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marriedsub42 -> Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/21/2006 4:38:18 AM)

Do most Mistresses want a straight sub to serve? Is my fetish uncommon in this scene? I am new to the scene and looking for some answers.




MHOO314 -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/21/2006 4:51:12 AM)

There are many variations on a theme, it just takes time to find the right one---your screen name mentions you are married, is this not something you can share with your partner?




Nahemah -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/21/2006 5:17:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: marriedsub42

Do most Mistresses want a straight sub to serve? Is my fetish uncommon in this scene? I am new to the scene and looking for some answers.


The fast and simple answer is that every Domme is different. I prefer My submissives to be straight males. However, as I have seen and heard on other messages, the idea of having a gay male serve Me is very appealing in that it completely takes the sexual aspect out of the scene or relationship. If all a Mistress wants is service from Her submissive and all the submissive wants is to serve (non-sexually) then I think this would be an almost ideal situation. I personally love the sexual tension, the sexual excitement, so I stick with heterosexual men.

Hope this helps!






MistressLorelei -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/21/2006 7:39:10 AM)

I prefer a straight male, as I want the romantic element that comes only with Female-male attraction (and I don't mean sex).   I also tend to avoid  males who consider themselves bisexual, though interacting with males should not be his hard limit, as it may be necessary for him to do so.  When such interaction occurs,  I want him to do it for Me, but he shouldn't get too much pleasure out of it.




GoddessAlexia -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/21/2006 7:41:11 AM)

I like seeing variety, no matter if he is straight or not as long as we share the same fetishes.




southernsubboy -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/22/2006 3:16:54 PM)

* takes notes*  I am straight male myself and id probably agree with most of the lady's posts.




crouchingtigress -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/23/2006 8:06:00 AM)

I personally am very open, I tend to respond more to "the spark" (that rare beautiful look of service and devotion found only in certain peoples hearts) then the to their sexual orientation.




thetammyjo -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/23/2006 8:18:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: marriedsub42

Do most Mistresses want a straight sub to serve? Is my fetish uncommon in this scene? I am new to the scene and looking for some answers.


I personally prefer bisexuals if you are asking about orientation.

I find that since I'm happier with multiple partners and am scene bisexual myself that I have more success creating larger households with bisexual submissives.

(scene bisexual means that while I'm not attracted to other women in a vanilla or strictly sexual sense, I do enjoy the service and the company of submissive or switch women)




Jeniluscious -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/23/2006 1:09:11 PM)

Is your inference here that having an interest in cross-dressing makes one not het?  I'm trying to put this together from the title of the thread:  Curious sub cd.

I don't care for crossdressing and I don't have alliances with married men, but I think you might be a bit off if you think CD necessarily equals gay. 

It might help you if you did *something* with your profile.




darcyspanties -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/23/2006 2:04:29 PM)

Could not give a damn as long as they worship and serve me well. Having straight males etc all the time would bore me, variety is the spice of life!




marriedsub42 -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/24/2006 5:07:31 AM)

Thank You for your response. I have tried to share this with my spouse several times and she is not receptive to it. As I mentioned I am new to this scene. I do know that I find it very stimulating to "be told" or "ordered" by a woman. The thought of a domme telling me what to do and what to wear excites me, not to mention the entire "to serve" attitude. I appreciate your response




MstrssPassion -> RE: Curious sub cd - Mistress Interest (3/24/2006 5:32:16 AM)

You are going to find that your best option of having your own fetishes fulfilled is to locate a pro & pay her for her services.

Being married & your partner not being receptive to your kinks is not attractive. Most women are going to avoid married people completely. If you are actively seeking others & doing so without your wife knowing... this will label you as deceptive... again, not attractive.

Sorry to be so bleak... but that is the honest truth.




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