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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 5:43:13 PM   
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I must say this is one of the strangest split-personality threads I have seen on these boards recently...really two threads intertwined and yet disjointed. In one, people trying to answer the OP's question and make informative contributions, and in the other the OP flailing widely about arms and legs kicking out
<<<Osf

Oh holly, this is just too fricking funny!!!!  

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 5:52:15 PM   
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i was here 2 years or more ago and this didn't happen all that much

people were more civil and contributed to the conversation

i'm kinda shocked at the change


This is SOOOOO untrue. It wasnt til 2 years ago that the moderators started cracking the whip til we learned to rephrase things and not name call. Many got banned for quite awhile because of it.

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:08:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		i just had the likes of john warren on my ass not the homeless thread skipping miscreants nipping at me

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:23:02 PM   
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If that is the case, why bother with questions at all? If you only want people to agree with you, all your going to get is people who hold the same view. It's not going to show you another way that might not be your own.


don't you read anything?

go back and read it within context


I did read it in context. I'm not seeing that many other males come here and say they are given more or less leeway because they are male.




three points to consider

#1 few seem to want your advice

#2 save the advice that no one wants and write a book and see how rich you get

#3 free advice is worth exactly what you pay for it


your choice


I completely disagree. LP is very respected both here and in the lifestyle.

1. Many listen to her advice
2. Many would buy the book. They also go to her workshops.
3. Maybe you should be more appreciative of advice given, instead of treating it like garbage. Its like throwing away diamonds.

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:24:47 PM   
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Maybe you should be more appreciative of advice given, instead of treating it like garbage. Its like throwing away diamonds.


if i don't want it and she tries to force it on me then it's garbage

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:28:50 PM   
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In My opinion, any person who's reading what I write around here has the absolute right to determine whether what I have said on any particular subject is good or not.  However, I don't write anything with any one particular poster in mind.

Original posts are NOT owned by the OP who crafted that post.  Once it is written, it is there for anyone to contribute, whether it's what the originator wants to hear or not.


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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:32:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


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ORIGINAL: osf

there are those of us on this site that are trying to meet someone and we're trying in our own ways




and um... just how is that working for you? It would seem that it hasn't been going so well.... and frankly... I think there is more than a few that are not suprized by your apparent lack of success in trying to go your current way.


and you know this how?



Preceptive Knowledge amoung other things... but interesting how you avoid the question... could be you don't like the answer you would have to give?



i do get weary of asinine personal questions, and why is it any of your business?


Just a mere couple of days ago you said you couldnt find, what you sought. You were whining about it. Now you say its none of our business?

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:36:34 PM   
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i just had the likes of john warren on my ass not the homeless thread skipping miscreants nipping at me


Well, lets see you have disrespected and disregarded advice from well known respected lifestylers LadyPact and KnightofMist.

Let me Guess.......The well known author of The Loving Dominant...John Warren, is full of shit too? Right?

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 1/2/2010 6:39:10 PM >

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:40:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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ORIGINAL: osf

i just had the likes of john warren on my ass not the homeless thread skipping miscreants nipping at me


Well, lets see you have disrespected and disregarded advice from well known respected lifestylers LadyPact and KnightofMist.

Let me Guess.......The well known author of The Loving Dominant...John Warren, is full of shit too? Right?


i'm not impressed by people who say they're important

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RE: early mistakes - 1/2/2010 6:51:34 PM   
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i just had the likes of john warren on my ass not the homeless thread skipping miscreants nipping at me


Name calling? I thought you dont attack? I am a "homeless thread skipping Miscreant" because I follow up and respond on threads I am engaging in?

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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 7:56:28 AM   
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i'm not impressed by people who say they're important


actually... I don't see anyone saying they are important... or have more important opinions than others. But, I do see on occassion those who have a huge chip on their shoulder with regards to their lot in life and passive aggressively attack those who seem to be rather happy with their lot in life. While others tend to be inspired and motivated by those happy with their lot in life.

