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RE: Throat Standing - 12/2/2009 4:57:23 PM

Underumam

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Underumam I understand that she is trying to help, and I appreciate it. I was not getting defensive because she insulted my intellect, but my honesty. I am sorry, but that is one thing I have that means a lot to me, and I don't like it to be trampled on. She can tell me I am an idiot, and point out how. I would humbly accept that. When someone questions my honesty or morals though, they go beyond trying to help.

Why the need to get defensive at all? It's ok to FEEL defensive, but there's not always a need to vocalize it.. Sometimes we males are best served by keeping our big mouths shut. Your reply did nothing to improve your image, and in fact, it might possibly have pushed away the very Ones who wanted to help/understand you. Do you honestly imagine that Lockit did all that typing arbitrarily?

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RE: Throat Standing - 12/2/2009 5:02:25 PM

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Human being deserve to be treated with respect Underumam, no matter who they are. I would not insult her, and I only ask that she does not insult me. I would be honored if she would help me, and appreciate the advice she gave me (as I think she is right on several points), but it can be done without insulting. I hold no ill will against her, and will push it any longer. I will gladly take her critiscim, but please do not derail this thread further.

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RE: Throat Standing - 12/2/2009 5:09:18 PM

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I would not insult her,

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ORIGINAL: Thenewaccount10

Human being deserve to be treated with respect Underumam, no matter who they are. I would not insult her, and I only ask that she does not insult me. I would be honored if she would help me, and appreciate the advice she gave me (as I think she is right on several points), but it can be done without insulting. I hold no ill will against her, and will push it any longer. I will gladly take her critiscim, but please do not derail this thread further.

But you did insult Her, and your conceit will end up blocking your progress as a human being.

AND YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DEMAND ANYTHING OF ME!!!!!

You're on your own now...Have fun.

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RE: Throat Standing - 12/2/2009 5:14:22 PM

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Underumam, aren't you going a little over the top? First of all, I did not demand anything of you, I kindly asked you and said please. Second of all, yes, I was snark back to her after she was to me. All I asked her was to treat me with respect. I am human being, just like her. I am not her sub. I was treating her with respect and expected respect back. If you can say that me asking you to PLEASE let the discussion happen elsewhere so as not to derail the thread is demanding something of you, then what about you insisting that I change? You are being hypocritical and over sensitive.

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RE: Throat Standing - 12/2/2009 5:22:49 PM

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To all parties involved:

The flames have gone on long enough. I do not wish to pass judgement, I simply would appreciate it if it would stop. If you have more to say one another, that is what Collarme mail is for.

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