ordinary
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I've thought about it before, but I've honestly never known anyone who described themselves as a switch so I couldn't ask. I'm submissive, and ideally I'd like a loving relationship with a dominant man. I've gotten a few emails from switches, and maybe they're nice people, but this little voice inside my head nags at me 'They'll never be satisfied with just you'. I assume people call themselves switches because they have desires on both ends of the spectrum, however I am a one man woman, and I want a monogamous relationship so bringing others into our relationship would not fly. I have no interest in being dominant, so how would my switch partner satisfy his submissive side, too? I realize there are switches who lean more heavily towards one or the other, but there's always going to be that nagging voice in my head 'what if he wants that and I can't give it to him?' Has anyone felt like this before? Does anyone have any advice? Any thoughts?
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