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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:53:25 PM   
Venatrix


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no worry's im just here to find a girl to relocate and spoil and to assist me in my modeling tour and to possibly makeover and then im outta here.


 Are you serious?  That could take years.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:57:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		hmmm really because i have had about 12 offers and i have had one girl here allready but i got rid of her because she was too mouthy!

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:57:39 PM   
DCWoody


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Fucking strange images that brought to mind, I need to lay off the japanese porn...

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:57:43 PM   
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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:57:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: snlforu

no worry's im just here to find a girl to relocate and spoil and to assist me in my modeling tour and to possibly makeover and then im outta here.




Who wants to lay odds she'll be back in a few weeks (days?) bitching and moaning about the number of fakes and why is it so hard to find a real sub or asking the best way to find a third?  Hurreh, hurreh, hurreh!  Step right up, folks and place your bets on this horse. 

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:58:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DCWoody

"pussy house of cards"

Fucking strange images that brought to mind, I need to lay off the japanese porn...

LMFAO! DUDE!


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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:59:16 PM   
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Don't worry, when people get to know you it'll be better.


Y'know ... sometimes once people get to really know someone ... it gets worse.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 10:59:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		We treat the ones who come on here, act as if they are God's next gift to the lifestyle and the rest of us can kiss their holy ass and hope some of it rubs off on us ... like shit.

We have very unrealistic expectations of newcomers... we expect them to treat us with as much respect as they believe they should be treated with. We expect them to actualy look around before posting. We expect them to put at least a little effort into their search and go about it in the proper venues. It would be different if all the things werent posted and available for EVERYONE to read. But, they are.

If you are going to ignore the rules posted for you, if you are going to come on and reinvent the wheel and ask something as if you are the first one to EVER think of it even though it has been asked several times that same day... or post things without actually paying attention to what is and isnt appropriate for certain forums... then why should we be nice to you? Would you expect to walk into a real life club, ask them to put aside their rules because you are that damn special and expect them to be nice to you?

We are very nice to the ones who read the rules, pay attention and make an effort. We are not so polite to the annoying ones.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:00:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DCWoody

"pussy house of cards"

Fucking strange images that brought to mind, I need to lay off the japanese porn...

haha

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:00:29 PM   
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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:02:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

Couldn't agree with Stef more, although I would add ignorant to stupid.

I wouldn't, ignorance is curable.  It's pretty clear from the onset which category a personal falls into.

Don't even get me started on those like DC who appear to fall into the "professional victim" category.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:02:54 PM   
DCWoody


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Status: offline 		Okay, sometimes....and this is a good example, the newbie deserves it.....but often, IMO, they don't. And I know it doesn't happen every time, specially if ya lurk a while first, but it sure does happen. And I agree, it's mocking not attacking ya.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:03:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: snlforu

hmmm really because i have had about 12 offers and i have had one girl here allready but i got rid of her because she was too mouthy!


Just 12? With that pic?

Seriously, with the way new people get FLOODED with offers, I would have expected more.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:04:27 PM   
snlforu


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: snlforu

hmmm really because i have had about 12 offers and i have had one girl here allready but i got rid of her because she was too mouthy!


Just 12? With that pic?

Seriously, with the way new people get FLOODED with offers, I would have expected more.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:04:30 PM   
WyldHrt


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"pussy house of cards"
Fucking strange images that brought to mind, I need to lay off the japanese porn...

I don't care who ya (generic ya) are, that was frikkin hilarious!


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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:06:11 PM   
DCWoody


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Status: offline 		"Don't even get me started on those like DC who appear to fall into the "professional victim" category."

Not at all, no-one seemed to notice I was new for my first posts, and in the past I was mostly a lurker.

What was it gave you that impression?

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:06:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: InvisibleBlack

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Don't worry, when people get to know you it'll be better.


Y'know ... sometimes once people get to really know someone ... it gets worse.

Naw...that was just you...LMAO JUST kidding


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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:06:26 PM   
AquaticSub


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AWE why thank you sweetie!


Erm... you are welcome. It wasn't meant as either an insult or compliament though. When I joined, without a pic, I got about 30 offers within ten minutes. A hundred the first day.

Fresh meat tends to get slammed. Especially those with nice pics. The people who are really interested tend to show up later.

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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:07:14 PM   
snlforu


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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

"pussy house of cards"
Fucking strange images that brought to mind, I need to lay off the japanese porn...

I don't care who ya (generic ya) are, that was frikkin hilarious!


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RE: Why do people have to treat new members like crap?!?! - 1/12/2010 11:08:46 PM   
NihilusZero


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Fresh meat tends to get slammed.

That's what he said!



...hmm...that didn't play out quite as fantastically as it originally did in my head...


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