RE: female forced orgasm

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: female forced orgasm

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: female forced orgasm

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 10:16:41 AM

Posts: 3044
Joined: 5/9/2007
From: Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I have only done it once or twice. It has something to do with the tension in the legs (you have to get the tension off your feet). I know alot of guys that cannot orgasm standing up either, or their legs give out immediately afterwards.

Cali

Hmm I must be a freak it is not a problem for me has happened countless times but then again I am alone when it is happening maybe if I am with someone it would bring another set of issues? I didnt realize this was a thing. Hmmm, I could join the circus and...

_____________________________

"Exaggerate the essential, leave the obvious vague." Vincent Van Gogh

I'd Rather Be With You

Every single line means something.
Jean-Michel Basquiat

(in reply to CalifChick)

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 10:49:43 AM

Posts: 8
Joined: 1/14/2009
Status: offline

Standing & orgasm= no problem for me.

(in reply to heartcream)

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 11:29:30 AM

Posts: 12600
Joined: 7/7/2007
Status: offline

Just to let you all know.......... notes are being taken.

Jeff

_____________________________

"If you don't live it, it won't come out your horn." Charlie Parker

(in reply to Claryce)

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 1:19:09 PM

OriginallyFromLA

Posts: 87
Joined: 2/10/2010
Status: offline

Forced orgasm sounds like an oxymoron to me. So what, you DON'T want an orgasm?

Now, continuous unstoppable orgasm that goes on until I turn off the switch......no that's not any better either.

Remote controlled MMS/SMS unstoppable orgasm that keeps going until I throw the switch so I can can send the message "cum for me baby" while she is in a meeting or shopping.....Now that's a product I would buy.

_____________________________

We keep you alive to serve this ship. Row well, and live.-Quintas Arius

Love IS pain, Highness. Anyone that says different is selling something.-Dread Pirate Roberts

(in reply to Jeffff)

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 4:14:44 PM

Posts: 261
Joined: 1/11/2010
Status: offline

I thought a little more about the term "forced orgasm" yeah, oxymoron. Maybe as someone else said delayed, or controlled might be better. I used the term forced because she had to stand.
I never realized it was such a big deal for the ladies to orgasm standing.

(in reply to OriginallyFromLA)

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 4:37:05 PM

Posts: 9410
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline

It isn't for ALL ladies....remember everyone is different and you only heard from a small sample of the female population of the world

_____________________________

You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.

Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.

(in reply to ricken)

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 7:19:00 PM

Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline

Forced because I can be unable to breathe, leg muscles cramping, begging him to stop and he keeps on giving me more.

Just because I wanted the first couple doesn't mean I want 30 of them.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!

(in reply to windchymes)

RE: female forced orgasm - 2/16/2010 7:23:55 PM

Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ricken

I have been thinking about the concept of a forced orgasm for my sub...Seen some ideas on porn and thought it looked good, so I would try it.
She does have orgasms and often pretty intense I love watching her.
This weekend, I thought it would be cool to try...I started out slowly teasing her and makeing sure she was really horny. Then I stoped and made her do a few things...make me a drink, change her outfit to do some modeling for me, I told her to put on a porn DVD she likes, then I bound her (standing) and put the vibrator to her. I was talking to her and playing with her tits, and a couple of times she seemed like she was close. But never orgasmed, even she wanted too.
When I realized it wasn't working, I backed off, let her calm down and re-started in a less agressive way. At the point she told me her pussy was too numb from the vibrator, I actually used the low setting.
I am wondering if this is common, are vibrators too much for some women? Or do I need to change the way I'm doing things? I wasn't even useing one of those Hitachi (sp?) Any insight would be great, thanks

There is way too much going on here, I would not be able to come standing up or with the stop and start thing. Once I get going if it is delayed too long, it will not happen, which would suck.

I like the good old fashioned lying down, bound or not, him going down on me or using a vibe (I cannot use the Hitachi either, too intense).

But standing and stopping...not for me.

(in reply to ricken)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/2/2010 7:22:02 PM

takemeforyourown

Posts: 430
Joined: 2/24/2007
Status: offline

I have the opposite problem from most of these women; it takes a friggin' freight train to make me orgasm. NOTHING does it for me except a strong vibration. I found the Hitachi too MILD. I am a longtime user of the original Acuvibe (low setting). All the men who think they can be the ONE to bring it for me... I just sigh and wait till I'm alone again with my b.o.b.

(in reply to sexyred1)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/2/2010 7:44:53 PM

Posts: 715
Joined: 10/7/2006
Status: offline

a heavy hood cover perhaps takemeforyourown?

(in reply to takemeforyourown)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/2/2010 8:04:09 PM

Posts: 2045
Joined: 2/4/2008
From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline

Stop watching porn
quit using the vibrator (and yes, women can become very sensitive and even lose the ability to orgasm without one)
talk to this woman, not us, hopefully she knows something about her own orgasms

_____________________________

You're crazy bitch
But you f*ck so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on

(in reply to ricken)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/2/2010 8:53:36 PM

Posts: 3991
Status: offline

Next time... get a Hitachi Wand, bindfold her (to keep her focused) laying down (on a comfy bed, for example), spread open (for easy access), start out by going down on her, then after she's orgasmed a few times, add the Hitachi Wand on LOW, then after she's orgasmed a number of times, turn the Hitachi Wand on HIGH and leave it on high... then when she thinks she can't take any more, add a couple dildos to the mix (vaginally and/or anally... if she's into anal, that is); the combination of all these things... building and building... will snap her head off!!!

