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breatheasone -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:11:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

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And, since no one's said this yet.....Welcome to the Boards!!


No one's said welcome to me, I want a welcome, where's my welcome? Y'all are SO rude! I'm taking my toys and I'm going home!

Hey! Darling Savage! Welcome to the fuckin boards![;)][:D] *did i spell fuckin right, its important i spell correctly when i cuss*



Jeffff -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:12:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

So, if you get no answer, that means NO.  It's simple.  It's easily understandable.  It does not use up your valuable time.  Be adult and act like an adult.  Do not take rejection from someone you do not know and does not know you as a personal affront. 



Really? Shouldn't the recipient of the c-mail yell out a safe word or something?


Jeff



littlewonder -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:18:47 PM)

**yawn**

wake me up when someone has something new to complain about other than "boohoo she won't answer my emails".



Jeffff -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:20:55 PM)

I just farted!



Jeff



domiguy -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:21:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

No one's said welcome to me, I want a welcome, where's my welcome? Y'all are SO rude! I'm taking my toys and I'm going home!


Welcome aboard, you Texan twat!!



peppermint -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:21:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: peppermint

So, if you get no answer, that means NO.  It's simple.  It's easily understandable.  It does not use up your valuable time.  Be adult and act like an adult.  Do not take rejection from someone you do not know and does not know you as a personal affront. 


Really? Shouldn't the recipient of the c-mail yell out a safe word or something?


Jeff


Good point, Jeff.  Got to find a good use for those safe words. 



sexyred1 -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:23:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I just farted!



Jeff


That's it; raise the level of intercourse (I mean, discourse) on the thread.



wisdomtogive -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:25:22 PM)

Hi OP and welcome to the boards. Perhaps you can make the boards work for you.

I have gotten better at openning my cmail, but i seldom respond to them. Why? Well majority are from male submissives, who just look through my state, indicating they never even glance at my profile..states i am taken. The others are trying to swindle me out of my paypal account, want money or want me to yahoo them. they all get nicely filed where they belong. If someone cmails me about a board topic or something in that effect they get a response from me.

If i was looking, i would have another group to file, everyone that starts on the boards complaining about fakes, wannabees, and boo hoo they can't find a decent person here. Seriously for me I wouldn't want to get to know them in r/t if i met them complaining why would i here?



girlygurl -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:25:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

If it was up my ass, I'd want a new fork!


Another Disatisfied Customer


Beware! If eating at Jeff's house, bring your own silverware. If eating at Ron's house don't bend over.



Missokyst -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:26:19 PM)

Did you ever notice how few people consider messaging or emailing someone, unasked, is the counterpart to those people who don't answer?

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ORIGINAL: louissir


What is it about a lack of general manners? One would think that bdsm being an adult game, one would get a basic level of manners. Whenever I send a hello to a "sub" quite a few times there is a few messages back and forth. Then half the time there is a break of all communication with no.."thanks but no thanks". I know that women in here will get more messages than they can handle, however a 10 second reply will go very far. This is not a whine as I wouldnt be with a woman who cant communicate anyway. My message to all of you in here is..be an adult..polite, respectful, and if there is an exchange of information..and then you are not interested?Just say so..end of story.
Happy New Year
Louis



heartcream -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:31:23 PM)

Oh my what a bunch of very funny folks! I love it, thanks for the yucks!



Jeffff -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 5:34:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: heartcream

Oh my what a bunch of very funny folks! I love it, thanks for the yucks!



Thank us by taking those panties off!



Please...( thats manners)



Drifa -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 6:28:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: louissir
I know that women in here will get more messages than they can handle, however a 10 second reply will go very far. This is not a whine...


Actually, chances are decent that the "woman" was some guy wanking off and once he got his jollies he quit communicating. You might be shocked and amazed at how many men do this. I always remember that behind any internet post there's a 80% chance of the real life person being either a 40+, 300lb man with hair on his back living in his mom's basement eating Hot Pockets and wanking, or else a Nigerian scammer.

Or you got a woman who is married and is getting some fun on the internet and her hubby found out. Or you got someone who is fantasizing about BDSM and when things got too real freaked. In real life, how many guys never call a girl back when they say they will? It's the #1 way of dumping someone, I think.

/shrug

Life is to short to complain about this sort of thing. Block them, delete their messages, and go on to the next until you find someone compatible.

Oh, and yes, it WAS a whine.



CalifChick -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 7:05:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: louissir

Whenever I send a hello to a "sub" quite a few times there is a few messages back and forth. Then half the time there is a break of all communication with no.."thanks but no thanks".



If all you're saying is "hello" consider yourself lucky that anyone answers at all.  Past that, if you can't keep her interest, then naturally communication just fades away.  Perhaps you should work on being more interesting or more memorable.

Cali



DarlingSavage -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 7:36:33 PM)

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lol Okay. DarlingSavage.....


Thank you! Muah!



DarlingSavage -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 7:38:38 PM)

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Welcome aboard, you Texan twat!!


Oh, Domiguy, you're so sweet! You know just how to win a girl's heart! I can now die a happy little subbie.



AnimusRex -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 7:47:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Drifa
I always remember that behind any internet post there's a 80% chance of the real life person being either a 40+, 300lb man with hair on his back living in his mom's basement eating Hot Pockets and wanking, or else a Nigerian TRYING TO LIGHT HIS UNDIES ON FIRE.



fixed



GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 8:22:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: louissir


What is it about a lack of general manners?
 
and then you are not interested?Just say so..end of story.
Happy New Year
Louis


OP:
Why should they say so...??
If they do not answer it MAY be THEIR way of indicating lack of interest..
 
Saying "NOT INTERESTED".. VERY VERY VERY often starts a a barage of
"Why?..or what parts?..or I could modify ?or give me a chance so you are interested"
..and simply wasts valuable search time..
 
GM



OsideGirl -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 8:29:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: louissir


Then half the time there is a break of all communication with no.."thanks but no thanks". I know that women in here will get more messages than they can handle, however a 10 second reply will go very far.
Because often that "adult..polite, respectful" no thank you ends up with getting barraged by insults, dire predictions of "you'll be sorry" and demands for explainations.

So, go talk to your "Dom" brothers and explain "adult..polite, respectful".



HisSweetElysium -> RE: manners (1/5/2010 8:39:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: louissir

and then you are not interested?Just say so..end of story.



oh how nice it would be if that were true, but some "doms" are hardly exempt from impolite behavior.  I answered every msg I got (other than form emails and "bow to me bitch") with a polite response, even if it was someone who I would NEVER consider in a million years.  Why? Because it's polite.

But god forbid you politely say "thank you for your interest, however I am pursuing other possibilities" aka "you're a fat ugly troglodyte who's into everything I say I am NOT into on my profile and I wouldn't let you touch me with someone elses dick" but POLITE, and then you never hear the end of it from them, they msg you over and over, why not, you don't know what you're missing, yada yada, EVERY time you log on, until you employ the blessed block button and blessed silence ensues. 

So you see, a few times around that block, and yes, ppl start to cut corners with the manners, b/c it seems to get you nowhere with some types of people.   Doesn't make it right, but it remains true.



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