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Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/1/2010 11:29:19 AM

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Triggered by a thought from another thread. What do you fantasize about?

I tend to fixate on one idea/theme for several days until I either tire myself of it, or *act it out* with a partner (if that makes sense). My fantasies are like MTV videos a lot - kind of slick, sensual, surreal. The focus is always on the man: helpless, bondage, the look in his eyes. Often a lot of atmosphere, like sounds, wind, water, wet hair. It's rarely got a *plot* (but when it does, I sometimes spin it until I can write a story about it), but I understand the motivation of the guy in it.

It used to be always a person, a specific person. When I was a teenager, it was a pop star or movie star. Sometimes it's a professional hockey player. It might be someone from real life that I know and am pursuing. Other times it's a random "guy" I invented, who kind of looks like..hmm. I guess my own version of an Ashton Kutcher or Zac Effron or younger Leonardo diCaprio - that "look" is kind of my eternal "boytoy" look that I like in fantasy.

Sometimes I will get fixated on *one little thing* a guy did that I dominated, and I will replay it over and over again in my head because it turns me on. It could have been a look in his eyes, the way he breathed, something very subtle.

How often do you fantasize? When I was growing up, it was daily, all the time. At night and in the morning, to be sure. Now, to be honest, it's less; some nice bondage or S&M imagery will float through my head, fleeting, at least once a day, but I don't devote *time* like I used to. If my head is full of work stuff, that's usually bouncing around in my mind as I fall asleep or when I wake up. If I make an effort to "turn off that tape" and instead do something self indulgent with my brain, I will either practice positive thinking and/or meditate -- or, get really self indulgent in fantasy. It just depends on how long it's been since I got my "fix."

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/1/2010 11:48:54 AM

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I don't tend ot fantasize sexually anymore, but I do tend to fantasize about BDSM scenes... My Chael is coming home soon, my primary partner and bottom, so I've been fantasizing a lot about the focus I need to have to do sharps play, the designs I want to do, etc., same as I do about paintings or other works I plan forward on but more intensely.

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/1/2010 12:00:07 PM

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In most cases, I don't have fantasies. I have goals. LOL.

The joking aside, I tend to fantasize about things that I know I have the potential to make happen or I've had happen. Fleeting thoughts, such as being stranded on a desert island with 20 submissive males all doing My bidding because I'm the only female, don't really get My attention. Introducing a person to a new kink or experiencing a repeated kink, but the first time it would be with Me in particular do it for Me. The fantasies that I tend to spend more time on in My own head, are the ones that have the itch that is the least often scratched. There's an anticipation factor in there that makes it work for Me.

When it comes to the 'who' that I fantasize about, I'm more often drawn to certain personality types, rather than body types. (The exception to this is the long hair fetish that I have.) I'm more likely to fantasize about a person (specific) rather than the form. I need connection and intimacy in some way. At bare minimum, very good friends with benefits situations where My darker side can come out. Someone who can play, but when play time is over, knows how to conduct himself and his participation in the rest of life.

How often comes down to how frequently the inspiration strikes. If I'm discussing a certain subject or reading certain content, it will come up more. If not, it will happen less.

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/1/2010 12:47:02 PM

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Sometimes I find myself fantasizing about explicit things I have already done and had a wonderful time with. A particular cock or mouth, sometimes a woman.. I don't watch porn generally so I depend on my fantasies and imagination to keep me going. When I'm in a relationship, I love sharing my fantasies and hearing about my partner's, and seeing if we could try them out.

I have certain scenarios that play in my head, and yeah sometimes I get fixated on a particular one that I think is hot. Some of them are good to try, some of them perhaps not so much. The thing I like most about fantasies is the fact that you can do anything you like without it having to be realistic. The ones that are good to try are fairly generic, orgasm and cock control, bondage, and forced.. well.. almost anything! :)

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/1/2010 2:20:56 PM

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I fantasise about things I want to do and the types of subs I'd like to do them with. Lately that's involved a pretty young boy in a hotel room letting me dress him up in frilly pink panties, putting lipstick and eyeliner on him, and then spanking him really hard over my knee.

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/2/2010 1:04:12 AM

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I have worked out that womens fantasies tend to be very detailed and mens fantasies tend to get straight to the point. Its the same when reading a sexy novel. Men flick through the pages till they get to the juicy bits where as women like to imagine all the surrounding details!

I generally fantasize about where I can't go in rl 'the impossible'. If I can go there then I use the real moment and although I may get off on it afterwards I don't tend to think of that as a fantasy.

My fantasies tend to start off short and gradually build up to an elaborate story.
Some of my favorites are 'The giantess' and 'The Egyptian Goddess' and my present one is an alien world where women have taken over and selected men are kept in sperm farms!

