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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

No worries KH. The folks here are very helpful.... even if the "help" sometimes feels like a jackboot up the a$$ at the time, lol! 

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ORIGINAL: Knighthunter862

well as jeff said you say it you own it..and i own it.its a proven fact the more stupid the question is the more responses you get,And yes i know peeps now im stupid too.Its just how the world works.this may be by far the best group of opinions and minds tho ive ever run across.And please look for for stupid questions from me because im here to learn from the best.

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ORIGINAL: Wolf2Bear

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

There damn sure better not be any troll's around here!

*mega bear hugz the damn Troll* 

Now where the hell is my slurp????  Glad to see ya back Troll.

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ORIGINAL: Knighthunter862

Before i ask yes i know we all have our reasons or excuses,Right?Should the people who have no pictures and practically no profile information even be allowed on a site like this?

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ORIGINAL: submissiveboy76

Everyone should be allowed as long as they are not a scam or fake profile.  If you don't want to put up a picture or any information about yourself, it's really no skin off of my back.  It's your own bad decision that will lead to less attention and less success on here.  I don't think you should be banned, but many people will just ignore you.

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i just find it difficult to take someone serious who has a silly image to represent themselves. like i said, to ME it is more of a turn off than no image at all

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: submissiveboy76

Everyone should be allowed as long as they are not a scam or fake profile.  If you don't want to put up a picture or any information about yourself, it's really no skin off of my back.  It's your own bad decision that will lead to less attention and less success on here.  I don't think you should be banned, but many people will just ignore you.

If by ignore you mean I won't get email from some 75 yr old idiot who has always wanted to know what a lesbian tastes like...

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Once again you jump to conclusions.  Not everyone here is looking for someone.

Not everyone here who IS looking for someone has the kind of job that would not be endangered if they were found here.

The big ol world still looks askance at the kind of things we do. Many would be positively horrified .  You don't have to like it, you don't have to approve of it.

To think it's not true however, is naive.

Jeff

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

i doubt very much your neighbor or your boss is on here looking for YOU.

what conclusion did i jump to? did you read what i wrote? again ,,, obviously not. cause is says in there something about the people like you. i for one do not let that big ole rotten stinking man under his thumb gonna break you down cause i am watching your every move world hinder my ability t to have the decency to show the people i am engaging with who they are dealing with.

i just find it difficult to take someone serious who has a silly image to represent themselves. like i said, to ME it is more of a turn off than no image at all

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

i dont think they should not be banned. This actually means you think they SHOULD be banned. Double negative. however i think people who hide behind fake pics, are more than likely filling out fake profiles. if you are looking for a partner but afraid to show a photo of yourself. you are hiding something, obviously ,, to me. That's just your opinion. You are welcome to it, but it has no basis in reality. are you that ashamed you need to post a fake photo? are you that insecure you need to post a cartoon figure? and i know after reading this i am going to get  the usual, "oh i cant show my face what if my neighbor see me, or there might be a stalker or something"? i can "what if" think all day long, but i feel its a waste of time. and even the ones who are not looking for a partner, but only want to voice opinion on the forums. Acutally, it is more just like the reason I don't accept random "friend" requests from people I've never spoken to...wankers who just want some nifty image to jerk off to. would you take a newcaster serious if he/she wore a bag over their head? or maybe had a photo of some cartoon figure for an image? i dont think anyone would take that person seriously. so why should i think someone is serious when hiding behind a false image? a false image is even more of a turn of than no image Do you take the radio newscaster seriously? Or because you can't see his face, he is instantly less "serious" than Walter Cronkite? What about the journalist in your newspaper? They may not have a picture either? Should what they have to say be considered "suspect" as well?

so.... should they be banned? no
fake pics and no profile info lose respect and interest instantly? yes

There is a difference between a "fake" picture and pictures of other things like cartoon characters and such. A "fake" picture is a photograph of someone that isn't the person writing the profile. The others are simply images that the writer chooses as something that is representative of a part of their personality.

Regardless of what you think of them, we are all free to "lose interest" for any profile. It's actually a good thing. When a profile is blank, it takes you that much less time to figure out you have no interest in that person. Be grateful for it.

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

i doubt very much your neighbor or your boss is on here looking for YOU. You can "doubt" all you want. It isn't your decision. Someone's desire to protect their privacy shouldn't be your concern. I doubt they are worried if it lessens your interest in them anyway.
what conclusion did i jump to? did you read what i wrote? again ,,, obviously not. cause is says in there something about the people like you. i for one do not let that big ole rotten stinking man under his thumb gonna break you down cause i am watching your every move world hinder my ability t to have the decency to show the people i am engaging with who they are dealing with. But you make the assumption that the people who don't put a picture on their profile don't send pictures to people they actually begin corresponding with? Does it ever occur to you that some people prefer that others find out something about them as a PERSON before seeing the image? Considering your habit of frequently calling all those who identify as slaves as "it" I imagine that it doesn't. However, not all slaves care to cater to your need to have the visual needs met before even having a conversation.

i just find it difficult to take someone serious who has a silly image to represent themselves. like i said, to ME it is more of a turn off than no image at all

So people without a picture are "obviously" hiding something and those with "silly" images just aren't serious enough for you. Perhaps to you, BDSM is all about being serious all the time. Well, I hate to break it to you, but life shouldn't be serious all the time, and those with silly images are showing you that they know that. I'm sure they are glad that you pass them by.

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ORIGINAL: Knighthunter862

wow again im in complete awe.This isnt kindergarden.I dont care whos on collarme or whos allowed to be and as for curiosty of a profile if it didnt interest me then thats just me.Its just a question peeps and not one even personal to me.I didnt read the fine print where it said only ask questions important to everyone.If the question isnt for you then dont post.

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ORIGINAL: masterlink65

i just find it difficult to take someone serious who has a silly image to represent themselves. like i said, to ME it is more of a turn off than no image at all