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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 8:10:36 AM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1




Well, c'mon now sexyred- when a guy posts over a hundred times every single day, not every one can be a gem.


stalin said quantity has a quality all it's own

when i find someone i'll not be around much

so if you all help out a poor dom, i'll go away lolololololololol

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 8:22:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Doesn't matter how many unpartnered socalled dominants whine about rude subs turning them down, we don't have to kowtow around your massive insecurities because we wouldn't ever submit to you.

I'm not interested in idiots whose first response is to punch somebody. I wouldn't spend my time soothing feathers he ruffled because he has no self control. No self control = no control of others. That's how it works, you must demonstrate your control before you get to try it on us.

So as far as people like me, if we can scare off you terribly insecure types, then that's a blessing. I'm not rude to him because he isn't an idiot. And he has no problem with me being rude to idiots. I submit to one, and none of the online whiners is that one.

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 10:40:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: osf

when i find someone i'll not be around much     so if you all help out a poor dom, i'll go away lolololololololol



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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 12:03:18 PM   
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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:50:07 PM   
RedMagic1


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:54:59 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: Psychonaut23

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Doesn't matter how many unpartnered socalled dominants whine about rude subs turning them down, we don't have to kowtow around your massive insecurities because we wouldn't ever submit to you.

I'm not interested in idiots whose first response is to punch somebody. I wouldn't spend my time soothing feathers he ruffled because he has no self control. No self control = no control of others. That's how it works, you must demonstrate your control before you get to try it on us.

So as far as people like me, if we can scare off you terribly insecure types, then that's a blessing. I'm not rude to him because he isn't an idiot. And he has no problem with me being rude to idiots. I submit to one, and none of the online whiners is that one.


Who are you talking about?

There seems to be different standards of what it means to be rude going on in this thread.  Several people are talking about "standing up for yourself," and I don't see how that has anything to do with being rude.

In my view, rude is this message here from DesFIP.  Because I was talking about people being punched in the face earlier (though the way she is talking about it, she either totally failed to comprehend what I was saying or is intentionally distorting the meaning into a straw man), I get the sense that she's taking a potshot at me.  Maybe she is, maybe she isn't.  I can't tell because it's all cloaked in this gross, passive-aggressive mealy-mouthed nonsense and she doesn't actually name the person she's attacking.

That is what I call being rude.  It's craven, disgusting and extremely unattractive.  It paints DesFIP as a person who is fundamentally dishonest and cowardly, hiding behind soft language and weasel words.  It's not standing up for yourself, it's not facing down a bully, and it's not a sign of strength or character.

It's just craven bullshit.



Was that you? I remembered a posting saying he hit people in the nose and wanted a sub to clean up after him. I apologise if I misremembered or misinterpreted.

But if you don't do this and were using the example as hyperbole, then why did you get your knickers in a twist if it doesn't apply?

It was an example of a behavior that causes subs to run far away and not submit to the person who acts in this manner. If you don't act in this manner, then calm down as my subsequent posting has nothing to do with you. If you do act in this manner, then I would suggest you dealing with your issues before entering into a relationship as this kind of behavior as a first response is unhealthy.

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:57:54 PM   
hopelessfool


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If you cant take the heat stay out of the kitchen...

If you doms dont like what us poor little subbies are saying, how about saying away from the claws, I mean if you poked a tiger, youd expect to get eaten...

From now on.. call me miss tiger...


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 1:58:50 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Dude, if you don't mind my saying so, you are wound a little tight.

Not everything posted here is about you, men you personally know and like or men in general.

Sometimes folks really are assholes. It happens even in this beloved lifestyle.


Let that resonate through the community!


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 5:23:59 PM   
sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?


If they are talking to you, yes.

That is not a snarky answer.  I am much more interested in brains and fire than I am in domme or sub.  And I like it when a woman can assess a situation correctly and realize it is time to verbally kick someone's ass.



*smooches Red.  I will take it that this is pointed my way.  *he he he... Interpret to your own advantage, I always say!

quote:



i like to leave the answer up to the answerer


*koff*

quote:


Ya know... I'm pretty ok with being less submissive than a dead horse. At least I can still be ridden.

(Does that make me rude? )


It makes you hot, and Valyrean one damn fine lucky man!

quote:


Doesn't matter how many unpartnered socalled dominants whine about rude subs turning them down, we don't have to kowtow around your massive insecurities because we wouldn't ever submit to you.


Go on Celeste!
quote:


I can't tell because it's all cloaked in this gross, passive-aggressive mealy-mouthed nonsense and she doesn't actually name the person she's attacking.


