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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 7:49:22 AM   
wildnbeautiful


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Status: offline 		am happy you left this person and hope that you dont give up completely on a new dom... i met a Man off of here in 07 and we talked for months...and eventually i ended up His wife in 08 well needless to say He sits in prison for 10 yrs and life probation for beating and raping my 16 yr old at the time daughter in which he did on fri the 13th of 09.. she now hates men and she now is afraid of men no thanks to that (bleeped out words).. and god knows He wasnt no Dom as He claimed...well it had crushed me and my children..but my Master who i met on secondlife was there for me thru everything and has been now for 2 yrs..yes he became my Master while i was married to the supposed dom who was vanilla... but yanno there is someone out there for you a good Dom and trusting One who will take care of you ..im in love with my Master deeply and I desire to serve Him daily..i moved on as did my kids.. you can to.. dont give up dreams because some Tard has to wreck them...



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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 8:22:15 AM   
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Anything can be speculated upon to say that an illness was caused by something. But no matter how disciplined you are with nutrition, diet, exercise, etc. sometimes shit happens, in the form of cancer, that cannot be blamed on anything.

You can be genetically tested and found negative, have no family history and live in a paradise, and you can still get cancer and potentially die.

You can give out positivity and good karma all day long, and you can still get cancer and potentially die.

The medical and scientific community have no idea why people get certain diseases so it is easy to throw around lifestyle comments.

Since this is quite an inflammatory subject, I am going to stop now, as it will serve no one well.

This was too much of a hijack already.


I agree with you red, but I can see why julia said what she did (based on reports,surveys, media() et blah) and I wanted/decided to post that I didn't get the feeling that she was meaning to be heartless, foolish or unsympathetic when she did post.  It's just the way people 'read' things and nearly everyone reads a persons posts differently.  I find that really prevalent in this thread.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 8:49:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wildnbeautiful

am happy you left this person and hope that you dont give up completely on a new dom... i met a Man off of here in 07 and we talked for months...and eventually i ended up His wife in 08 well needless to say He sits in prison for 10 yrs and life probation for beating and raping my 16 yr old at the time daughter in which he did on fri the 13th of 09.. she now hates men and she now is afraid of men no thanks to that (bleeped out words).. and god knows He wasnt no Dom as He claimed...well it had crushed me and my children..but my Master who i met on secondlife was there for me thru everything and has been now for 2 yrs..yes he became my Master while i was married to the supposed dom who was vanilla... but yanno there is someone out there for you a good Dom and trusting One who will take care of you ..im in love with my Master deeply and I desire to serve Him daily..i moved on as did my kids.. you can to.. dont give up dreams because some Tard has to wreck them...



His nyla (waited for Him for 12 yrs i finally found you)



Can I go back to being an internet prick?

This is really an unbelievable read.  

Let's see...There were three Friday 13ths in '09.  Feb, March and November.  So on one of these days your "vanilla Dom" rapes your daughter and is now enjoying, courtesy of the state,  three squares and all of the sodomy he can eat. 

In the meantime, while married to your vanilla Dom, you found your true "bdsm Dom" who you have currently been with for two years. Per your own words, your daughter  "now hates men and she now is afraid of men no thanks to that (bleeped out words)."
 
Since we are on the topic of "taking responsibility,"  I guess my question would be,  what part of this is "your responsibility" in allowing all of this to occur?


Heavy sir, yes, but it had to be said.

Down telescope.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 8:57:52 AM   
wildnbeautiful


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((Since we are on the topic of "taking responsibility," I guess my question would be, what part of this is "your responsibility" in allowing all of this to occur?))

I find that very OFFENSIVE Sir I in NO WAY knew ANY OF THIS till it happened..it happen in March before we wewre married even a yr and He knew about my online Master we discussed it He didnt mind and it didnt affect anything in my real life...and FYI my Master helped me thru all of it..my child DOES NOT blame me and I will not allow You to victumize me yet again so your opinion is your opinion..I was just stating that not everyONE is who they say they are and not everyone is perfect they make mistakes and HE was one of mine ...I certiannly didnt allow it to happen it was premeditated and He deserves to be executed..


respectfully nyla

< Message edited by wildnbeautiful -- 2/9/2010 9:00:38 AM >

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 8:58:39 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Wild n beautiful, the girl who said this:

quote:

my Master says people who TRY to steal anothers collered girl has no honor/respect for others.. what is your thoughts?


i tend to agree with Him...


His nyla


yeah but were not gorean.. i am M/S slave


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Would seem her fellow has no honor. Imagine posting something like that.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 8:59:44 AM   
NuevaVida


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What a thread.

First, I tend to be literal so I also took SexyRed's "anything" as literally that.

Second, I also tend to share Juliaoceania's beliefs - but it's a concept of a certain mindset that drives my thinking, ie; our attitudes and the way we live overall have a huge huge impact on what happens to us.  I don't use the word "fault", however, but I do believe we have more power than we realize, in our own destinies.  But that's a subject for an entirely different thread, I think.

As for the OP - accountability is a good thing.  I went through my own hellish stories in my past, and only when I could see and understand my part in it all, was I finally liberated from my own bad decisions.  What happened is not entirely your doing, but you did play a part in it.  Recognize it, understand it, and grow from it, and you will be just fine - in fact, stronger and wiser than ever.

I wish you the best.


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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:01:59 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Nyla,
You are in serious need of therapy. You have been through some sort of trauma and you don't have a handle on your emotions. Also, you are desperate for attention.

