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LadyPact -> RE: Your Opinion Please... (12/11/2009 1:47:04 PM)
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Candy, I think your male friend is partially correct, though if I were him, I would be expanding the concept to everyone, and not just the Dommes.
I've started a couple of threads of My own in the past on the subject, asking a similar question. Yes, I've wondered on more than one occasion if people honestly believe the memories of some posters out there really are quite so short or if we just have selective memories somehow. There will be personality conflicts of all types amongst people out there. Not everyone is going to have the best day, or the best month for that matter, when typing up what they do around here. At some point, the allowances for potential poor behavior stop, and a person's character and attitude shine through.
On some occasions, I've even gone so far as to ask a particular poster if they realized they really were shooting themselves in the foot by displaying the way they were addressing other posters here. I've told people that I would never be interested in them by the way they have treated one of the other Dominant women. That includes what goes on around these boards and sometimes off.
There are a number of Dominant women who frequent these boards, some I've had the pleasure of meeting and some I haven't, that I would seriously take them in their word if they had bad experiences with one of the bottom/sub/slaves. While some of us don't particularly email each other on a frequent basis, there are some folks around here that I wouldn't want in My life, due to the poor reference that one of the Dommes gave them. To be honest, I don't even need to know the details of such. It's enough for Me to know My opinion of the person giving the poor reference. I made that mistake one time around here, and I can promise you that I was completely wrong.
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