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As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery market? - 2/16/2010 6:17:08 AM

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I entered into a state of consensual slavery aged 19 with my parents blessing and complete understanding. I was owned in the moral, physical, emotional and spiritual sense for some 17 years by a lesbian lady, who was also a school principal. Sadly, she passed on 3 years ago and I found mysef free and homeless. I have solved the homeless part but have not yet found any new lady owner. It would appear that lifestyle events and the internet are no longer viable ways to find a dominant woman who is seeking to own a live in and fully trained, experienced and acomplished slave anymore. Are others who entered into consensual slavery before the internet and widespread lifestyle events, experiencing the same problem I wonder?

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 6:21:32 AM

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Probably, if they complain like this after just joining the site today.

And you wonder why you're having trouble. Jesus Christ man- get a clue.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 6:43:56 AM

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I looked at your profile... Try writing as a man who is looking for a woman, and wants her to be a Domme. Your profile reads like a cheesy advertisement, and doesn't make you sound like a person with interests, who would be fun to just spend time with.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 6:45:16 AM

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There is an exquisite joke to be made playing off the title of this thread, but I have not had enough caffeine to make it.

I think the OP means to ask a more fundamental question - is a sucker really born every minute? To which I respond, ok, maybe not once a minute but we do have many suckers about in the world and depending on what your goal is (from internet role-play to seducing some elderly lady and leeching off of her estate) and your skill level in executing it, you probably can get what you want.

In terms of skill, I'd work on the story. Or at least run your words through spell/grammar check. It's difficult to believe that you were the slave of an elementary school principal for 17 years without ever learning the correct spelling of "elementary." And it's difficult to miss the plagiarism in your profile when the sentences go from sloppy grammar and spelling to proper english so abruptly.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 6:46:02 AM

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I also question the "Old Guard, expert" at 38?

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 6:49:14 AM

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My money is on CPA trapped in loveless marriage compensating with rich fantasy life.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 6:52:48 AM

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There is an exquisite joke to be made playing off the title of this thread, but I have not had enough caffeine to make it.

There is that one.

But also the "Used Slave. One previous Owner only - a little old school teacher from Pasadena" line.

My serious response would be along the lines of it now should be easier to find an Owner , what with the internet and more lifestyle events. This being offset by being 17 years older and possibly a less desirable commodity.

Pass the caffeine.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:19:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

There is an exquisite joke to be made playing off the title of this thread, but I have not had enough caffeine to make it.

I think the OP means to ask a more fundamental question - is a sucker really born every minute? To which I respond, ok, maybe not once a minute but we do have many suckers about in the world and depending on what your goal is (from internet role-play to seducing some elderly lady and leeching off of her estate) and your skill level in executing it, you probably can get what you want.

In terms of skill, I'd work on the story. Or at least run your words through spell/grammar check. It's difficult to believe that you were the slave of an elementary school principal for 17 years without ever learning the correct spelling of "elementary." And it's difficult to miss the plagiarism in your profile when the sentences go from sloppy grammar and spelling to proper english so abruptly.

Wow, yeah- a shitload of his profile text is plagiarized, and you're right: I don't believe for a minute that in those 17 years he didn't learn how to spell elementary, if he was with said owner.

OP: your profile text alone would make me run screaming away from you. Its miles too long, waaaay too preachy, and dripping with fantasy, like you've been playing an online RPG for years. It sounds nothing like what I'd expect to hear from anyone who had any realtime experience. You're scaring people off because they know bullshit when they see it. Duh...

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:19:47 AM

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I lived with an elementary school teacher for about 22 years ... I can promise you that I learned to either spell a word right, or choose a different word that I can spell. Even with my mild dyslexia and habit of typing faster than I think, I do fairly well - my mother would be horrified if I didn't. Somehow, I don't see an elementary school teacher/principle/whatever being ok with a slave that can't communicate literately. It is pretty clear which parts of your profile you wrote yourself, and which you copied from somewhere else. You got 'coronary thrombosis' right and 'elementary' wrong??

To your actual question - it's difficult to find what you are looking for, and the more specific you are looking for, the more difficult it is. You also don't present any benefits to your prospective owner(s) besides having the house cleaned ... I can get that from a dozen or more guys and I wouldn't have to live with them 24/7. What makes you different from them, besides the fact that you would live in the same house? What else do you have to offer besides a clean house?

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:25:40 AM

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But also the "Used Slave. One previous Owner only - a little old school teacher from Pasadena" line.

