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Married folks - 3/27/2006 7:51:36 AM

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I'm curious. What is the ratio of married people seeking encounters on this site? Are most people here interested only in a casual meet and beat? Why do they always write "Married vanilla" like that's suppose to make some huge difference? Then they give this grocery list of demands of what they wish of their paramour. Do I write, "Oh Mr. Dom man! i'm so sorry Your domineering wifey who gets all the life benefits from You won't allow You to wail on her butt! Let me please be Your frustration releasing punching bag! No strings or emotional attachements of course. Sir. Oh. And i'll make sure i'm fit, beautiful, highly educated, sane and have an exciting career. Just like You requested. Sir."

Okay. Tis not a question. Tis a rant. I just had to. Sorry. No I'm not.

Sheesh!

RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 7:57:37 AM

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There are many married subs and doms interested in having a kinky affair. Be grateful for the ones who are up front about their situation.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 7:59:03 AM

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ohhh this is priceless! Guess you've had a few of those emails eh? What a great rant and a great first post, welcome to the boards!

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 8:04:57 AM

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Thank you MAHOO. You're right LuckyAlbatross, better to know now then later. It still gets on my nerves.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 8:05:21 AM

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Personally, I'm getting tired of all the single people who are just on here looking for a spouse.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 8:23:51 AM

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I tend to get a lot of mail from men who describe themselves as single but then later during a chat they tell me they are in longterm relationships (but not yet married) and their girlfriends are vanilla. I have no judgements to make as i am married and have an open relationship with my husband and am open about this to those i chat to. However there are a huge amount of folk on this site who are attached and the more open and honest they are about it the better.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 8:57:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Personally, I'm getting tired of all the single people who are just on here looking for a spouse.

Yep. I thought this site was about kink. Sometimes I feel if I want kink I should vist a poetry site or some god forbid, a social work site.

Here's a site for those who have a particular bitch kink http://www.naswdc.org/ Though my advice is to steer clear of social workers. They are the ultimate hypocrites.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 11:57:16 AM

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Sure it's about kink. I'm just partial to honest perverts.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:02:42 PM

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Let's be honest, in the real world, people remain married and want to remain married for all sorts of reasons and often it doesn't include love, which means experiencing kink, one has to step outside ones everyday life.

However, I'm not married but even I can see that.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:06:30 PM

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We are a Dominant married couple. We have been married almost 20 years. We have met several people from this site yet we are still looking for the ones that will join us in a serous D/s relationship. Because of the fact that we are both Dominant, we are seeking both a male and a female slave. We are polyamorous and do believe that we can have a relationship with another besides our primary spouse.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:10:51 PM

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i know Master and i are on this site looking for people in the lifestyle for freinds that live around Us. that is stated in my profile at least. We do go to the muches and the events around when We can but it is not always easy, so to Us this was easier.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:13:53 PM

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It appears that it's the toughest situation to find one's self in. We're married, have room in our hearts for another female, and are very genuine and upfront about it. To find a female seeking a couple is one of the hardest searches. That may be why many of these "single" men hide it, hoping that when the truth does come out it won't make a difference.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:15:27 PM

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quote:

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May your last pathetic act among living be to suffocate on a crackwhore's vomit!

Gods, but that made me hot. You silver-tongued devil, you.

::fans self::

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:17:22 PM

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That may be why many of these "single" men hide it, hoping that when the truth does come out it won't make a difference.
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That is why we believe in honesty from the beginning. We have a lot of information on our profile for any potential partner to see. They just need to know that if they are not sure about something the best thing to do is ask.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:18:58 PM

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yes don't we all wish we had his gift of eloquence. LOL

Wild

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:20:28 PM

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Okay, who was supposed to be watching the door and let Fisher in? lol

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:21:42 PM

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I am married to a vanilla and I love him but,(yes there is a but) I am not open with him about this. He is very religious and a bit square. We have children and he would use them to make me stop. We were raised very differently. Yes this is about kink but kink doesn't always have to be about sex. I state up front I am married and not looking for sex. I am still dominant and am still a good wife. I have never cheated on my husband while together. Just my little piece to add to the post.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:25:12 PM

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It is all about fulfillment. I am partial to those who are honest enough to admit they aren't fulfilled and don't require a perfect match in order to be fulfilled.

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:26:46 PM

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Good point to add. We have known many who were involved in a vanilla relationship and were up front about it. They are not necessarily looking for sex, but more so for the feeling of submission to someone. Since their spouse is not interested in this they look elsewhere. What we would hope for them is that they can be honest enough with their spouse and get some understanding of their need, but often this is not the case so they end up having to hide their activities.

Wild

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RE: Married folks - 3/27/2006 12:38:35 PM

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LMAO! Priceless!

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Personally, I'm getting tired of all the single people who are just on here looking for a spouse.

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