WestBaySlave -> RE: choices (1/11/2010 11:35:08 AM)
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ORIGINAL: osf assuming you as a submissive had to make a choice between two dominants, one had the force of character you wanted but didn't like his kink, or one whose kink you were more comfortable with but were not as attracted to on a personal basis, what would be your choice? Given those choices, force of character, always. Kink isn't my driving force as a submissive, and if a man was dominant in a way I responded to, I could live happily in an otherwise "vanilla" relationship. However, that being said, the following statements apply to me quite well, too: quote:
ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally Thing is a lot of people do not simply submit for the sake of it, they are inspired to submit due to the person. [...] To answer the above I don't look for people based on oriantation I look for people based on compatibility, I am happiest when I feel able to submit but not all dominants make me feel that way, indeed most do not. That doesn't mean I do not enjoy submitting it simply means I am like many other people who have to tick certain boxes to feel a certain way.
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