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SolangeRichards -> RE: forced femizition (1/13/2010 5:12:36 AM)
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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
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like i said none of you really have any interest in the subject because if you did you would have at least something interesting to say on the subject itself but like i said in my earlier post only the ones that have no interest in the subject in hand tend to post the negitive on it and if your sick of the same old topic why even reply at all i asked was how many
Its really a moth to the flame thing, they cannot resist. Another explanation is that many women have a visceral, deep seated dislike and distaste for CDs -- and this is what drives their bigotry.
A good comparison is the right wing family values crowd who want to protect marriage by preventing gays from being married. Family values and marriage are actually irrelevant, what's relevant is what's unspoken -- an embedded, deep seated dislike of gays.
For some people prejudices are "truth," especially when those prejudices are widely shared against a minority target point. Back in the day, sissymaidlola could lay this stuff out in spades, so upsetting some women that the moderators would be swooping in telling everyone "to behave." Lola found it too difficult to take on bigots and the moderators at the same time, so he flew the coop. Guy was smart as whip, but the wonks neutered him by putting him on "moderation." The bigots, though, they got to post their opinions no problem.
I've been on CM for awhile, and seen a number of threads concerning crossdressing etc pop up, and quite often I too have noticed that there are a few that always seem to feel a need to chime in with negative opinions. It's amazing that if one goes back over these threads, even going back years, the same names post, usually saying the exact same things, over and over and over....
Well....so what....
It's not their kink, it's not something they like and it's something they are frantic to tell you they don't like.
Who cares?
I don't know you cloudboy, but I have read your posts, usually on this subject. Some I agree with, others I do not I know that you are serious about what you say, and I sense that on some level you feel some pain that there are people in the world who take a dim view toward crossdressing. Well, so do I, but it is what it is and sometimes that's just the way it's going to be.
Rather than getting upset because a small group of people who visit an online forum dislike your personal kink, why not just ignore them? Since they are not going to see it your way, why not just disregard their opinion on the subject alltogether? Why would you give their opinion weight when you see them as being so negative to it all? Since they don't "get it", just chalk up their thinking on it as simply more white noise on the internet sea. It's possible you know to just agree to disagree. If you find their thinking on other matters useful, great, enjoy their thoughts on those matters and just understand that to you they can't see the forest for all the trees on the matter of crossdressing.
They don't like it, they don't want to participate in it. That's fine. They don't have to "get it", and they surely do not have to want it in their bedroom.
They get to make their choice, just like you did when you grabbed that first pair of panties...
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