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Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 8:24:48 PM   
Puckerpup


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Status: offline 		Are there girls doms who prefer gay men, not so much as sexual servents, but as display objects or toys?

More so, any in vancouver?
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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 8:29:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not in Vancouver, but I'm sure there are some women who enjoy service that is not sexual. Perhaps you should consider sharing what you have to bring to the table?

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 8:42:53 PM   
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It's late and I'm too tired to try and make sense...Good Luck.



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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 8:49:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		While I take a break and ... this to you, I suggest you find a comfortable seat, kick back and have ....

I know I am rather south of your location, but I know there is a thriving community in you area. I suggest trying a local munch. If you are having trouble hooking up with those in your near community, I suggest looking into the site, 'FetLife.com' ... they have a very warm and welcoming community that will do all that is possible to help you achieve your goals, needs and desires in the safest fashion possible.

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 9:20:14 PM   
Puckerpup


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Status: offline 		well I have a big, 1 piece teddy bear suit, it went over really well at a friends of a friends bachelorette party. Lol

suppose if there are girls with a living toy fetish, they might like it.

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 9:34:57 PM   
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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 9:35:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, I believe that she meant more of what you offer up to a D/s relationship other than your kinks.  You will have a better chance of linking up with the right someone if you put your focus more on "Her" and less on "you" in your posts, your profile, etc. 

So good idea to give some thought and words to what does "She" get out of it, other than some guy in a puppy suit. 

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 10:43:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was not aware this would turn into such a tense debate on terminology. I know a lot of women who are not offended by the term girl. I’m certainly not offended when I’m called a boy. It was just a fun little question. My apologies to anybody who thought it was out of line. Though otter, I know a lot of men who appreciate the form of bondage without the sexual service; photographers and artist who just enjoy having a person as a pet or think it’s funny to make a guy act like a dog or toy. I certainly had no complaints at the bachelorette party I entertained, dressed like a teddy bear, 600 dollars in tips convinced me of that. And out of the 40 some odd women there, they all seemed to get a lot of laughs out of it. (I’m sure the booze helped)
If anything, I thought it was a compliment. I just figured it would be an awful insult to all the imaginative, fascinating women with great senses of sexual humour and style to not explore the option that perhaps they would be just as complex and varied in their needs as men? Would you agree?

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 10:48:21 PM   
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I met a wonderful gay DOM on here and we had some lovely non sexual interactions..that I found to be most meaningful.
I wish you luck..
and know it is possible...
I suggest being specific and up front as you  are here..
 
GM
ps..and I love the living toy idea..I have had 3 teddy bears from CM including the above gentleman..awwwwwwww
 

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 11:02:57 PM   
Puckerpup


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were they costumed teddy bears, fully zipped up in fuzzy suits with big button eyes, or more the gay teddy BEAR types?

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/4/2010 11:40:34 PM   
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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/5/2010 2:40:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Puckerpup

Thanks!

were they costumed teddy bears, fully zipped up in fuzzy suits with big button eyes, or more the gay teddy BEAR types?

They did not have costumes...but I liked the hairy(bear) ones
GM

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/5/2010 5:34:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm with the others - what, exactly, would you have to offer me that 100s of straight guys couldn't give me? And on that note, why is it that you want to submit to a woman and not a man?

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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/5/2010 7:23:15 AM   
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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/5/2010 8:23:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Puckerpup

Are there girls doms who prefer gay men, not so much as sexual servents, but as display objects or toys?

More so, any in vancouver?

..."girl doms" and gay men? Sounds like some under age thing to me.  I don't know anything about that.


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RE: Are there girl doms for gay men? - 1/5/2010 8:28:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		We own a gay man. Our relationship is not sexual, it is about service, obedience and spirit with SM and structure used to positively reinforce all portions. For sex, We have a boyfriend. While he doesn't own elliot, in any way, he is referred to as Sir Andrew from elliot's point of view. We are in the process of helping elliot find his mate/love and, in a spiritual way, know that he will fit into our lifestyle with ease and grace.

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