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Mickeydee -> Being Responsible (11/30/2009 2:45:15 PM)
I have three slave/sluts during the past 10 years. Slave #1 had a parapalegic. #2 was killed in a car wreck. #3 developed cancer. We are all human and sometimes things just happen and not in the right way. Think about what it means to be responsible for someone else. That term can go a long way. #2 had no one to take care of her funeral so it came out of my pocket. #3 has cost thousands of dollars and luckily, we got some grants. So just think about what can happen, besides good times and fun.

lovingpet -> RE: Being Responsible (11/30/2009 2:52:40 PM)
I think most folks who love each other do count the costs and then make provisions for them. I should hope someone I share so much with would want and make sure my needs were taken care of, as I would theirs. That's just as much a part of love as anything else. lovingpet

kanina -> RE: Being Responsible (11/30/2009 2:52:43 PM)
why do you think people, or at least some people, are not responsible?

LafayetteLady -> RE: Being Responsible (11/30/2009 8:59:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mickeydee I have three slave/sluts during the past 10 years. Slave #1 had a parapalegic. #2 was killed in a car wreck. #3 developed cancer. We are all human and sometimes things just happen and not in the right way. Think about what it means to be responsible for someone else. That term can go a long way. #2 had no one to take care of her funeral so it came out of my pocket. #3 has cost thousands of dollars and luckily, we got some grants. So just think about what can happen, besides good times and fun. I'm sorry but it sounds like you wanted the good times and the fun and none of the responsibility. Or you didn't have a relationship with your "slaves" or love for them. I have to say I find it repulsive that you posted what really sounds like complaints that your "slaves" have not remained alive and perfectly healthy for you and have caused you, their OWNER, to have to actually take responsibility and care for them while they are in no position to serve you. After all, you had to pay the cost of burying #2 who, being dead was no longer of any use to you, and now #3 has developed a horrible illness which you are also having to expend some of your own hard earned money for, and she probably can't even serve you the way you originally agreed. How utterly disrespectful of her to do that. Do I sound mean and snarky? Yep. But seriously, did you even read what you wrote and do you have any idea how it sounds?

Termyn8or -> RE: Being Responsible (11/30/2009 9:24:56 PM)
I think you're reading more negativity into the OP than there actually is. That is I simply don't see it that way. I am wierd though. Funerals are no different than weddings to me. They are simply a ritual. The person is gone, all that remains is the carcass. Ummm, that was for a funeral, how it applies to a wedding for you is your own business. But it is a change in life nonetheless. After all is said and done, I know more dead people than alive, and it has been that way for a long time. At least fifteen years. But then I am not so sure this thread was intended to be about funerals, or weddings for that matter. If so, they are all the same to me, and I think I'll try the funeral first. T

CarrieO -> RE: Being Responsible (12/1/2009 4:29:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mickeydee I have three slave/sluts during the past 10 years. Slave #1 had a parapalegic. #2 was killed in a car wreck. #3 developed cancer. I'm sorry to hear that in the past 10 years these three women (yes, we're talking about people here ) had to go through such trying, not to mention horrific in the case of the mva death, times while involved with you. We are all human and sometimes things just happen and not in the right way. Actually, things just happen...there's no right or wrong way about it. Think about what it means to be responsible for someone else. That term can go a long way. #2 had no one to take care of her funeral so it came out of my pocket. #3 has cost thousands of dollars and luckily, we got some grants. So just think about what can happen, besides good times and fun. Sounds almost as if you're trying to convince yourself to think about the reality of relationships. This is why I have no interest in casual play...I see this (D/s) within the bounds of a relationship and as such, responsibility on both sides is necessary. I believe that along with thinking about what can happen, it's important to have a your feet firmly planted in reality and that means talking about and planning for such occurrences should the relationship become serious. If you (general you) can't be around when the going gets tough...how do you expect your partner to trust you enough to be with you (again, general you)? This is about trust and practicality...I would trust that my partner would be mature and practical enough to take this sort of thing into account just as he should trust me to do the same.

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