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/2/2010 6:04:42 PM

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quote:

What do you fantasize about?

I saw it in an IKEA Commercial actually... was it this one?

Oh no wait.. it was this one...

No no no !!! It's THIS one :-)

- LA

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/3/2010 6:22:49 PM

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Lady Angelika,

quote:

I saw it in an IKEA Commercial actually...

I saw the "Time to Leave Home" video quite a few years back, but I still find it funny to this day. The look on the daughter's face when "piggy-dad" grabs the first thing he can to cover his privates... and it turns out to be a picture of the daughter... and then, the son smiles, both parents smile, but the daughter is even more dumbfounded... priceless! :-)

The second video, "Furniture doesn't lie", has me a tad confused. I watched it several times and still didn't get it. She's more concerned about the dusty, old, mirrored armoire that falls over than the (not to put too fine a point on it) older man tied up in front of her. Is that the joke? I kept looking to see if there was a phony reflection in the mirror or something, but the mirror seems to be working fine!

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/3/2010 6:55:09 PM

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Oh and you didn't notice the 3rd? Ummm.... the GOOD one? ;-)

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/3/2010 7:00:39 PM

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LA,

Numero trois didn't pass me by. However, it's numero deux that I still don't get.

E.

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/3/2010 7:06:23 PM

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Are you trying to distract me by showing off your knowledge of French? ;-)

And don't over think it all, it is afterall made by Sweds. But I thik it's because you would expect the old man to croak from all that stimulation but it's the furniture that bites the bullet.

And I like numéro trois the best. I think it can potentially be every woman's fantasy! Domme, sub, vanilla...

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/4/2010 9:51:01 PM

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Yes, number 3 was hot... along with some of the other writing in this thread :)

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/7/2010 12:26:02 PM

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Right now I'm fantasizing about a man who actually knows how to treat a Woman. Chivalry is not dead! Seduce me. I want to feel desired, I want to feel special. Be considerate of my feelings, bring a little smile to my face. Yeah, kind of seems like a fantasy at the moment, but I know he's out there.

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/7/2010 12:28:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: GloriousMorning

Right now I'm fantasizing about a man who actually knows how to treat a Woman. Chivalry is not dead! Seduce me. I want to feel desired, I want to feel special. Be considerate of my feelings, bring a little smile to my face. Yeah, kind of seems like a fantasy at the moment, but I know he's out there.

How do you feel about Libraries?....:)

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/7/2010 12:41:39 PM

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My fantasies include his consensual helplessness and conscious Suffering for My pleasure. After that, the scenarios are endless in variation. I have a library in my head of scenes, and usually stick with one or two versions for a while until I move on to something else. If I'm in a more thoughtful, introspective mood, there will absolutely be a mindfuck at the end for my helpless victim. Oftentimes these days the victim is Otter, but sometimes it can be just a fictional representation and the physical/visual is of less importance than the energy he emits.

Very rarely have I fantasized about real people. Fairly often I've fantasized as a voyeur watching, or as the instructor to others who perform as I direct.

Frequency depends on what is happening in life at the time. When I was younger, and single, morning and night daily were a minimum. These days, when I have a willing tongue at my disposal, but life is more complex, it's less common.

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/7/2010 2:40:48 PM

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I fantasize about doing things .... sliding needle after needle into my toy's cock and balls ... taking my single tail and whipping someone ... whitewater rafting through the Grand Canyon ... setting someone on fire (fire play) ... creating wonderful designs on someone's untouched body (cell popping) ... hiking the AT ... duct taping every inch of someone's body except for the fun parts ... getting shagged good and hard ... shall I continue?

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/8/2010 10:49:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

How do you feel about Libraries?....:)

I don't think I understand your question. Admittedly, it's late, but I don't get it.

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/10/2010 6:25:41 AM

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Don't worry Jeff...I get it...the smell of the bindings, the dark corners and limited visibility that allows for someone to watch...the social requirement of staying quiet no matter what I am doing to my partner...surrounded by genius, or implements of persuasion (take your pick)...chairs and tables that have been placed especially in the shadows or off the beaten path.....and all this can be yours for the low low price of a little card....What is not to love about that?? So, you packing your library card or are we just using Mine?

Lilly

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RE: Ladies - what do you fantasize about? - 2/11/2010 4:34:04 PM

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Ah yes, the bindings, that's right, I get it now.. lol. I could be a sexy librarian too!

I actually do love the smell of a good "Chapters/Indigo" though, for some reason it gets my juices going! It's something I've eroticized perhaps since discovering their "erotic novels" section :)

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