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RE: No limit slaves - 5/11/2006 1:18:45 AM

allspicey

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How serious can one be in this? When I moved in with Master we both knew it would be a no limits relationship on my part. Because my daughter lives with us and is kink aware, I explained to her that sometimes she might see me in behaviour she didn't agree with. In the course of our discussion the topic of no limits came up and I explained it to her like this.

"The trust that we have between us is extremely great. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he loves me and cares for me and seeks to make decisions that will bring us both happiness and fulfillment in this relationship. This might not always be the outcome but it will always be his desire. There would be no reason for Master to ask me to kill myself that would benefit him. If there came such a request I have no doubt it would be for a very good reason. For example, what if a terrible plague from which there was no escape and no cure, were to sweep the city. This plague was not only ultimately deadly but the symptoms were extremely painful and tortuous. Master might make the decision that he wished to spare me pain and suffering and I would trust in that decision because I know that to have me leave him would cause him more anguish than anyone would care to go through voluntarily. That is the level of our relationship and why I would trust him with my very life itself."

In truth, in such a situation, he would probably join me. He has already told me that if anything happens to him, I must try to continue on without him. That would not be my choice, as he knows, but he has made it clear that it is his desire and I will honour that to the best of my ability.

For some of us this isn't kink, it isn't for fun...it's how we live and die.

spicey

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RE: No limit slaves - 5/11/2006 7:27:11 AM

buffiyum

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John Warren Sir,
one thinks that sounds about right. Another explanation for saying right off the bat 'one has no limits' or 'I demand you have no limits', could be insecurity, wherein one wish so desperately to be owned by Anyone or given some kind of attention by Anyone, that one think stating immediately that one has 'no limits' will ensure just such 'ownership' or 'attention' (in the case of the submissive/slave/or wannabe), and in the case of the Dominant/Domina, perhaps such insecurity is because They donot feel enough self-confidence in Their Dominance to allow time and experience with a particular one, prior to demanding / or simply receiving, that release of a one's 'limits' into Their control.
The release of a one's 'limits' , is a very freeing thing, but it is also a very scary thing, when such limits are released into the control of a One who doesnot share the same values, ethics or of course, limits.
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buffy

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RE: No limit slaves - 5/11/2006 2:10:14 PM

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I think that anyone with common sense has SOME limits...what is a limit? something that would make me walk away from a relationship because it would do irrevocable harm to me emotinally or physically. As slave I have five hard limits no stds pedophelia necrophelia beastiality or drug use. As domme I have a few more on top of those. Things I do not enjoy I will not do to My slave. If My slave has something that he/she cannot bear at all no matter what and I cannot live without it then obviously we are not a good match. So when i seek someone I look to see if we are compatable both in the bdsm way and nilla way as part of the criteria for me to own someone is to get along wtih them and find companionship in and out of the dungeon.

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