There is no shame in that. I hope you do go get some help. If you choose not to, meh. Still it is your responsibility for how you HANDLE this ... That is the difference between being a child and being an adult.

Good luck,
sunshine

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:05:59 AM   
midnightrose


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Status: offline 		*doing the math*  met dom on here in 07, married in 08, current master for 2 years, which would be 08, which is prior to the rape of daughter in 09, which confuses the fuck outta me......

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:06:30 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Yeah.... Domi is such a prick......an OFFENSIVE prick.


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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:13:05 AM   
juliaoceania


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I don't use the word "fault", however, but I do believe we have more power than we realize, in our own destinies.


Yes, I told red in private that "fault" is really something that does not come into it... but we live in such a punitive culture that if we take responsibility we are at the same time taking blame... not productive


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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:13:31 AM   
kiwisub12


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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:14:05 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Julia, I am aroused after looking at your new pic... and it is all your fault!!!!!!

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:15:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wildnbeautiful




((Since we are on the topic of "taking responsibility," I guess my question would be, what part of this is "your responsibility" in allowing all of this to occur?))

I find that very OFFENSIVE Sir I in NO WAY knew ANY OF THIS till it happened..it happen in March before we wewre married even a yr and He knew about my online Master we discussed it He didnt mind and it didnt affect anything in my real life...and FYI my Master helped me thru all of it..my child DOES NOT blame me and I will not allow You to victumize me yet again so your opinion is your opinion..I was just stating that not everyONE is who they say they are and not everyone is perfect they make mistakes and HE was one of mine ...I certiannly didnt allow it to happen it was premeditated and He deserves to be executed..


respectfully nyla


So we're beating up a girl who got close to a "dom" and allowed him to take advantage of her because she trusted him, but now a woman with children comes on...she met a dom in January, moved in with him in April (only talked on phone before that) and her child is raped and beaten by this guy?

As I said in another thread, if you only have yourself, then you make your choices, and what happens, happens. But those who have innocents in their trust, better do a LOT more research before taking up with some "master" because it makes your panties wet to serve.

And Nyla, you can be offended all you want, but this is the absolute truth per your own words regarding how this relationship came to be. You bear responsibility as well. Until you own it, the only people you should serve are your children.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:15:17 AM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Julia, I am aroused after looking at your new pic... and it is all your fault!!!!!!


You see, it would be better if you took responsibility


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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:16:47 AM   
wildnbeautiful


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Status: offline 		LOL i dont need help for anything I am completely happy with my Master and myself and my child is doing quite well thankyou my Mistakes i have learned from and well what you say dont matter to me its a opinion that you have meh your words ..have no effect on me i am stronger now and no i dont need anyones attention for that matter because ALL that matters to me is my kids and my Master nothing more nothing else..

His nyla

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:17:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
You see, it would be better if you took responsibility

How about I just take you instead, you overeducated wench?


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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:18:14 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		I think you can rest assured knowing no one here will be trying to steal you away.



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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:23:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wildnbeautiful

((Since we are on the topic of "taking responsibility," I guess my question would be, what part of this is "your responsibility" in allowing all of this to occur?))

I find that very OFFENSIVE Sir I in NO WAY knew ANY OF THIS till it happened..it happen in March before we wewre married even a yr and He knew about my online Master we discussed it He didnt mind and it didnt affect anything in my real life...and FYI my Master helped me thru all of it..my child DOES NOT blame me and I will not allow You to victumize me yet again so your opinion is your opinion..I was just stating that not everyONE is who they say they are and not everyone is perfect they make mistakes and HE was one of mine ...I certiannly didnt allow it to happen it was premeditated and He deserves to be executed..


respectfully nyla


You are completely wrong.  He wasn't just your mistake, he is now also your daughter's mistake.  She has to live the rest of her life with all of the ramifications brought on due to the attack she endured. 

You allowed this guy to enter your life. You "chose" him.  You have a much higher calling.  While you have a responsibility to yourself to pick out an appropriate partner, you also have a much higher responsibility and that is to protect your daughter.

I would bet dollars to donuts that there were all sorts of signals that you simply were not aware enough to recieve or that you simply chose to ignore.  For instance does your last exhusband, "vanilla Dom," have a prior criminal record?

I would love to meet, Mr. Magical, your current and temporary Dom.  He has got to be a peach.

Good luck to you, you will need it.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 2/9/2010 9:24:58 AM >

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:23:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wildnbeautiful

LOL i dont need help for anything I am completely happy with my Master and myself and my child is doing quite well thankyou my Mistakes i have learned from and well what you say dont matter to me its a opinion that you have meh your words ..have no effect on me i am stronger now and no i dont need anyones attention for that matter because ALL that matters to me is my kids and my Master nothing more nothing else..

His nyla


I truly hope CPS watches you very closely. It's obvious your priorities are not what they should be.

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RE: Well, you all were right about him... - 2/9/2010 9:23:45 AM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: wildnbeautiful

LOL i dont need help for anything I am completely happy with my Master and myself and my child is doing quite well thankyou my Mistakes i have learned from and well what you say dont matter to me its a opinion that you have meh your words ..have no effect on me i am stronger now and no i dont need anyones attention for that matter because ALL that matters to me is my kids and my Master nothing more nothing else..

His nyla


You know, I do not normally say something like this over the internet... but if your child was raped I would hope at the very least you would get counseling for the child, perhaps group counseling with you included to help your child heal. There are some good things that you could learn by seeking help so you do not make matters worse for the child... unless it really is all about you 


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