sexyred1 -> RE: Not quite sure how to continue... (12/31/2009 12:17:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail and I hear ya, SR1 may be the entire case, but it is like worth a try, not trying is not knowing, and after all said and done......would you rather he tried at the time or said outright fuck it you're not worth it. it is a hard deal, and gonna require some herculean effort or some devilishly hard choices.....but when you consider (if I got this right, see? I do pay attention) that shes deployed and hes home, he could just walk off to the lawyer and....... Well that says to me there is some kinda wanna there. You smelling what Im cooking here? The Rock Yeah Rock, I do smell what you are cooking, but I will reiterate: love is sometimes not enough to compensate for such an important element. You can try till the cows come home, but if it is not IN you, I mean you really have no proclivity towards this, then you cannot force it. And when there is true love involved (like mine), even that can be systematically destroyed when resentment kicks in and when inadequacy (on the guy's part not being able to be the Dom she wants) kicks in.
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