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What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 1:32:14 AM   
PervertedOwner4U


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Status: offline 		I am planning my first 24/7 sexual slavery situation. It seems to me that a purely sexual relationship, though very emotional in some ways, might get rather tedious after a while. But perhaps I need to see it from a different angle. An intelligent and personable slave might get bored, no matter how much she wants to just be a slave all her days. Are there general tips that can be found? I'll bet most don't work out. I imagine those with some components from traditional relationships are the ones to endure in greater numbers. Anyone have an opinion?

Thanks so much!!! 
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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 1:35:54 AM   
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I am planning my first 24/7 sexual slavery situation. It seems to me that a purely sexual relationship, though very emotional in some ways, might get rather tedious after a while. But perhaps I need to see it from a different angle. An intelligent and personable slave might get bored, no matter how much she wants to just be a slave all her days. Are there general tips that can be found? I'll bet most don't work out. I imagine those with some components from traditional relationships are the ones to endure in greater numbers. Anyone have an opinion?

Thanks so much!!! 


If you consider it, it is a normal relationship in most aspects. Even in public, she's going to obey your "suggestions". As long as you keep in mind that it's a real relationship and that she's still very human, and has needs, things should be fine.

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 1:39:35 AM   
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Define 24/7 sexual relationship. Do you honestly expect her to think of your cock EVERY second of EVERY day? Even when her Dad is in the hospital?

Or are you thinking of a situation your relationship is purely sexual so you don't command her outside of sex?

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 1:52:04 AM   
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2. Be a man and woman first then a master and slave.
 
3. Communicate
 
4. Trust your instinct.
 
5. Make up your mind - is it purely sexual, or emotional. If there is no emotion, it wont last, or be as fulfilling IMO. Depends what you both want.
 
 
 
 
 
 

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 1:55:36 AM   
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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 4:28:39 AM   
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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 4:29:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have to agree with everyone who has posted so far. Even in a slavery situation, she's still human, and is still going to want and need things outside of sex. If you want a true sex slave that does nothing and thinks about nothing but giving you sex all day... Get a blow up doll. If you want an experience that will make both of you grow as people, and be fullfilling in everyway, sexually, emotionally, physically etc. Then a slave is what you're looking for. But the slavery must be an extension of a standard relationship for it it to last long IMHO. Otherwsie its just an extended one night stand.

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 4:38:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well first you have to make sure your making enough money to support her, then you have to decide what kind of health insurance your going to provide. Then you have to plan on her retirement depending on how long you plan on having her stay and make plans in case something happens to you before her. That's just a start but I am sure I can come up with more if I think about it.

Personally I would say you need a laundry slave more than a sexual one. Then at least you would have clean clothes to wear in your pic.


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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 5:06:13 AM   
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Well first you have to make sure your making enough money to support her, then you have to decide what kind of health insurance your going to provide. Then you have to plan on her retirement depending on how long you plan on having her stay and make plans in case something happens to you before her. That's just a start but I am sure I can come up with more if I think about it.

Personally I would say you need a laundry slave more than a sexual one. Then at least you would have clean clothes to wear in your pic.



Exactly, thank you!

And a 24/7 slave who does not work, volunteer, go to college or whatever- something to fill her days besides just keeping the home and waiting for you to come home.... Runs the risk of not only being terribly bored herself, but also boring you to tears.


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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 5:08:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

1. Buy a shirt
 
2. Be a man and woman first then a master and slave.
 
3. Communicate
 
4. Trust your instinct.
 
5. Make up your mind - is it purely sexual, or emotional. If there is no emotion, it wont last, or be as fulfilling IMO. Depends what you both want.
 
 
 
 
 
 


Yes, yes, and yes.

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 5:13:14 AM   
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And a 24/7 slave who does not work, volunteer, go to college or whatever- something to fill her days besides just keeping the home and waiting for you to come home.... Runs the risk of not only being terribly bored herself, but also boring you to tears.



agreed, everyone needs soemthing to do in their free time... otherwise it might aswell not be free.

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 6:09:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Gain more understanding about the difference between the REAL thing and the illusory fantasy, by watching this PBS documentary:

Global Voices, The Day My God Died
Alternatively, the URL can be copied and pasted into the address bar of your web browser.
http://www.hulu.com/watch/69769/global-voices-the-day-my-god-died
The Hulu website requires the Adobe Flash plug-in to display the video.

This is a PBS "Independent Lens" documentary broadcast on 11/30/04.
PBS, Independent Lens DMGD
http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/daymygoddied/
"Young girls whose lives were shattered by the sex trade describe the day they were abducted from their villages as 'the day my god died.' By weaving footage from the brothels of Bombay with these girls’ stories, Levine offers an unforgettable examination of the growing plague of sex slavery."

Every self proclaimed "master/slave" should watch this documentary to learn about the difference between the real thing, and their illusory fantasy.


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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 8:22:32 AM   
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Gain more understanding about the difference between the REAL thing and the illusory fantasy, by watching this PBS documentary:

Global Voices, The Day My God Died
Alternatively, the URL can be copied and pasted into the address bar of your web browser.
http://www.hulu.com/watch/69769/global-voices-the-day-my-god-died
The Hulu website requires the Adobe Flash plug-in to display the video.

This is a PBS "Independent Lens" documentary broadcast on 11/30/04.
PBS, Independent Lens DMGD
http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/daymygoddied/
"Young girls whose lives were shattered by the sex trade describe the day they were abducted from their villages as 'the day my god died.' By weaving footage from the brothels of Bombay with these girls’ stories, Levine offers an unforgettable examination of the growing plague of sex slavery."

Every self proclaimed "master/slave" should watch this documentary to learn about the difference between the real thing, and their illusory fantasy.




