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born bondage master - 3/23/2006 5:03:51 AM

Templa

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Anyone had that experience? Felt that it was a life persuit. I am now experiencing the cooling of my life partners desire which is fueling my need to persue my bondage desires else where. Am I wrong to answer the urge, should I be up front or should I keep it a private? Veiws and experience would be appreciated.

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RE: born bondage master - 3/23/2006 6:16:13 AM

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Well I've been into bondage as long as I can remember, as has my boyfriend.

However, the idea that you're questioning whether you should be open with this to your partner speaks very ill of you.

A kink isn't going to make a relationship stick in the long term. If you aren't willing to be honest and open and work to take your relationship to the next level together, then the right thing to do is be honest and end it.

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RE: born bondage master - 3/23/2006 11:25:23 AM

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"born bondage master"

I don't know if it counts are not but when I was born, I had my embilical cord tied in knots.

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RE: born bondage master - 3/23/2006 11:52:13 AM

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Anyone had that experience? Felt that it was a life persuit. I am now experiencing the cooling of my life partners desire which is fueling my need to persue my bondage desires else where. Am I wrong to answer the urge, should I be up front or should I keep it a private? Veiws and experience would be appreciated.

From what you are stating, it sounds to me as if you are thinking about cheating on your partner. The first thing in any of the BDSM lifestyles is trust. Just because your not getting your kicks from the person who you say is your "life partner" doesn't mean to go out looking for it somewhere else.

Unless, of course, your partner is ok with that notion. If that's the case, then go for it.

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RE: born bondage master - 3/23/2006 6:05:06 PM

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I have been into bondage every since I would tie up my baby sitter's and I have never stopped. I have been able to introduce bondage to both my X wives and the way I did was to tell them up front I was into bondage on the second date. My first wife thought it was too violent and I introduce the idea of being tied by telling her that I use it to enhance the orgasmic experience. She ok I will give it a try and I would tie her up ever time we had sex. The best way to approach the idea of bondage is make it sensual and romantic by using candles, blindfolds, silk if you and a bed post. Also get some toys for you to use on her and take your time. You never know unless you communicate with her what you are into and who knows she might have the same fantasy herself. You must remember keep telling her how sexy she looks all tied up. This will take allot of trust from her part and do not rush her about the idea just bring it up. There is a movie called Tie me up Time me down with Tony Bandarist from Mask of Zero. This movie is about a guy who has an affectation with this women and he ends up keep her captive in a friend’s Apartment. There are some very romantic scenes were she is tied up and he gives her a bath. Get the movie to watch and judge her reaction about it. It is a foreign Movie so you can make it an Arties lol

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RE: born bondage master - 3/23/2006 7:00:16 PM

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My ex wife tied cherry stems in knots in her mouth...dayum, I miss her

However, I would take someone less talented and willing to learn.......any takers?

Peace, Kevin

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