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osf -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 12:29:24 PM)

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And OSF ... :: grins wickedly :: Leave my out of this. :: winks::


if you dont want me lusting after your ass, ok



AHuntress -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 12:31:57 PM)

[sm=danger.gif] Now that picture I can identify with. Usually it is my foot added on to someone else's scale, not my own.[sm=danger.gif]



Huntress

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AHuntress -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 12:43:33 PM)

What happened to my icon/avatar? Who snuck off with it?


Huntress

<---- Edited 'cause I found it under my backside!



LadyChallene -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 12:49:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: osf
if you dont want me lusting after your ass, ok

Feel free to lust after it all you would like ... ya' just don't have to be telling everyone about it! :: giggles ::


Lady Challene



osf -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 12:53:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyChallene


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ORIGINAL: osf
if you dont want me lusting after your ass, ok

Feel free to lust after it all you would like ... ya' just don't have to be telling everyone about it! :: giggles ::


Lady Challene



but it's unrequited lust, ya know the kind sonnets are written about



LadyChallene -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 2:28:06 PM)

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but it's unrequited lust, ya know the kind sonnets are written about
So then I should be (and am) very, very flattered that I have reached that height ... prior to my death. :: smiles and winks :: Yay me!


Lady Challene

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osf -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 2:31:02 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyChallene

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but it's unrequited lust, ya know the kind sonnets are written about
So then I should be (and am) very, very flattered that I have reached that height ... prior to my death. :: smiles and winks :: Yay me!


Lady Challene

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i've seen that before only my on/off switch is bigger, 6"



DomImus -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 2:39:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
Gender.


From birth.





osf -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 2:41:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DomImus

quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
Gender.


From birth.





good thinking



LadyChallene -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 2:46:22 PM)


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ORIGINAL: osf
i've seen that before only my on/off switch is bigger, 6"


Uh huh .... riiiiiiiight. I'd say prove it, but you probably would ... So I am sooooooo NOT going there!

I am a Lady after all.


Lady Challene



osf -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 2:54:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyChallene


quote:

ORIGINAL: osf
i've seen that before only my on/off switch is bigger, 6"


Uh huh .... riiiiiiiight. I'd say prove it, but you probably would ... So I am sooooooo NOT going there!

I am a Lady after all.


Lady Challene



a lady with a sexy ass



KnightofMists -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 3:12:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
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i try to read between the lines and if she is trying to convey a meaning
I tried to avoid this at all cost. I didn't want to have my interpretation of what she wrote set me up for unrealistic expectations.


I agree... seems to me the smart thing would be to Ask them what they are meaning if what is stated should lack any clarity. But.... sometimes people are afraid of the answer and it is better for them to string along their fantasy than live in the reality.



KnightofMists -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 3:23:23 PM)

In answering the OP....

There is nothing specific that I look for..... there is a whole list of possibiliites and it's the combination of all those things that will intrique me or not. I do not seek to have specific check list for someone to meet them to gain my interest. I actually seek to appreciate the person for who they are and on the whole that person will either draw me or not.



osf -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 3:34:42 PM)

to suggest that i would read what she says in her profile and never ask her about it , im just sitting here laughing

dawwd people get a grip on reality



masterlink65 -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 5:51:31 PM)

body language, and speech, tone of voice.

if meeting at my place for example( it would be after several emails etc and have had some dynamics established), potential slave sits down and lights up a cigarette, is going to get a lot different response than if i would had been asked first. if meeting in  a public place, it would be as you described. demeanor, etc. i like a person self confident, but displaying signs of submissiveness to me. i have no intention of "breaking" someone, but not opposed to training someone.

experience levels i am not concerned with too much as that will grow with time,but there is a certain kind of behavior that i would be expecting to see from this person coming to me as a sub, looking to be owned or just play. either way i expect a sub to carry itself like a submissive, when approaching me.



NuevaVida -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/14/2010 9:03:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

BTW - Gender is a factual response. It shouldn't imply exclusion, or inclusion. It serves only as the "first thing" in a long line of "things".



Me being the literal goof that I am, I took it as a factual response.  After all, it's probably the first thing you notice about someone.  I loved your answer because it was so obvious to me and I missed it.  [:)]



SailingBum -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/15/2010 12:40:22 AM)

Im thinking T and A cuz at some point Im gonna be tapping da booty.

Motown BadOne



Wolf2Bear -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/15/2010 7:55:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

the subject explains it

for me it's demeanor, displaying a pattern of behavior that leads me to believe i can work with her

say online does she list a catalog of activities she enjoys or does she speak about the relationship she desires and why

the why is most important to me


How they generally interact with people and with friends as that is an accurate indication to how they will act with me.



lally2 -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/15/2010 9:34:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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it all boils down for me in looking for a woman that wants to be rather than a woman that wants to do
You're setting yourself up or failure. Although there are plenty of 'wants to be' (wannabes), and dos, to choose from; the reason I wanted to meet was to see the woman who is aware of herself and represents in person exactly who she is.

its possibly semantics, but when i think of 'wanting to be' by that i mean i want to 'be' (me) for me to 'be' means i am in a place with someone where being who i am is given space to relax and just 'be'.
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i try to read between the lines and if she is trying to convey a meaning
I tried to avoid this at all cost. I didn't want to have my interpretation of what she wrote set me up for unrealistic expectations.


i do a fair amount of reading between the lines. there is much to be read from what isnt written but possibly intimated or maybe even avoided. people can hide behind words very easily, they can expose an aspect of their personality simply by the way they word something or suggest something. more can be gleaned from between the words than the words actually written down.

just a different thought on those



ShoreBound149 -> RE: whats's the first thing you notice in a prospective submissive? (1/18/2010 3:45:16 PM)

Legs....then ass......then tits......



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