Somebody called Celeste passive aggressive!!!  

quote:


It's been...six years since I last got laid.  Six very stressful years without any real means of releasing tension except venting on the internet, which tends to create almost as much stress as it releases.

Cut me some slack. 


No. 

Thanks for the read, folks.  Dang... and to think I missed all this with doing my day stuff today.  *le sigh*.

Best,
sunshine




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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 5:33:48 PM   
persephonee


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ORIGINAL: Jeff


Let that resonate through the community!


Jeff


Okay, Jeff, but could you do me a favor, and define...."community"?

thank you

perse

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 7:42:15 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Sure. Me and everyone who agrees with me. The rest of you are just sick twisted fuckers!


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 9:01:18 PM   
JonnieBoy


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Status: offline 		By definition here (Cymru/Wales), "rude" means a number ot things, so I can say yes and I can say no to your question.

Rude women are preferable to prude women any day of the week

Pirate

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 9:11:09 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: JBGolden

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Ya know... I'm pretty ok with being less submissive than a dead horse. At least I can still be ridden.

(Does that make me rude? )


A dead horse can still be ridden!

You more than likely don't want to talk to the person who would, though.



Do some consider Necrophiliac"s Dominant's???

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 9:22:49 PM   
lusciouslips19


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But that doesn't mean there is a lack of self-control. I'm totally in control of when I let the beast go, how much chain I give him, what I let him do. I limit myself to people who are making a conscious attempt to make me angry, because the way I see it I am only giving those people what they want from me. I don't really understand why anyone would want that -- okay, online I do, because even I find myself pretty humorous when I hand the keyboard to my id and just let it seethe and spit venom, but the people who have provoked my anger in real life and ended up a bloody wreck, I really don't know what they were thinking.


There are some people that get angry and abuse women for things like leaving a dish in the sink. Anger is your emotion, so if a sub makes you angry and you think its conscious but its not, do you respond by Beating her out of anger?

Im asking because this posting makes you sound not like an in control dominant but like someone who takes issues out on people if they "set you off".

Im asking you to clarify this and possibly explain. BEcause this is sort of terrifying to alot of subs to be beaten and abused non-consensually. It does happen that subs think they are getting a dominant and end up with an abuser. So I would hate for you to be misinterpreted. Could you please explain this? Thanks.

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/2/2010 9:37:46 PM   
sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: sissyshoefetish


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1




Dear (not meaning to patronise by using that term) sexyred1, i feel offended by your mis treatment of that poor graphic animal - surely as a sub you should show respect all things and certainly you should show more respect to the self confessed misogynists among us - after all isn't your submissive nature really a desire for misogyny??

---- SORRY - my tonge got stuck in my cheek - i have taken it out now - i shall say three hail marys and present my ehind to the priest for a good seeing to- sorry- it really have taken my tongue form my cheek now, honest.


Dear ssf, so sorry I offended you. Perhaps next time I should beat a dead pussy instead of the aforementioned horse.... but then that would clearly be construed as misogynistic, no?

Or, if we want to continue in the animal vein...I could beat a dead cock and save us alot of speculation about what I really was inferring with the above post.

< Message edited by sexyred1 -- 1/2/2010 9:39:14 PM >

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/3/2010 12:56:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for the clarification. That makes a lot of sense.

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/3/2010 4:27:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		For the most part I'd say it's a negative thing... but it's easier to administer corporal punishment when they've done something wrong - it's more fun.

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/3/2010 9:19:11 AM   
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For the most part I'd say it's a negative thing... but it's easier to administer corporal punishment when they've done something wrong - it's more fun.


Something wrong according to whom?

I much prefer to be punished just for his enjoyment. Not because I did anything according to him "wrong".

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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/3/2010 9:27:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wait a minute...I thought the proper, and agreed upon terminology was 'funishment?'


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RE: do other doms consider the words submissives use - 1/3/2010 11:07:41 AM   
Acer49


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ORIGINAL: osf

do you find rude behavior by submissive women attractive?

i've heard some say it doesn't matter and the dom that would judge them by their online behavior isn't much of a dom

have any others heard this?

what are you reactions to this?

would you make such a submissive your first choice?


Being rude has nothing to do with being a dom or sub. No, it is not acceptiable and certainly not attractive. You are always accountable for behavior, whether you are on line or not and to the individual that said it does not matter, he or she is very mistaken. For the record, just because a submissive may disagree with an opinion and voice an alternate one, does not make them rude. If a submissive is found to be constantly rude, while I may still approach her, yes, I would probably pass on her. If it is just an occasional outburst, I would still consider a possible relationship. We are are human, we all have let our emotions get the best of us from time to time.

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