation and trouble.

Is he giving you enough foreplay so your body can get itself wet? Try using lube to supplement. Is he working UP to going rough and fast by going slow and steady first?

Your body shouldn't be taken from "no sex ever before" to "hard and rough every day." Sheesh, build up to it.

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RE: Not the good kind of pain... - 3/14/2006 2:04:32 PM

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Hey, i used to have the same problem. About 10 years ago or so. You're body just isnt used to sex. Plus you prolly arent wet enough. Dry sex isnt all that well.. pleasurable.. atleast for me it isnt. Anywhoo i used to ahve issues with getting wet.. like it jut didnt want to happen.. and i was always sore afterwards.

i think if you are FULLY wet.. fully lubbed.. it shouldnt hurt all that much. Sometimes tho, every now and then, i'll get sore just from Master.

Talk to a doc, and talk to any friends who've recently lost their virignity. Who knows.. maybe his penis is just too big and its wearing out the virginal muscles?

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