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osf -> RE: stirring the pot (12/19/2009 8:18:39 AM)
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nowhere in my post did i say needful of any person, i said THE relationship or person
and how can you say we're not driven by our needs?
and realistically in our society how can you say you own anyone?
when i speak about owner/property, its that way because both agree to make it their reality
the only way as i see it that a dom keeps a subbie under control is through being consistent and resolute but in the end both have to enter the relationship with their needs, driven by their needs and if those need are met the relationship has a chance to succeed, if their needs are not fulfilled the relationship will in my opinion fail
what can be said is as the dom you give the subbie choices with consequences, she either acquiesces to your desires/wants/demands (choose the word) or you'll make a choice of punishment up to and including separation
what many on here call d/s, i call d/w, dominance / whatever
instead of asking for clarification so many on here jump to conclusions that sometimes defy logic and then there are those who pick someone with whom they disagree and reflexively strike out as though their thoughts will pollute the gene pool and need to be eradicated
there are way too many engaging in politically correct thought policing, they seem hell bent on impressing each other and saving the newbes from the current dangerous troll
sometimes its hard to remain an adult on here
if anyone has a question about the meaning of anything i say, im open to questions but its difficult to rationally respond to a petty minded attack
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