Oooh... I like that. Performed regular maintenance, used mostly for highway miles, mileage notebook available, pristine trunk.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:27:15 AM

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All the other posters were on the money with their answers to this thread and I just have to add....OP, have you looked at your profile? I did and my brain is still reeling from the sheer volume of stuff and nonsense on there. If I were ever to meet you I'd have a gag at hand to stuff into your mouth asap just because I'd read your profile and was terrified you'd start talking. This is so typical for someone who can't find a partner because of their own poor social skills to blame the rest of the world for their failure.

I'll be very clear, the problems you are experiencing are because of you, not because there isn't anyone out there. Honestly to believe that you were in consensual slavery at 19 with the blessing of your parents is a huuuuuge story although I will have to say that the effort put into this with the profile (warning...do NOT read the profile, your brain will go into a catatonic state) and the thread means you are serious about your wanking material. For the sheer effort I must applaud you.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:32:13 AM

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Honestly to believe that you were in consensual slavery at 19 with the blessing of your parents is a huuuuuge story

Somehow the detail about living in Georgia made this more entertaining to me. I imagine his parents sitting him down for a serious discussion in 1992. Son, now that you've failed out of boot camp we need to discuss the direction of your life. We've found you a good position in the house of a proper lesbian lady. We suggest you go make the best of it.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:39:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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Honestly to believe that you were in consensual slavery at 19 with the blessing of your parents is a huuuuuge story

Somehow the detail about living in Georgia made this more entertaining to me. I imagine his parents sitting him down for a serious discussion in 1992. Son, now that you've failed out of boot camp we need to discuss the direction of your life. We've found you a good position in the house of a proper lesbian lady. We suggest you go make the best of it.

Snort...so true. The weird thing is after reading the profile (No...don't do it!) and the thread I logically believe that the OP is someone out there writing up his favorite fantasy but he seems so isolated and uneducated....it might be true. Gasp. He might actually have been living in isolation for a big chunk of time somewhere down in Georgia with a lesbian elementary school principal. That would boggle the mind wouldnt' it?

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:39:46 AM

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If I had a nickel for every "male slave" who whines, "It's never my fault that....."

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:44:01 AM

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Forget the nickel, I'd take a penny for each - I'd still have enough to buy some new toys LOL

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:52:27 AM

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. . . Your profile reads like a cheesy advertisement . . .

You clicked on the wrong button, that was my profile.
I like cheese!

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 7:53:18 AM

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I have some point to bring out here:

His parents gave their blessing for their son, aged 19, to be a slave in this lifestyle. Really?

He was cared for by a Mistress for YEARS and she made no previsions for his care after her passing. Unlikely.

His profile is a train wreck.

His story is a mismash of borrowed fantasies.

No sane human can live the way he claims to have lived, or wants to live, for the entirety of their life.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 8:07:29 AM

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Thank you for the warning on the profile. If it was anywhere near in length to the message that I received on the other side, others are correct that it is entirely too long.

Also, I'm calling bull on the whole nonsense. There is a thriving BDSM community in the OP's location. I participated in it for years and was elected it's Chairman of the Board for the 2008/2009 term. Even if they were private only, the death of any elementary school principal, past or present would have made the paper. (The Chronicle is a rag, but they are very throrough in being a small city news related source. That's about all it's worth is community news/events.)

So, OP, unless you have only started attending said local group in the last six months or so, part of the issue is that you haven't gotten up off of your tail to even bother attending the local munch. It runs the third Thursday of every month. Demos and play parties run the second Saturday of the month and are open to all vetted members as well as vetted members of reciprocal groups in the area.

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 8:15:12 AM

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I also question the "Old Guard, expert" at 38?

Jeff

I also question why a gay man would be looking to serve a female? Unless, of course, he isn't a gay man and thinks that putting "Old Guard, expert" in his profile makes him look more appealing rather than understanding that now only his ass is showing (and not in that "Oh I can do something to that" kinda way).

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RE: As the bottom fallen out of the consensual slavery ... - 2/16/2010 8:28:56 AM

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There once was a Dommely headteacher
Who enslaved a nineteen-year-old leech(er)
Now he's moved along
(She's supposedly gone)
And dear Alfred is desp'rate to meetcha!

I'm not entirely happy with this but it's the best I could come up with-I have a migraine. Thinking hurts.

Suggestions for better rhymes will be gladly accepted.

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