I was assuming the OP was talking about consensual slavery. The "real thing", is very sweet and satisfying for my slaveboy and I. It is 100% consensual. It has nothing at all to do with forced enslavement. Anybody who would confuse the two would hafta be really out of touch with reality, IMHO.

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 10:01:47 AM   
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Contra to holly, THIS is bingo. Oh, and some pants also.

To the OP- I looked at your profile, and consulted with Kim, my living breathing expert-on-all-things-female, and we noticed that the word "pervert" is used 7 times. Along with numerous repetitions of "sexual", "sick and twisted", etc. And that you were a pervert at the age of 5. And that you want to do things that are "socially unacceptable" and "on most people's list of limits". And that you require nothing of a woman except she be sexually attractive to you.

But, as you helpfully point out, that you are "NOT psychotic, cold-hearted, and immature."

You have been on this earth for over half a century; you became sexually mature when Gerald Ford was president. And yet you are still wondering that "... a purely sexual relationship... might get rather tedious after a while." But not to fear, your profile says that when your sexual desire ebbs, she should find something to do with herself while you ignore her.

General Tip #1: You ask for a woman who can "function socially and non-sexually as well". Maybe she would want the same.

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 10:17:27 AM   
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And a 24/7 slave who does not work, volunteer, go to college or whatever- something to fill her days besides just keeping the home and waiting for you to come home.... Runs the risk of not only being terribly bored herself, but also boring you to tears.



agreed, everyone needs soemthing to do in their free time... otherwise it might aswell not be free.



Well, I'm a 24/7 slave.
Not a 24/7 sex slave mind you, Master usually puts more emphasis on other types of service then sexual ones, mostly domestic service.

But anyways, as a slave, I do not have "free" time.
When discussing it with Master before begging his collar he very pointedly said: "you won’t BE free, so why would you need free time?"

Now, the fact that I don't have free time doesn't mean I sit around waiting for him all day. I have a list of things I have to do that is as long as my arm and am expected to keep myself very occupied with all of them.
Besides that, I also go to college, not because I want to -because I really really don't- but because HE ordered me to go, for his own reasons.

Now the fact that I don't have free time doesn't mean I never get to relax. Sometimes when Master and Mistress are watching a movie he will order me to come lay at his feet and watch it with him. He does things like order me to read a book, when I have to wait for him, or they will allow me to watch TV on my own sometimes, during chores or after they are done.

But all of those things, while relaxing, are not my free time, because I do not get to pick and choose what I am going to be doing during those times, or when they will be.

I do agree with the notion that the OP needs more of a plan than to keep her as just a sex slave 24/7. She will get bored pretty fast, unless her owner finds away to keep her occupied between the moments they are having sex.


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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 10:18:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: aldompdx

Gain more understanding about the difference between the REAL thing and the illusory fantasy, by watching this PBS documentary:

Global Voices, The Day My God Died
Alternatively, the URL can be copied and pasted into the address bar of your web browser.
http://www.hulu.com/watch/69769/global-voices-the-day-my-god-died
The Hulu website requires the Adobe Flash plug-in to display the video.

This is a PBS "Independent Lens" documentary broadcast on 11/30/04.
PBS, Independent Lens DMGD
http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/daymygoddied/
"Young girls whose lives were shattered by the sex trade describe the day they were abducted from their villages as 'the day my god died.' By weaving footage from the brothels of Bombay with these girls’ stories, Levine offers an unforgettable examination of the growing plague of sex slavery."

Every self proclaimed "master/slave" should watch this documentary to learn about the difference between the real thing, and their illusory fantasy.




Uh no, I don't have to watch that to know the difference between "real slavery" and slaves in the bdsm lifestyle. I just have to have some common sense about me.


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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 11:24:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		As many have said, the approach is similar to a "nilla" relationship inless she is just going to be a fuck toy/animal. The other things to take into consideration, is the enormous responsibility that comes with owning a slave. If it is a power exchange relationship of a more complete degree, then you are now responsible for another humans life. Most people cannot be responsible for themselves, much less someone else. It takes a lot of work, seriously. Some people are not responsible enough to own a dog, cat or goldfish, must less being responsible for another human.

Hope things work out, and never be afraid to look for knowledge concerning things.

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 11:29:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well lets take what you said and I can show you lots of problems with it.
 
24/7 Sexual Slavery.
 
24/7 to me always seems to imply that there is a game being played that needs a guideline for the time being spent in character. If something is going to be 24/7/365 then it really doesn't need to be said because what you are wanting is for them to be themselves at all times and if the person that they are isn't naturally behaved to your liking them I can say in most cases 24/7 becomes a myth.
 
Sexual to me implies that that is their purpose. They are only there to satisfy your sexual drive and if this is the case then it is often you who will bore of her before she bores of you. When you find that you are only interested in particular parts of a body you will find that variety is sought. If you find that the whole person is your interest there is more to keep you busy taking a much longer time to get bored.
 
Slavery has always implied a concept of being indebted to or sold to and even though I myself use the term slave it is rarely used as a marker on the relationship, I never say that she is my slave rather I say that she is a slave, our relationship is always just that a relationship as two people coming together and enjoying the time we spend together. I find that most relationships that are founded on forced servitude tend to have a shorter shelf life then those that were created out of a mutual interest to just be who and what you already were.
 
If you ask me... which you kind of have.... what you need to do is just suck it up and have a relationship with this girl and see where it goes. Stop defining things just tell her what you like, what you expect, and what you aren't willing to put up with and encourage her to do the same and then start with honesty and also the knowledge that you both want to be right where you are.
 
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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 12:37:39 PM   
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...and some trousers too :p

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RE: What are the pitfalls of 24/7 sexual slavery? - 12/2/2009 12:53:36 PM   
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...and some trousers too :p




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