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submissive vows - 9/8/2004 7:24:58 PM

INSIDEYOURMIND

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I have a request, my sub and I are soon to be married, I have requested that we have another private ceremony, where she will recite her vows of submission, and I will accept such. I would like to hear suggestions for these vows.

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RE: submissive vows - 9/8/2004 7:56:18 PM

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have a request, my sub and I are soon to be married, I have requested that we have another private ceremony, where she will recite her vows of submission, and I will accept such. I would like to hear suggestions for these vows.

Many people I know have done a handfasting. I've never participated but been to quite a few. A lot within the scene use the ceremony for their collaring ceremony here where I live.
Handfasting I believe at one time was considered the same as a marriage ceremony. Not sure which religion though...its an idea

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RE: submissive vows - 9/8/2004 8:10:06 PM

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Handfasting was traditionaly done in Ireland and Scotland. At one time it was not marriage, but more of an engagement with a few key differences. The couple would live together as husband and wife for a year and a day, then decide if they wanted to be married. If they wanted to be married then that ceremony would be performed (followed by much feasting

). If I remember correctly at one time it was performed by the local Catholic priest and recognized by the church. This was after the church took over Ireland and Scotland and before it was taken over by the pagan religion, so it was for a very short time. Eventually the two ceremonies were combined to create one that was used for marriage.

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RE: submissive vows - 9/9/2004 9:10:34 AM

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There are no real rules in marriage ceremonies. You could incorporate ANY wording in your vows. For the sake of money and time, you could write the vows with the submission promise included. Or, maybe have a separate collaring ceremony at a different time. Maybe have the collaring ceremony before the wedding sometime so you have the promise first before the legal stuff

There are SO MANY possibilities!! Just don't get stressed out on what is "proper" and enjoy.

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ann

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RE: submissive vows - 9/9/2004 10:09:48 AM

subbiejenn

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Hi

That is wonderful, i am so happy for You!!

i have never been collared, married to a Dom or had any type of BDSM ceremony but i do have some links for You!

This maybe not ceremonies You excatly want but reading it may give some ideas...

rose ritual

collar Ceremony

and well this is a poem that i dearly love ....

Master
Take my gifts
My most precious gifts
I give them to you
Use them for your pleasure
Let me fill your fantasy
Command me I will follow.
Take me, lead me, Guide me.
Fill my inner most thoughts with your control
Free my soul. Let me fly.
Take me to that special place.
Take me where I am yours alone.
To do with as you wish
I am at your command
from this day forward you are my Master

Hope this helps!! and Congrats again :)

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