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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 4:03:17 PM

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The link is kinda fucked up... which one?

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 8:34:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: cuckolded2006

i have two questions, 1) why is it so hard to find someone who wants to control another's sex life completely online. 2) why do many people think Ds or SM is only about sex?

Is it just me and my brandspankingnewheadache, or is the above something of an oxymoron?

Nope, it's not just you and your brandspankingnewheadache.

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 8:55:42 PM

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To answer your first question, online is very limited and does not allow for any human interaction. I would go so far as to say that purely online action is boring. Now, if you have a real life relationship going, the net can be used to augment it, but I never understood the appeal of online relationships.

The answer to your second question is depressing to think about. There are so many people who just don't get it. They miss what are actually the more fun aspects of BDSM. The sex part is great, but the psychological aspects are much more broad ranging, deeper, and stronger. The fact people just glaze over this part is unfortunate.

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 10:25:57 PM

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Well lets face it. Online is the only way you can do snuff play with the same over and over again

Just like online drinking. That saves you the hangovers

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RE: Control - 1/12/2010 10:35:17 PM

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...Finding someone to control their sex life completely online and then complain about D/s being all about sex? This isn't about controlling sex online, more so it's about controlling a better life through the proper balance of chemicals...therapy isn't working, and someone is wasting their gum honey.

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