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proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 1:02:41 PM   
ernietbonz


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My Lady wants to learn how to milk me. We have tried several times without any luck. She wants to keep me in chastity for extended periods of time, but is concerned about health risks of semen build up, and doesn't want to let me receive any pleasure from masturabation. We have checked out many sites about the proper way of milking, but these pages seem to be more about medical information and little about the best ways to do it. So if any one knows a good way, or any links to pages that might help, we would be thankful.

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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 1:17:06 PM   
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Aneros is your friend. Google it, read about it, and read about the strategies other subs have used.  It takes a LOT of practice if you are not already getting results.


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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 2:02:09 PM   
ernietbonz


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Status: offline 		Thank you Ma'am
That is the first device we bought when she decided to start chastity. Unfortunatly the instructions left much to be desired. I will have to look up proper usage. Thank you again.
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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 2:36:45 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Well gee... First you get their  bank account number.... 


Seriously, OP: First there's got to be a buildup of fluid in there, to milk. and I'm not a guy, but I'm sure it would help if you relax, and if she goes gently, and knows what she's doing. And of course if she's gentle and knows what she's doing, it should be a pleasureable thing for you and knowing that, should help you relax...There's a ton of stuff online about technique.... Also this is pretty much common sense, but if you are already aroused before any milking attempts are made, it seems to me things would uh... Flow from there....

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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 5:02:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ernietbonz

My Lady wants to learn how to milk me.



That's easy.  If no milk is coming out, she's obviously not squeezing your nipples hard enough.  Tell her to try pliers, but vice grips work even better. 

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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 5:14:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: ernietbonz

My Lady wants to learn how to milk me.



That's easy.  If no milk is coming out, she's obviously not squeezing your nipples hard enough.  Tell her to try pliers, but vice grips work even better. 



Just so you know, reading that made me scream so loudly in sympathy pain that my flatmate just texted me to check I was ok after hearing me through the wall.
Thanks ever so for sharing ;P


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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 8:27:50 PM   
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Thanks ever so for sharing ;P



You're welcome. 

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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/20/2010 10:26:13 PM   
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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 4:36:59 AM   
azjojoba


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Status: offline 		Milking is an internet myth. It doesn't happen very much and nobody wants it or knows how to do it.

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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 8:57:23 AM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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Status: offline 		i milk all of my chastity boys.. they never have a forceful orgasm.

i've tried the aneros, but i much prefer my finger because i can feel the prostate.

i am able to milk them each time and i've found a little rhythm is in order.

usually i have them on their hands and knees (although i'm able to milk my norwegian boy on his back).. from the "doggy style" position it's easier to reach the prostate.

before i even start i typically will ice down their cocks.. this isn't necessary, but it doubly ensures that no pleasure will be had from the experience.

after i lube up my finger, then i feel around to where their prostate is located... you can feel it quite easily as if they've been denied for a while it's usually hard-ish sort of.

i can best describe it as a firm walnut of sorts.

then i just rhythmically massage it while applying a downward pressure and after about 5 or 10 min their semen just dribbles out. i also don't remove them from their device prior to milking. we also make a ritual of sorts out of it. i have my milking box that each one has to have with the things that i need for their milking. it's become somewhat of a pavlovian response in them because just having someone go fetch their milking box they're already leaking like a faucet.

problem solved.

hope this helps.


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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 9:50:03 AM   
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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 10:36:42 AM   
PrincessDonna


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Status: offline 		Ive done it through prostrate too and  other then the pleasure of the prostrate "massage" subs dont really seem to respond well so I just have them masterbate and drinbk it!

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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 10:45:19 AM   
allthatjaz


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Status: offline 		ernie, your Mistress and you have read up on this and its obviously not working.
Have you tried a bendy butt plug or a vibrating toy or have you ever tried to do it yourself so that you know what touch is needed?
Is your Mistress locating your prostrate? With some guys its harder to locate and if your that sort of guy then she needs to get you excited first because that always makes the prostrate firmer and more obvious.

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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 10:53:25 AM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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Status: offline 		OP:
ernie..you dont say HOW she tried ?? or IF???
Some men's prostates are further back than others..??
Same for the G spot..
If she twirls her finger around in a circle with it bent in a hook
she may find it..
Also I have very short fingers( does she?) and at times I have difficulty getting right in there and have to get the man to kneel...so I can manipulate from the back..
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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 11:43:07 AM   
Baldbalzs


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RE: proper way to milk a sub - 1/21/2010 11:55:54 AM   
allthatjaz


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ORIGINAL: Baldbalzs

Does'nt anybody just F uck anymore


Personally? yes! but this post isn't about fucking. Its about milking

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