Slipstreme -> RE: Not Yet Another Switch Question (3/17/2006 4:16:03 PM)
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I don't sub. The closest I get to subbing is doing random acts of kindness. As far as play goes I am finding myself more and more a masochist, which I see as separate from submission. As a Dom/Sadist I prefer a masochist who does not complain about how I do to them what I do to them and otherwise try to direct the scene. My primary has a habit of that, and he is slowly realizing how much that irritates me. I do however, want them to enjoy what is going on and am ever vigilent of overstepping boundaries. Sometimes a bit too careful as I am a novice. I do like someone who would serve me with an open desire to serve, and who would refer to me as Master/Sir at times. However although I am dominant, D/s is not a necessary facet of life for me. S&M is. I would not however, want a 24/7 M/s relationship, not because I wouldn't want a slave, but I doubt my ability to be a good Master as there are so many things in my life I need to learn to control first.
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