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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/12/2010 11:01:53 PM

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Take a hike NO one here cares to hear about all the bulls__t in your fantasy world.You are a self centerd c__t Make room for other women who Truly seek a D/s relationship.You and your bulls__t is cluttering up the site so TAKE A HIKE.

I had one send me an email recently demanding that I take my profile down, or, as he put it... "if your totally owned then your ad dont need to be here any more, take it off" Eventually he told me I was a "Waist of site space". Sheesh he really needed a 5th Grade English teacher.

These are the folks I refer to as "sanctimonious a$$holes", definately NOT a Dom/Master

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 1:17:47 AM

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When I first set up my profile here a few years ago, I got a message from a local 'dom' basically telling me I wasn't Tw00 (sigh...) and that I should go back to 'nilla-land. It was totally out of the blue - I'd never even heard of the bloke before, never mind talked to him or even posted on the boards. Turns out he was so secure in his domliness and superiority that he blocked me so I couldn't reply. My thought was - ignorant, rude twat.

Anyways, a couple of years later I pluck up the courage to go to a local munch. Turns out he's a member, and turns out pretty much everyone recognises him as the twat I thought he was

So I would say to any sub that receives that kind of 'Domlier than thou' message, the sender is usually a sad, lonely, emotionally stunted little man whose ego is so fragile that the only way he can get his rocks off is by being nasty to complete strangers. Pity them, block, delete and move on.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 4:34:41 AM

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Almost always that kind of email comes from someone who knows he hasn't got a chance with the girl so he strikes out himself before he can be rejected. Block and delete.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 4:37:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Almost always that kind of email comes from someone who knows he hasn't got a chance with the girl so he strikes out himself before he can be rejected. Block and delete.

Beautifully put!

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 4:54:48 AM

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Hello WoldBigandBad
I am sorry your girl had to experience this type of email. The reality here and i am sure other sites you will find doms who feel it is their right to do so. They have zero respect for s-types and that you will have to accept. I have seen it since i started 2 and a half years ago. Though my experiences have not been many, the Doms i served did not display that type of behavior. Sir has no patience for that type of behavior, and says gives the wrong impression of how a Dom should carry themselves. We all have minds, and opinions...so embrace those that you like, respect those you can't and take a stand when one speaks gibberish.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 4:58:29 AM

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Why is it that there are so many "Doms"/"Masters" on this site that will gladly go out of their way to be so rude to people.

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There is really no answer to this. If you have 10 rude people in a room, you will have 10 different reasons for their rude behavior.

We can't control the behavior of others. The only thing we can do is control our reaction to it.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 5:27:42 AM

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I blame your cooking....... and the fact that this thread is a year old.

People are MUCH kinder now. It is the dawn of a new era.

go fuck yourselves.

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Jeff

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 7:19:02 AM

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written a couple of times i believe i said, i could of times as in t3wo, not LOADS of email.

why would someone ignore emails then talk smack?

thus the OP. why are people so rude?

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 7:25:40 AM

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read what i wrote. i said a couple ., not LOADS. sent a couple as in two. asking why this person felt the need to be so rude. i was just trying to stop stupiditiy on the forum,,,, good luck with that one.

why do so many subs write on the ask a master thread. there is a thread for subs to write on.???!!!

i also said,,, i try my best to ignore, sometimes my best isnt good enough. but hardly a contradiction.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 8:52:15 AM

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I recently received an email from someone that became offended when he asked what I do for a living and I told him I could not answer as that not many people do what I do and I did not want to give a road map to my identity... he ranted that I was a bitch and full of myself, and that I was a liar... on and on and on and on... I just politely told him that I hoped he got the therapy he needed and then I blocked him

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 8:59:19 AM

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Please allow me to non-rudely welcome you back to the boards, Ms. Julia. It's been too long.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 12:21:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I blame your cooking....... and the fact that this thread is a year old.

People are MUCH kinder now. It is the dawn of a new era.

go fuck yourselves.

Love

Jeff

It's a year old? Really? Or did you mean "oh, that's soooooooo last year"?

ConfusedCali
(checking the calendar... January 2010 subtract December 2009... right about a month old...)

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 12:24:14 PM

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Look... it was early... and I was tired......

I was wrong... I know... un-domly....... fuck off!

Jeff

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 12:31:54 PM

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Please allow me to non-rudely welcome you back to the boards, Ms. Julia. It's been too long.

i'd like to second this. Welcome back Juliaoceania! (i hope this wasn't too non-nonsensical a post, i realize what a pain it is when some post, and it doesn't really, "add to the discussion") Just the same....Welcome back Juliaoceania!

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 2:23:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Please allow me to non-rudely welcome you back to the boards, Ms. Julia. It's been too long.

quote:

'd like to second this. Welcome back Juliaoceania! (i hope this wasn't too non-nonsensical a post, i realize what a pain it is when some post, and it doesn't really, "add to the discussion") Just the same....Welcome back Juliaoceania!

thanks!

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 2:24:27 PM

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Yes, good to see you...:)

Jeff

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 2:40:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Look... it was early... and I was tired......

I was wrong... I know... un-domly....... fuck off!

Jeff

Gotta love Jefffffffffffffffffffffffffff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 3:17:36 PM

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my pleasure Juliaoceania, It really is good to see you posting again.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 5:41:55 PM

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Hey! I haven't been laid in a very long time and I'm not an asshole...so fuck off lol

And I get laid on a regular basis and I can be an incredible asshole at times. So much for that theory.

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RE: Why go out of your way to be so rude? - 1/13/2010 5:43:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I recently received an email from someone that became offended when he asked what I do for a living and I told him I could not answer as that not many people do what I do and I did not want to give a road map to my identity... he ranted that I was a bitch and full of myself, and that I was a liar... on and on and on and on... I just politely told him that I hoped he got the therapy he needed and then I blocked him

Hey Julia,

Long time no see! How you been?

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