why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves?

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leone1 -> why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:00:34 PM)
Im just curious what the fansination with younger subissives (18-23) that older dominat (40-100) have. Please help me understand.

DarkSteven -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:02:12 PM)
Simple. 1. The younguns are cuter. 2. They're not sophisticated enough to recognize a line of bullshit yet like the older women can.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:05:41 PM)
Younnger pmes are open to about any thing and most don't have any bad habits that need to be corrected from previous owners and yes most are cute as well..Bounty

CaringandReal -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:08:38 PM)
Lots of reasons. They are cute? I find younger dominants cute.... ...among other things. ;) The truth is, it just looks like most of the 40-100 yr. olds want younger. Some want women around the same age as themselves. I'm older, so that type writes my profile a lot.

littlewonder -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:13:21 PM)
Younger ones have smoother skin, tighter, smaller bodies, firmer tits, more naive, not as much baggage, moldable, more energetic.

leone1 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:15:42 PM)
Line of bullshit like what? May I ask.

hopelessfool -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:17:57 PM)
like if you were really a sub... youd... (insert limit here) If you want to please me and be true you will (insert illegal activity here) they will pull the "topping from the bottom' card a lot with under subs. and most importantly... I jsut want to train or mentor you... for nsa fun

peppermint -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:21:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven 2. They're not sophisticated enough to recognize a line of bullshit yet like the older women can. I love it when you break answers down into simple words of wisdom.

leone1 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:23:12 PM)
D= oh...

DarkSteven -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:26:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leone1 Line of bullshit like what? May I ask. About anything. Take a forty year old woman. She will likely have encountered the guy who says he's not married when he is, the guy who refuses to commit, the guy who chooses video games over a relationship, the guy who has substance issues... and her attitude is "I've been down that road and am not going there again." A younger woman may not be able to spot them the first time.

NormalOutside -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:30:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leone1 Please help me understand. The question can be rephrased: "Why do people seek young females for relationships?" It's not just dirty old men that do it.

breatheasone -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:37:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder Younger ones have smoother skin, tighter, smaller bodies, firmer tits, more naive, not as much baggage, moldable, more energetic. Yep...this is why.

Kirata -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 7:51:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder Younger ones have smoother skin, tighter, smaller bodies, firmer tits, more naive, not as much baggage, moldable, more energetic. True, though at my age the 18-23 range specified in the OP is below my threshold. To me, a younger woman means one in her 30's. Everything you said is still true, though. It's all relative. Heh. K.

leone1 -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 8:11:11 PM)
Thank you for all the responses. Very helpful.

AnimusRex -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 10:07:35 PM)
Dark Steven- quit divulging the club secrets, or we will revoke your ManCard. IXNAY ON THE ECRETSSAY!!

MargueriteV -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 11:25:47 PM)
A number of young subs look for dominants around 40, because they think people in their own age group don't know anything.

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 11:29:01 PM)
OP: ingrained survival of the species... GM

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 11:32:19 PM)
~FR~ I'm surprised no one has mentioned this yet: Younger subs are more likely to be single/unowned and less likely to have family obligations that would curtail their service.

Elisabella -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/6/2009 11:49:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: leone1 Line of bullshit like what? May I ask. About anything. Take a forty year old woman. She will likely have encountered the guy who says he's not married when he is, the guy who refuses to commit, the guy who chooses video games over a relationship, the guy who has substance issues... and her attitude is "I've been down that road and am not going there again." A younger woman may not be able to spot them the first time. LOL actually I see a lot of 40-something women posting BS like "he cheated on me but says it's ok because he's a Dom" or "is it poly if he didn't tell me about her til I found out another way" or "he won't let me call him at home because as a slave I don't have that privilege" or some other form of "does questioning this mean I'm not a true submissive." Older women were raised with a certain idea of how relationships should be, and if they're getting back into dating after a divorce or this is otherwise their first BDSM relationship they're more likely to believe what a dominant says are the Rules of Alternative Relationships vs. a younger submissive who was raised in a world where relationships, like everything else, are what you want them to be and if a man does something they don't like, they were born into a world that tells them they Don't Need A Man (tm) and are more likely to walk. Or so I've found. Granted the 40 y/o women who HAVE had experience with alternative relationships have a lower tolerance for BS but I'd say in general, 20-somethings have a 'take it or leave it' mindset when it comes to relationships whereas 40/50 year olds have more of a "all relationships are compromise" and "this is how it should be" mindset.

sunshinemiss -> RE: why do older dominat seek yonger subimssives/slaves? (12/7/2009 5:56:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder Younger ones have ... not as much baggage, moldable, more energetic. Hey lil wonder, I'd disagree with this. Younger ones haven't dealt with their issues yet which is why they are more moldable and such. They haven't started to live within their own authority as much. YMMV, sunshine

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