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Jon - Middle TN - Brand New To... All of This - 9/4/2004 3:51:42 AM

JonIsHere

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Phew...

This is overwhelming. I was "introduced" to this alternative lifestyle by a 'friend' of mine a few days ago. All of this seems... interesting - to say the least. I am young and very open-minded so naturally BDSM grabbed my attention. I don't know much about any aspect of this... So I can't tell you much about my preferences or orientation. For anyone interested here's a brief over-view :

Short Description

- 18 year old male in Mid TN (pic in profile)
- Going to school in the fall but currently own my own business
- Newly single (ended one-year relationship last week)
- Into athletics, vehicle modification, movie making, writing, and interesting conversation

Personality

- Open minded
- Outgoing
- Humorous
- Realistic
- Optimistic
- Slightly Intelligent
- Helpful

Blah, blah. If you are still reading you must be interested so from here you can "message" me to learn more about me

BDSM Thoughts

My Soapbox : Okay, here is what I know. See I am by nature, a VERY control-focused person. In every situation in my life, I am aware of who is in control and what is going on. Most of the time I like to be the one in control. I think of it this way - I own MY life, no one else does. I need to have control because if I don't then what is there? Chaos. And it is VERY hard for me to let go of control, for any reason.

So, naturally being a Dominant would appeal to me. However, the idea of finding a woman that could make me submit to her is very appealing. Being willing to release control to a female is something I have never really done. So finding a woman that could get me there sounds very intriguing. But I don't know enough about any of this to be certain about... anything.

However, I think I know this much. I could never be into the hyper-intense aspects of this lifestyle. The long term and/or intense pain and stuff doesn't appeal to me really (whether I was dominating or submitting). I like to have fun and I love to be crazy and spontaneous but I am still somewhat reasonable. Whips, cuffs, bondage, control, all sorts of sex, that stuff is hot and fun most of the time. Pain and frusteration don't seem to have purpose. I have had too much of the latter two in my life already.

I seem to have rambled sufficiently long enough. I step humbly and powerfully off my soapbox and await someone's interest in my situation. Take it easy and enjoy life.

Jon

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RE: Jon - Middle TN - Brand New To... All of This - 9/4/2004 8:36:30 AM

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Hope you enjoy the site Jon and see where your fantasies take you.

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RE: Jon - Middle TN - Brand New To... All of This - 9/4/2004 8:57:08 AM

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Hi jon, welcome to the boards...

Y/you don't have to enjoy pain to be in the lifestyle, W/we all have O/our own kinks. i do however enjoy pain/pleasure *smiles* but the Mental aspects of D/s are amazing for me.

Hope Y/you find who Y/your looking for and have fun in the boards... A lot of great learning in the board.

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RE: Jon - Middle TN - Brand New To... All of This - 9/4/2004 11:24:19 AM

SentForu

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Welcome to the boards Jon. You'll eventually find where you fit. Just takes a little time and patience. Just jump right on in, I did...lol. They won't chew you up too bad. I'm new to the lifestyle myself.