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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 3:01:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for the replies. I'm glad to know it doesn't automatically just have to come with the territory... and I'm glad I read this thread. I wouldn't have known to bring it up.

Sorry to dissapoint SirVmee, I plan on eating dinner off of a plate tonight. While sitting at a table... with my clothes on nonetheless.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 3:16:59 PM   
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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 3:47:23 PM   
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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 4:16:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		well to beg its very difficult indeed but thing in public are not, ate least to me i actually like it

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:09:04 PM   
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What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 4:37:33 PM   

i am about to meet a Man for the first time...and he is interested in humiliation and i am somewhat inexperienced...i know we plan to take it slowly...so i am not worried..but is there some way to get up to speed? required reading? cliff notes? humiliation for idiots?




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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:18:21 PM   
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What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 4:37:33 PM   

i am about to meet a Man for the first time...and he is interested in humiliation and i am somewhat inexperienced...i know we plan to take it slowly...so i am not worried..but is there some way to get up to speed? required reading? cliff notes? humiliation for idiots?





Since humiliation is such an individual thing, you really need to ask him what kind of thing does it for him. What does it for us may not work at all for him.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 5:40:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would have to have a heart to heart talk with any stranger who planned on humiliating me. You also have to look inside yourself and really be honest about isuses that might come to the surface There are certain forms of humiliation that would not work for me, that might even cause emotional damage. What is the hotest play ever for one person might be a traumatic experience for someone else.


As I mentioned earlier, ridicule and verbal insults are a trigger for me. If someone made me stand in front of them naked, told me I was an ugly worthless slut, said they didn't even want to be in the same room with me because I'm such a mess, spit in my face, and then fucked me I would break down. I know that about myself.

However if the right person spit on me, pissed on me, and ordered me lick the piss of their boots while I thanked them for being so kind, I would enjoy it. However I would need "good girl" for obeying. After the "good girl" I could probably handle a "see you liked that didn't you? You dirty little girl?"

edited to be slightly dirtier ;-)

So I guess my answer is: insultee know thyself

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What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 11/30/2009 4:37:33 PM   

i am about to meet a Man for the first time...and he is interested in humiliation and i am somewhat inexperienced...i know we plan to take it slowly...so i am not worried..but is there some way to get up to speed? required reading? cliff notes? humiliation for idiots?





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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:37:24 PM   
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Saying to a slave, "Yes, dear."

Gets them every time.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:48:01 PM   
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My favorite?

Saying to a slave, "Yes, dear."

Gets them every time.



*snicker* I do that to Aqua constantly, and it drives her INSANE! Nothing like a little well-placed sadism to brighten one's day.


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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:52:50 PM   
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Fucking sadist with your fucking annoying ways....

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:57:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I say "Yes Sir" when im being difficult.

Most humiliating would have to be being made to ride in the grocery cart because you keep wandering off.


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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 6:58:25 PM   
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My favorite?

Saying to a slave, "Yes, dear."

Gets them every time.



Do we ALL do that? I love the reaction!

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/1/2009 7:06:36 PM   
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I say "Yes Sir" when im being difficult.

Most humiliating would have to be being made to ride in the grocery cart because you keep wandering off.



I would have so much fun with that.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/2/2009 2:49:06 PM   
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I say "Yes Sir" when im being difficult.

Most humiliating would have to be being made to ride in the grocery cart because you keep wandering off.



Now that's very funny to me because I tend to wonder off and it doestend to piss off the vanilla man that I was with. He handled it differently though.

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/3/2009 1:24:43 AM   
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The sub lay on the ground on her back and parted her legs just like a little dog and protruded her tongue. At the same time, she had the direct eye contacts with her dom to express her deep emotion at heart.


Seriously?

Boy are you a virgin. Welcome to Sister Mary De Sade's class on Soul Crushing Degradation 101.


Google "Full Toilet Slave", and "Vomit Fetish" and return with a report. Compare and contrast in 4 paragraphs with thesis and 3 supporting arguments.


Hey......the degree of humiliation is in the eye of the Dom/sub involved. No one fits into pigeonholes :P

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/3/2009 1:28:33 AM   
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My favorite?

Saying to a slave, "Yes, dear."

Gets them every time.



That's actually kinda sweet :)

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/3/2009 1:34:33 AM   
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I say "Yes Sir" when im being difficult.

Most humiliating would have to be being made to ride in the grocery cart because you keep wandering off.



Yep, i can relate :P

However the riding in grocery cart concept, would give Him very nasty ideas *nervous grin*, as i do have a tendency to wander off "exploring" (Master Charles calls it "ADD Shopping")


k :P

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/3/2009 9:08:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		having an operation and then waking up with a catheter inserted in my penis. Then being visited by the doctor and a host of junior doctors and seeing their smirks at a penis that was less than 1 inch in size (as anyone's would be after an operation on it). Then being made by the nurse to empty my own catheter in the toilets (nearly caused me to faint). All this being in an open ward with 6 other men and having my catheter removed - the most agonising experience ever and literally screaming with the pain. Having a couple of the men afterwards re-assure me not to be embarrassed because you leave your pride at the door when entering that ward.
Then having to explain to family, friends and work colleagues why you were in hospital and having the nurse who just yanked the catheter out explaining to your parents how much of a cry baby I was at screaming when the catheter was removed.
Then the sheer agony of getting an erection afterwards and not being able to relieve the pressure through mastrubation thus suffering from frequent agonising erections until my penis had fully healed.

Not quite as embarrassing is having a full std test including taking the sample from inside the penis and crying out in pain. Then having to go through the waiting room afterwards knowing that everyone heard you. Almost as embarrassing as having a nightmare while out cold at the dentist and waking up to everyone panicking at why you were screaming.

Another is having your father being extremely homophobic about crossdressers when your partner is sat next to you thinking 'wait until I get your son into his maid dress and stockings tonight'

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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/3/2009 11:49:14 AM   
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What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think?


Hmmm... let's see... ahhh, GOT IT!  Having so little an imagination to think the below "the most humiliating BDSM act":

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The sub lay on the ground on her back and parted her legs just like a little dog and protruded her tongue. At the same time, she had the direct eye contacts with her dom to express her deep emotion at heart.


 OOF!!!



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RE: What is the most humiliated BDSM act do you think? - 12/4/2009 4:53:53 PM   
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Being dragged into the bathroom by my hair and having my head shoved into the toilet....humiliated and angry end result.
Being dragged into the bathroom by my hair and shoved into the bathtub and having him piss all over me....humiliated and extremely aroused end result.



i would say that your option #1 would certainly be humiliating :P

Option #2......would make me extremely aroused too !!! (Mmmmmm........yeah.......yum)

k (trying really hard not to give too much away about my predilections - honest!! *nervous laugh*)

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