< Message edited by MasterSlaveLA -- 3/2/2010 8:56:40 PM >

_____________________________

It's only kinky the first time!!!

(in reply to ricken)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/2/2010 9:04:05 PM

Posts: 199
Joined: 3/2/2010
Status: offline

~Fast Reply~
i don't think i would be able to orgasm standing either.....my legs give out and turn to jelly immediately after. Unless i was tied up onto something so i didn't fall. As for forced orgasm, unless i'm told not to, as soon as i leave the starting gate it's non-stop over and over.

(in reply to MasterSlaveLA)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/2/2010 9:39:53 PM

Posts: 5871
Joined: 2/19/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ricken
I thought a little more about the term "forced orgasm" yeah, oxymoron. Maybe as someone else said delayed, or controlled might be better. I used the term forced because she had to stand.

I'm not sure what you were trying to accomplish, I would refer to "forced orgasm" as forced orgasm torture and it's the sort of thing DesFIP is talking about. I know it sounds like an oxymoron but it really is torture, my girls begged me to cane her instead because it would be less painful. If you were doing orgasm delay than yes it wouldn't be terribly uncommon for you to be able to get her to the point where she was desensitized, numbed or even chafed such that it just wasn't going to happen.

(in reply to ricken)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/3/2010 2:02:03 AM

ranja

Posts: 2111
Joined: 11/1/2007
Status: offline

Reaching an orgasm while standing up is more difficult maybe... but i find when He is doing everything right i could orgasm upside down even.

It seems to me you two are not really used to eachother yet... some times things don't exactly work out the way you would have liked... no sweat, just try again later.

I personally don't much enjoy a vibrator on my clit all the time, i like it better when it is used internally, i like fingers on my clit much better, and the less pressure the better and care should be taken that i am wet enough...
sometimes i do not like jelly either because it seems artificial... i might feel that i am running behind, i like it much better when we have enough patience to wait for my own juices to start running.

I suppose if she is trying to get away you are too heavy handed and if she is pushing towards you she wants more pressure

When we were not used to eachother much and He did not always read me right or i was not clear enough giving Him the info He needed, sometimes i got too close and lost it too often and after a few times of getting too close and losing it, indeed some numbness seems to set in and orgasm seems impossible.
I could usually still get there by riding my wrist, my legs clamped together, but sometimes it was really hard work.

(in reply to ricken)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/3/2010 11:35:50 AM

Posts: 261
Joined: 1/11/2010
Status: offline

Just wanted to do a little update....
We do communicate pretty well (I think) thats why/how we became a couple.
I have stoped introducing new ideas. I usually come up with something every week, but I'm holding back
I heard cautions about over use of vibrators causing sensitivity.
I have been watching closely when she is cuming/ready to cum, and paying attention to my timing.

Ranja, you sound a little like her, yeah in the begining I was too heavy handed, she likes/responds better to the very light, teasing touch in the begining, THEN more pressure. She doesn't care for jelly either, it sometimes takes her a while to get wet, even if she feels excited enough. Your post sounds like us "... some times things don't exactly work out the way you would have liked... no sweat, just try again later. " Practice, practice, practice is our motto.
I have made her orgasm a few times since my post (we don't live together) on her back. My plan is that soon I will get her standing just before her orgasm and get her to a standing orgasm.

I also asked her about multiple orgasms, this is something she said she rarely does.her orgasms are pretty intense and she claims she has no eergy after. I think this will be the "forced orgasm" I would have to do it after her first one. But I will wait longer on the "forced" and just play with forcing her to stand while orgasm first.

AND the coin jar for the Hitachi fund is about a third full (guess about $20)

(in reply to ranja)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/3/2010 1:01:42 PM

Posts: 26
Joined: 6/16/2005
Status: offline

hehehe
try this-it works for me-(hint1)keep your mouth closed

http://www.pornotube.com/media.php?m=1517163

(hint2)there is a 40 min version somewhere

(in reply to CalifChick)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/4/2010 5:49:10 AM

Posts: 5871
Joined: 2/19/2008
Status: offline

Here's the Hitachi on a reputable electronics site for $36.79 and free shipping: http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16896630001

(in reply to ricken)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/4/2010 3:36:38 PM

Posts: 2272
Joined: 10/27/2005
From: Palm Beach County, Fl
Status: offline

I was just going to recommend ebay- I recently got another hitachi (for Sir's house) for about $40.

I can orgasm standing, but it was much more difficult at first for me to reach it. And, even now, it will be less intense than lying down because some proprioception has to be reserved for balance to keep standing.

For us, forced orgasms start when I have had as many orgasms as I think I can. But, of course, we know that what I think I can do doesn't matter. That's when He'll start on my g-spot, or use the wand, or just f*ck me harder and order me to cum again because He wants more. He has caused me to do something I never thought I would in this lifetime- beg to stop cumming.

_____________________________

Property of Cuffkinks

Member:
The Pimpettes
MoGa's IN-Crowd

"You're the gleam in my eye, the smile on my face and the bulge in my pants" - Cuffkinks

(in reply to GotSteel)

RE: female forced orgasm - 3/4/2010 9:29:44 PM

Posts: 723
Joined: 1/8/2010
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Madame4a

Stop watching porn

This is what I was going to say. Thank you. Everyone seems to have skipped over the "so I got this idea from porn" part, and I think that's probably where most of the problem is. I would reference the "porn isn't real" thread(s), but I'm too busy scouring the internet for an affordable Hitachi magic wand

(in reply to Madame4a)

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: female forced orgasm

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2024

Terms of Service

0.098