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desire214 -> How to find a Mistress (3/18/2004 2:15:49 AM)
Hi, I am 47 bi and very open minded. I want to know how to find a woman who wants what I want and is willing to meet in real time. I have been trying for a long time. What am I doing wrong or maybe there just aren't any women out there that like what I like. Help

knees2you -> RE: How to find a Mistress (3/18/2004 10:29:29 AM)
[;)] desire214 i am a male sub/slave i have found it hard also. there is another site You can try, it is called alt.com if you live in a small town it may be hard. maybe you will have to look at a bigger town close by. do not fret it will happen if you let it. if not then your life is going into a different direction. Quote~ if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit for the charmer.[:)]

49 -> RE: How to find a Mistress (3/24/2004 6:22:49 PM)
how do you fined a mistress that will work with you

BlackGoddess -> RE: How to find a Mistress (3/25/2004 9:19:56 AM)
the age old question...... There is no easy answer for that. I had been searching for my slave for over 10 yrs. My subbie hubby has been looking even longer. Guess how we met? My brother introduced us. Guess how we almost met? on alt.com. slave luigi read my ad that said men 30-40, and he was 42 at the time and did not reply. If you have ads up, be honest. Be clear on what you are looking for. When replying to ads, be respectful, especially if you know you may not be exactly what She is looking for. It may work out anyway. I'm not sure what you are looking for in a Domme, but as a BBW BlackGoddess, I know how hard to find We are. Be patient. you will find what you are looking for when you stop looking for it.

knees2you -> RE: How to find a Mistress (4/2/2004 6:41:25 PM)
[:D] i agree with BlackGoddess, it is hard, but don't look so hard, and it will happen sincerely, knees2You quote: if a snake bites before it is charmed there is no profit for the charmer

iwillserveu -> RE: How to find a Mistress (4/3/2004 2:49:51 AM)
I have to agree with BlackGoddess and knees2you. Be open to the unexpected a watched pot never boils. [:)] Do your own search weekly or so, and realize that anyone new is going to their own search. Otherwise you see the same profiles over and over and that can be discouraging. Also investigate other sources. Try personal ads in alternative newspapers. (Those are a good source for Domanatrixes if you are new.) Also try going to "munches". Remember that a Domina is a woman first. Crawling up to her and begging her to whip you at a munch will not be effective.[:)] (Seriously, treat her like a woman not a life support system for a whip.[:)]) (Thanks, MizSuz, I love that turn of phrase!)

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