I must say.. that I most unimpress with the former over the latter... in fact.. I would say that that I am inspired and motivated by those that are are inspired and motivated... it's a rather nice positive constructive cycle to be in.

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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 8:21:30 AM   
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actually... I don't see anyone saying they are important... or have more important opinions than others. But, I do see on occassion those who have a huge chip on their shoulder with regards to their lot in life and passive aggressively attack those who seem to be rather happy with their lot in life


would you kindly point that person out to me?

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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 8:53:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		Automatically assuming the "Dom" I was with knew what he was doing....he didn't and he didn't admit to it. I discovered this when he sent me to Alt supposedly to make friends with other submissives, instead I discovered that he didn't have the first clue what he was doing or how to use the toys he was going to use on me.

Thankfully things didn't go that far or I could have been seriously injured. This is the only time I've actually been grateful he lived far away which is why we hadn't yet had the chance to "play".

zeph


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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 8:59:34 AM   
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Automatically assuming the "Dom" I was with knew what he was doing....he didn't and he didn't admit to it. I discovered this when he sent me to Alt supposedly to make friends with other submissives, instead I discovered that he didn't have the first clue what he was doing or how to use the toys he was going to use on me.

Thankfully things didn't go that far or I could have been seriously injured. This is the only time I've actually been grateful he lived far away which is why we hadn't yet had the chance to "play".

zeph



a good one knows his limitations, hell there's a lot of common play activities i don't know how to do because they never interested me, so i certainly wouldnt practice on a newbe and say trust me i know what im doing

< Message edited by osf -- 1/3/2010 9:09:01 AM >

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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 9:05:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Osf, did you intend to say that you practice on a newbe and say trust me, I know what I'm doing?  Or was that a series of typos, or lack of clarification.  Kinda need to know, before I get all irate and rational on you.

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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 9:08:28 AM   
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Automatically assuming the "Dom" I was with knew what he was doing....he didn't and he didn't admit to it. I discovered this when he sent me to Alt supposedly to make friends with other submissives, instead I discovered that he didn't have the first clue what he was doing or how to use the toys he was going to use on me.

Thankfully things didn't go that far or I could have been seriously injured. This is the only time I've actually been grateful he lived far away which is why we hadn't yet had the chance to "play".

zeph



a good one knows his limitations, hell there's a lot of common play activities i don't know how to do because they never interested me, so i certainly practice on a newbe and say trust me i know what im doing


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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 9:09:21 AM   
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Osf, did you intend to say that you practice on a newbe and say trust me, I know what I'm doing?  Or was that a series of typos, or lack of clarification.  Kinda need to know, before I get all irate and rational on you.

WinD


corrected ty

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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 9:12:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


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Osf, did you intend to say that you practice on a newbe and say trust me, I know what I'm doing?  Or was that a series of typos, or lack of clarification.  Kinda need to know, before I get all irate and rational on you.

WinD


corrected ty


Thank you for the correction, I'm going to edit my own post now.


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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 9:16:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Osf, did you intend to say that you practice on a newbe and say trust me, I know what I'm doing?  Or was that a series of typos, or lack of clarification.  Kinda need to know, before I get all irate and rational on you.

WinD



you're cute when your irate and rational

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RE: early mistakes - 1/3/2010 9:16:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Automatically assuming the "Dom" I was with knew what he was doing....he didn't and he didn't admit to it. I discovered this when he sent me to Alt supposedly to make friends with other submissives, instead I discovered that he didn't have the first clue what he was doing or how to use the toys he was going to use on me.

Thankfully things didn't go that far or I could have been seriously injured. This is the only time I've actually been grateful he lived far away which is why we hadn't yet had the chance to "play".

zeph



a good one knows his limitations, hell there's a lot of common play activities i don't know how to do because they never interested me, so i certainly wouldnt practice on a newbe and say trust me i know what im doing


A wise decision, osf. Sadly he put his pride ahead of my safety, he just couldn't admit that he was new to BDSM and that almost put my health and safety at risk.


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