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24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/17/2004 11:57:01 PM   
sancho


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my question.. wich steps are importend to become a 24/7 slave and how can he makes his Mistress really happy?
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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/18/2004 12:29:40 AM   
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Learn to spell maybe?

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/18/2004 10:34:34 AM   
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::laughing:: actually Sir, *I* read it as an accent. Don't ask why, I couldn't tell you...

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/18/2004 2:44:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sancho

my question.. wich steps are importend to become a 24/7 slave and how can he makes his Mistress really happy?


I think you need to ask your potential Mistress that. It is whatever she may want from you.
Everyone is different. Everyone wants different things.

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/18/2004 4:58:32 PM   
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Sancho,

Step #1: find her

Step #2: ask her

Getting 8 Domina's telling you 8 different things might not help you much unless one of the 8 is the one you find.

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/19/2004 6:59:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sancho

my question.. wich steps are importend to become a 24/7 slave and how can he makes his Mistress really happy?


Be realistic in your expectations. In reality, there are very few people who are Dominant 24/7. Serioulsy, how dominant can one be when doing taxes, paying bills or dealing with a child's teacher?

That's not to say there are 24/7 relationships... there are. But most of those that I have seen or heard about realize that the power dynamic needs to be unspoken for a majority of the time.

How can a person make their Mistress happy? Ask questions and watch their reaction to your own behavior.

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/19/2004 9:47:45 AM   
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Hello, just expressing My opinion here about 24/7. I do not view 24/7 as actually being in the Domme/sub mode for the whole period. 24/7 to Me means that this person lives with Me and is pretty much at My beck and call. Limits are usually discussed prior to ownership. I for one live a 24/7 life style, but I do know that people have to work etc.

~note to sancho~ you may be having problems because you are not in the U.S. We have spoken about this before. It is harder because of distance and legal issues.

MsGeri

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/21/2004 1:37:44 AM   
sancho


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yes we talked about.. and yes it's a little difficult....
but, what is easy in live?

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/23/2004 12:42:21 PM   
sancho


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maybe... not all can be such a great boy like you!

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/23/2004 2:48:25 PM   
iwillserveu


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Actually, You can. Highlight the text. Hit "Cntrl C" and paste itr out your word orocessing program, spell check and bring it back to the lpost. If you don't you can have posts that look like this one.

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/25/2004 9:22:46 AM   
BlackGoddess


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honesty
chemistry
the submissive must be sure of her/himself

Those are the 3 most important things for Me.

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 3/27/2004 9:49:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackGoddess

honesty
chemistry
the submissive must be sure of her/himself

Those are the 3 most important things for Me.


It is the last one "the submissive must be sure of her/himself" that has always served as the problem for me. Quite often, when I've been seeing a dominant for a few years and then she decides she wants to own me (with professionals specifically) instead of see me as a client, I often find myself wondering, "why me?" It should be obvious at the time, but sometimes it causes one to feel even more self-conscious than one may have been before.

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 4/8/2004 9:00:23 AM   
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simple questions deserve simple answers:
step one: find out what the Mistress in question expect of a slave.
step two: go about fullfilling those in a 24/7 fashion and this will make a Mistress happy.

Communication is important and learning sum basics of Our Alternate Lifestyle such as Rules Regulatons and Proticals that the Mistress beleives in is a good start and getting every like and dislike of the Mistress in writing is another way for good study to not touch any negitive buttons so a written contract for a 24/7 relationship is also good for a secure and sound start to a long term relationship.

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RE: 24/7 slavery... running into live-in - 4/8/2004 1:16:37 PM   
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I've served my Mistress for over a year now,and although I'm not with Her 24/7,we do spend her days off in each others company.There is a good deal of play time,and i am chained to Her bed at night (sigh....) but there is also housework,laundry,grocery shopping,and the usual list of things that everybody has to do in the real world. I have grown to accept these things as an important part of my duty to Her,and try to do them to the best of my ability. That is one of the things that makes me feel that i am truly Hers..

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